When is it too small for "comfortable" sex?

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

As a virgin here, I'm just wondering when NBPEL becomes too small for "comfortable" sex? By "comfortable" I mean being able to do all the positions and not slip out all the time. I'm using NBPEL because that way we can stay safer and just think of BPEL as extra.

Thanks.

[Donnatello Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Donnatello]

I suspect that below 4 inches you may begin to get problems...above that and you should be fine

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Another question where is no answer, ever gal is different. I dont get the question. DO you mean at what size will you plain and simply dissapoint? Usually a dick must be too big to be uncomfortable for sex, to small wouldnt be uncomfortable.

[NCC707 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCC707]

Flaccid ......

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

Another question where is no answer, ever gal is different. I dont get the question. DO you mean at what size will you plain and simply dissapoint? Usually a dick must be too big to be uncomfortable for sex, to small wouldnt be uncomfortable.

Sorry, maybe I didn't state it correctly. I don't mean what size would be uncomfortable in the sense that it causes pain. I mean what size would be too small for all the general non-porn positions? So assuming you have a relatively thin male and thin female, how small would the penis have to be for you to give up on some positions?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

DAmn, I am not sure. I suppose some would be difficult even with an average sized penis. I actually think the gut is more of a problem then penis size. There are so many positions I see in porn that are just absolutely rediculous. i think even at my size some would be difficult. I think if one is of average size the range of possibilities is probably pretty good. I guess at under 5 inches some of them would be a problem.

I hate to say it this way but the only way we will find out is to have some of the less than average sized guys give us feedback.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

I'm upper average, and I couldn't reach when taking a "larger lady" from behind.

Point is, sometimes, whoever you're with, some positions don't work and you have to thrash it out together

[Black Amethyst Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Black Amethyst]

Well that would all depend on your body size and weight compared to her body size and weight. Example, if you are about 250ish and considered overweight and she happens to be the same then I suspenct 4 inches not working over here because of all of the extra fat that lies in between.

I am 5'7 and 150lbs of muscle and I am a thin type body. My wife also happens to be thin but she has a larger booty. If she lays on her side with her legs together, I have a hard time fucking her while spooning. As a matter of fact, it is nearly impossible. Even though she says she feels it and likes it, I am not enjoying it at all since I am having a hard time with reach and movement.


So again, it all depends on each other's body type.

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

I guess you guys are right. It takes more than the size of the penis to decided how well two people "connect." I just thought there was a general number out there that people could agree on would work for most positions between two relatively thin people. Thanks for the replies.

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

I have a hard time fucking her while spooning. As a matter of fact, it is nearly impossible.

This, no issues with other positions (that we've done...). For the record, since it is important to the question, both my wife and I are thin (she has a bit of a booty ) and at last measurement I'm 5.875 NBPEL.