what is ,or what appears to be?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Here is a question ,what is more important, what is, or what appears to be?
So for instance bpel is what you use during sex ,but nbpel is what is seen.
Go to the gym, is function more important than looks?
Are women you meet able to look beyond the surface? Can your boss?
Do they even try?

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Here is a question ,what is more important, what is, or what appears to be?
So for instance bpel is what you use during sex ,but nbpel is what is seen.
Go to the gym, is function more important than looks?
Are women you meet able to look beyond the surface? Can your boss?
Do they even try?

I think it correlates all across the board. The shallow relationships or shallow aspects of anything will come first, in quantity, abundant all around you. The deeper relationships, connections, functions, aspects, these come more rarely, but with greater quality. Apply what you will. NBPEL is the shallow quality. BPEL is the deeper quality. Muscles are the shallow quality. Core strength is the deeper quality. Looks are the shallow quality. Personality is the deeper quality. Success/failure is the shallow quality. Perseverance is the deeper quality. Like that, no?

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

Well said! In the end it is truely the what is that matters. A women will go for the deeper dick after she knows the difference. At work I am the heavy mover, I'm not the most built but I am the strongest. Working side by side with the muscle guy the bosses have seen me outshine them, lifting more pushing large pieces of gear farther, just being able to man handle things the best. In general work I use a standard pace, guys sayy I move slow! But every boss knows I get my work done the fastest and the cleanest. In the end it is the results that matter, not the perseption of things before.

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If more bosses looked past the outside more capable seniors would get a fair chance!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Core strength will usually build up the core of your body, giving a thick waisted appearence. This can lead people to think you are fat.
On a personal level I think the strength and stability acquired is important enough to ignore the look thing if you are a man . However I do have some reservations about women doing direct exercises like weighted side bends. Of course some women are serious athletes and pursue serious strength ,but if looks are a factor then hip/waist differential is important for a woman.