Kissing A Girl after Oral sex

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Would u kiss a girl after she sucks ur dick? I wouldn't cuz I feel it's nasty and jus part of guy code. I'd rather kiss first and let her suck when I don't feel the need to kiss anymore.

Hey devdevy,

I can understand your personal preference for not kissing a girl on the mouth after she gifts you with a blowjob is because you find it unpalatable but to blame it on some perceived "guy code" is rather silly and immature, don't you think?

I am curious though, what exactly is this "guy code" when it comes to sex and where can I buy a copy?

I have to say, I have always found it rather contradictory when a man expects a woman to not only swallow his semen but enjoy its taste when he can't even stomach it himself.

Now I know that there are plenty of men AND women who have an aversion to the taste of sexual fluids and so refuse to kiss on the mouth after oral sex. Fair enough. For these individuals, I often suggest that they let their partner know why and to please be sensitive to their feelings when telling them so that they don't think that it has something to do with them personally.

As an alternative to kissing on the mouth after oral, you may want to consider kissing her other areas (neck, temple, ear, etc.) to convey your appreciation and/or affection for her.

It may also be beneficial to you to give my blog post a quick read:

Arousal Can Quell Sexual Disgust

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Is semen sterile?

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

Well, am I going to divulge too much in this response? Well, as TPW put it,,,,very well indeed,,,,,how can you expect her to do the "gurgle, gargle, gulp, gulp" if it's something that is "yucky" to you?? What's good for the goose has got to be good for the gander......right? ---or am I right?? I've NEVER had an issue with kissing or any intimacy after any kind of "love making" encounter with my Gal. It's all good to me and in the heat of passion- well- it's even better!! ;-) So get in there and do the dance of love!!

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

I think the op feels oral is distasteful he should refrain from doing it. Maybe his partner is doing it but doesn't necessarily like it. The fair thing would be that she doesn't do it anymore. That way he is no longer participating in an act he feels with distasteful. If he liked it been done to him, maybe they will have to find activity they both mutually enjoy. I think that would only be fair. I never heard about this chapter the guy code. Maybe the issue he is reading is from 50 years ago.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Before, during, and after; as long as she takes good care of her mouth. I hate bad breath, yuck.

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

..........oh and by the way. I place LOTS and LOTS of value on what insight TPW states. Honestly, if anyone has "insider" information, she does. When she speaks,,,,,,I take notes,,,,,I can't ever recall her "NOT" being right on the money. ;-)

(no I'm not trying to score points with TPW,,,,,,,When someone knows their stuff, you gotta listen!!)

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

..........oh and by the way. I place LOTS and LOTS of value on what insight TPW states. Honestly, if anyone has "insider" information, she does. When she speaks,,,,,,I take notes,,,,,I can't ever recall her "NOT" being right on the money. ;-)

(no I'm not trying to score points with TPW,,,,,,,When someone knows their stuff, you gotta listen!!)

Awww...you are always such a darling, my dear, sweet Dick Whammy. Thank you for your vote of confidence. Truly.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Hey DW, congratulations on being made mod.I didn't see that until now.

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Oh I remember reading that people tend to be disgusted by their own bodily fluids. For example, if one spits in a glass of water, he/she may refuse to drink it.

Buuut I also remember reading that arousal can quell disgust to an extent (was that you TPW?)

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Buuut I also remember reading that arousal can quell disgust to an extent (was that you TPW?)

LOL...yes, I believe it was INS.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Oh I remember reading that people tend to be disgusted by their own bodily fluids.

My GF is this way; she hates to go down on me after I've been inside her. It has always kinda made me wonder....

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

My GF is this way; she hates to go down on me after I've been inside her. It has always kinda made me wonder....

Lol my girl is just the opposite just yesterday she told me she loves it when i go from in her straight to her mouth and back again

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Lol my girl is just the opposite just yesterday she told me she loves it when i go from in her straight to her mouth and back again

Lucky bro. My GF is just straight fucking weird; it's like she believes her vagina is her asshole, or something.

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

Lucky bro. My GF is just straight fucking weird; it's like she believes her vagina is her asshole, or something.

Lmao that's funny does she like how she tastes. Maybe she has to get more comfortable with herself. My GF probably likes to do that more because she thinks that she tastes good. Which she does . Has she ever tried before?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Would u kiss a girl after she sucks ur dick? I wouldn't cuz I feel it's nasty and jus part of guy code. I'd rather kiss first and let her suck when I don't feel the need to kiss anymore.

If you dont like to that is fine but no way in hell is that a "guy code" what if she dumps you because she feels that you are not considerate, maybe that is girl code!