is there something wrong?

[snorlax97 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close snorlax97]

In my previous post, I talked about how when I masturbate, I don't orgasm. Thank god I got some really helpful and detailed replies, which makes me feel much better. This question is somewhat related. I remember when I was younger (approx 8/9 years old?) and when I masturbated, I would feel a nice sensation (presumably what would have been an orgasm). I forgot when this started, but some time later on, I didn't feel this sensation anymore after I masturbated. I have always pondered what could cause this, but couldn't come up with anything. No serious injury,etc.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Sorry about not responding sooner...

That day I actually tried an experiment. I masturbated to orgasm and made sure to occupy my mind moments before I eclipsed my PONR (point of no return)

What happened after I stimulated myself to this point was I began focusing on anything and everything else around the room. Noticing patterns, reading book spines, looking at the paint details on the walls, you know, anything. When I climaxed, I noticed an incredible numbness... nothing... Absolutely nothing. I got a small tingle in my right shoulder as if there were a slightly cool breeze passing by my body, but I was able to completely block out the sensation of orgasm by occupying my mind.

Orgasm and Ejaculation are separate things and many MMO guys have figured out the hard way that you can ejaculate without feeling orgasm. The hard part is feeling orgasm without ejaculating. I have an incredibly quick rebound so I got hard again, right away, and went at it again this time without distracting myself. When I climaxed this time I focused on the sensations I remembered and the faces of women I've loved. I felt their warmness around my shaft in my mind and pictured my favorite faces of theirs. I flashed multiple images of these women in my mind just as I climaxed and had a mind bending, unrealistically powerful orgasm.

I'm sure you just have to bring you mind into the zone and stop focusing on trying to feel an orgasm. stop looking for things, and if you watch porn, give it a break. Focus on feeling your "plateau" crescendo until you climax... When you climax think of the sexiest things you can imagine and just let you body do what it does.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

I'm sure you just have to bring you mind into the zone and stop focusing on trying to feel an orgasm. stop looking for things, and if you watch porn, give it a break. Focus on feeling your "plateau" crescendo until you climax... When you climax think of the sexiest things you can imagine and just let you body do what it does.

While an orgasm is a very 'mental' thing, snorlax's issue could also be physiological in nature.

Snorlax, have you seen a urologist or sex therapist? It might be worth your time if you are really interested in figuring this out.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

given his previous post, he mentioned that he can Functionally Orgasm (that is, ejaculate). And that he has the building sensations up to and at the point of orgasm, but when he ejaculates he feels nothing, I went on the assumption he's physically capable of orgasm, just mentally blocking it.

But then again, I am not a physician or therapist, soooooo yeah. Take my advice with a grain of salt and a whole plate of incredulity, LOL!

[snorlax97 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close snorlax97]

While an orgasm is a very 'mental' thing, snorlax's issue could also be physiological in nature.

Snorlax, have you seen a urologist or sex therapist? It might be worth your time if you are really interested in figuring this out.

I would definitely consider a visit to the urologist or sex therapist. But SBE does bring up a good point that got me thinking... I do feel the build up, but nothing during ejaculation... I hope the assumption that I am physically capable to orgasm is true. Ever since I posted my original post I have always been pondering on every possible reason. I'm going to put this on the record, cause who knows, you guys might know more than I do and more than what those typical google posts that just state but don't explain. I remember in when learning about puberty in school they always said that there is no set range from when it starts and stops. Thing is, although nothing is set in stone, I'm 19 and am JUST starting to get facial hair and armpit hair (got pubes around 2 years ago)... like it is really about bloody time. And it grows SLOWWWWWW. Like I can go a month without shaving and all I got are these pathetic Fu-Manchu typed cat whiskers. So I was thinking, low testosterone levels and/or hormone imbalances. I searched it up and it appears as one of the possible things that contribute to anorgasmia (which could be considered physiological?: I searched what physiological things could cause my not having a orgasm and many sites state injury to the pelvis (only thing I can think of was this one time I was playing in a park and it had on of those climbing platform things on a 45 degree angle which are basically a bunch of vertical and horizontal steel chains crossing each other and I fell really hard on it, one leg on each side of the chain. It hurt like a bitch. But if I remember correctly, I still felt that good sensation when I would masturbate) or spinal cord.

SBE, I can't believe you actually went out and did a little case study to see for your self. Nothing beats first hand experience (no pun intended). Next time I masturbate I'll make sure nothing is on my mind and just 110% relaxed. Although I know I shouldn't focus on anything I guess I gotta focus on making sure I am relaxed. I don't think my focus while I masturbate is on other things is that strong where for instance, I would notice a new crack in the corner of the wall, but I could still be stressing my self on wanting to feel that orgasm. Definitely got to let this idea that there is probably nothing with me to sink in. The seed has definitely been planted.