heartbroken...need kind words

[AverageJoseph Member Find all posts View Profile Close AverageJoseph]

So my gf broke up with me the other day...while that's fine, she could have left it at that but no, we were arguing and she said that she hooked up with someone else. Me, always treating her best I told her "good luck finding someone who'll do everything I did for u" and what does she do? She says "anyone is better han u, baby boy...u with ur small ass dick" now I dunno whether she was just being mean and trying to hurt my feelings, because she complimented on my gains and eq...or my average length wasn't cutting it anymore...anyway, I just need some inspirational words. Thanks guys!

[W.M.P. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close W.M.P.]

She was simply being mean cause she was mad, and she knew quite well where to hit you so that it hurt: Right below the belt. That's another reason why I've NEVER let this PE thing control my thoughts or let me make the mistake of overfocusing on my penis size as a measure or my worth in a woman's eyes. Your girl would've said those same words whether you were small or big, cause she knew it was a sensitive spot of yours and she wanted to hurt you. Why was she so bent on hurting you? Be cause she was hurting too.

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

I agree 100% with WMP.

It has nothing to do with you. She was being about as nasty as she could be. I hope you will find the strength to never have any communication with this person again. It doesn't sound like she was much of a girlfriend anyway.

Your situation raises an important issue. I think I'll be very reserved about telling girlfriends about my interest in penis exercise.

Some women are like that. They cheat and sneak around and bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend and are so insecure in their behavior that they feel a need to target any perceived vulnerability in others and attack it. The best thing you can do is walk away and refuse to speak to her. I hope you're situation will make that easy.

Start shopping for a new girlfriend! Consider yourself free. I don't usually recommend this, but you might want to subscribe to some of the free newsletters that are floating around on dating and relationships. It sounds like you might have a little bit of the niceguy thing happening if you believe you were always treating her the best and she had those things to say to you. If you're not familiar with David DeAngelo's stuff, it's not a bad place to start: Dating Advice For Men | How to Attract Women and Use Pick Up Lines

His ebooks and interviews with dating gurus will give you the most value, but he has a free newsletter that has some good stuff in it too. You really don't have to buy his expensive programs to get what he's talking about and some of the stuff is available on eBay.

Best wishes on your future relationships!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Sounds to me, like you are well off being clear of this bitch.

[W.M.P. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close W.M.P.]

Your situation raises an important issue. I think I'll be very reserved about telling girlfriends about my interest in penis exercise.

Yes, indeed. This is a VERY big reason why I choose to keep my PE endeavors to myself; the last thing I want is an angry ex-girlfriend venting around town about how I have a microscopic penis and how I spend my days yanking at it, hoping and praying that it grows from super tiny to not so tiny. PE is MY personal, private business and as long as I'm living in the privacy of my own bachelor pad, it will remain as such.

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

Here, here, WMP!

AverageJoseph, I'm sorry you're going through this, but you did bring my attention to something important here and I thank you for that. I was thinking that I could be pretty open about this and I did tell one friend about this, but I don't think I'll tell anyone else because it's really an easily a misunderstood thing, and there's no shortage of dick jokes in our culture.

Once I start meeting my goals my position on this might change a little bit. As time passes I think I'll become more clear about why got into PE too. It's kind of complicated for me and not as simple as thinking my penis is too small.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

The world is a harsh and complex place sometimes.

[TechGuy Banned Find all posts View Profile Close TechGuy]

Hey AJ, never let anyone else control your self worth and esteem. That is always up to you. Always. Don't ever forget that. It's clear that from how she acted that she isn't worth wasting any of your energy, even giving her another thought. Sometimes, for whatever reason, people can act like total assholes. That has absolutely no bearing on you, or your life. You'll find someone nice. Cheers.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I completely agree with W.M.P. and hotrod. She was just being a mean, nasty bitch and hit you with a direct one, two below the belt punch. It's been my personal experience that when women get pissed off or are hurting, they can really lash out and say some downright mean, cruel, hurtful things. My gf does know about my PE and even if she were to say something nasty about it in a fit of anger, I wouldn't take it personally since I KNOW I'm now big thanks to this process.

Put her behind you and move on bro. It's ultimately her loss, not yours.

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

if you have a good tongue, you wouldnt need the dick

you are better off with that bitch. a good woman, even if in vain, wont put you down.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

if you have a good tongue, you wouldnt need the dick

you are better off with that bitch. a good woman, even if in vain, wont put you down.

I don't know that I necessarily agree with that statement Aya. My tongue is great and while I love eating pussy, I would NEVER part with my dick. Fuck that.

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

you took it literally. good tongue will be enough. good dick performance makes it better.

[4_to_7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4_to_7]

Ouch man! I know how much this kind of shit can hurt. I've been through some hard time myself(see my presentation). But like it was already said, when women are mad they can be extremely vicous. She knew where to hit you to get you down and she did. Did she ever complain about your size before? I know it's hard for now, but eventually you will get passed this shit. You are also lucky because you discovered PE so you wont see your dick as small for much longer

[Hairtrigger Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hairtrigger]

Sorry to hear bout all that but thats the way people are, she knew how much that meant to you so thats where she hit. All I can say is shake it off and add 5 more minutes of edging to your routine so you can show off that great added stamina and EQ to your next girlfriend....Don't forget the Kegals.

[Hemmels Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hemmels]

Hey man sorry to hear about another girl going below the belt for some easy points. I've recently split as well (there's a lot of it going round!), and if I learnt anything, it's be the best you can be, and you'll be all the better for it down the line. (P.S. I can't sleep at the moment, and i'm on a PE off day, so i'm not great either) But believe me, don't let it get to you, shake it off, what doesn't kill you and all that
Peace.