Why me ?

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Guys that's under sized or under average ? Do you just stop and ask yourself, why me ?
Why do I have small girth ? Why am I under sized ? Why can I just be average or a little bit over average ? Why are other guys gifted down there and im not ? Those questions loom in my head almost every other day.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Don't give in to the negativity bro, are you making progress with your routine? Any signs of good PI's?

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Don't give in to the negativity bro, are you making progress with your routine? Any signs of good PI's?

Well I've been on and off with PE im getting back into it today actually, but only a light routine. Just jelqing for 10 mins then 100 kegals and some stretching. Not looking for size gains but im just focused on EQ as of now.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

You'll hate this because right now you want to feel bad.

But a boyfriend I had knew he was on the smaller side. No one had to tell him this. He once said that God gives you strengths and weaknesses. We will always want something better but when we develop our strengths we realize had we focused on the things we felt were negative we would not be using the strengths to the fullest.

The man is a very smart man. A creative leader who has changed lives for the better. He is empathetic in areas rarely seen by men of his background
He is a good looking loving funny man and a great father. My gosh so many positives.

He knows his worth and it was so alluring and sexy I can't tell you!!

Have your day today to feel the way you feel but then wake up and keep forging on with what you do have.

And remember, if you have your pointer finger and middle finger you got game right there. Xo

[HammerTime89 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HammerTime89]

The more you focus your thoughts on improving yourself and what you like about yourself the happier and less negative thoughts you will have. It is a hard battle but you can overcome it if fight hard enough.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

The more you focus your thoughts on improving yourself and what you like about yourself the happier and less negative thoughts you will have. It is a hard battle but you can overcome it if fight hard enough.

I have so many negative thoughts about myself that I can't even think about improving myself or the happy thoughts I even have. That's how bad it is.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well maybe you should be working on fixing your mind, your outlook, your attitude. Having a bigger dick won't do that for you. The issue here I see is with your head'\; no not that one. The one between your ears.

[Pucko Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Pucko]

Like CUSP said, it's all in the head. There are many guys on here who's supposedly above average and still had/has insecurities regarding size.

Set up goals for yourself to improve your confidence, start working out and eating healthier, force yourself into new social situations, perhaps get a new haircut and buy new clothes. I truly believe women when they say that penis size does not matter much at all... Some women do look for well endowed men, but why would you want to be with a girl like that anyway? I know i dont, if i was well endowed and i felt like my only good quality in the eyes of women was my penis I would be totally devestated. Having a smaller then average penis might actually be a blessing, because then you know for sure that the woman you love aint with you becuase of selfish desires of sexual pleasure but rather because she loves you.

Sorry for ranting, but just try to look at your life from a different perspective.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Couldn't agree more with islander! Play your strengths! But also strengthen your weaknesses!

Pucko, great way to look at it my man, REPPED!

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Well maybe you should be working on fixing your mind, your outlook, your attitude. Having a bigger dick won't do that for you. The issue here I see is with your head'\; no not that one. The one between your ears.

This how I look at it.
Big dick = Confidence=approach=getting the girl. That's how I look at it because I believe if I don't have any sexual experience with a small dick how am I going to approach the girl I want.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Guys that's under sized or under average ? Do you just stop and ask yourself, why me ?
Why do I have small girth ? Why am I under sized ? Why can I just be average or a little bit over average ? Why are other guys gifted down there and im not ? Those questions loom in my head almost every other day.

I feel the same way, and I'm above average, according to "stats". Confidence does not come from the size of your dick, believe me. Go ahead, sit back and say man if I had your stats blah blah blah...

Dick size is just that... dick size! If you can't be confident with an average-/+ sized penis, than I'm sorry, a monstrous cock won't make you confident either.

[sssssteve Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sssssteve]

its all a mindset and baby steps. yes it takes a long ass time to go a mile when you are just inching along... but progress is still progress.

I used to be the non-confident/shy type when I was in high school. I would even avoid eye contact with people. then I joined the Army and was surrounded by all of these mostly-dumb people 24-7. the only way to keep that stupidity in check is by voicing yourself and being a cocky asshole when need-be. coincidentally, I channeled a lot of this frustration into PE and my dick got WAY bigger. so... the confidence came first but the PE was right behind it. girls absolutely LOVE that assertiveness as long as it is coupled with communication, compassion, and respect. you can be sarcastic at times as well as long as you know your limits.

the starting point is an understanding of yourself though... not worrying about others.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

This how I look at it. Big dick = Confidence=approach=getting the girl and that's how I look at it because I believe if I don't have any sexual experience with a small dick how am I going to approach the girl I want.

Confident that you will do what you need to - to put a smile on her face, there are plenty of unsatisfied women out there with partners who have massive penises.

Every woman I have been with has orgasmed well before penetration, they have from oral and fingers and what not, never really from my penis. My wife virtually never orgasms from penetration and when she has it's been after lots of oral/foreplay, so really when you look at it like this how important is the size thing.

Have you practised any edging for stamina, I find it helps with EQ, it compliments jelqing for me anyway, keep an eye on PI's.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Guys that's under sized or under average ? Do you just stop and ask yourself, why me ?
Why do I have small girth ? Why am I under sized ? Why can I just be average or a little bit over average ? Why are other guys gifted down there and im not ? Those questions loom in my head almost every other day.

Yes I have felt this way and I was not undersized or below average. I will, yet again, give you my PE back story. In my early 20's I married a young woman who had deep seeded issues. She cheated on my repeatedly. One day, during an argument, she told me that her lover had a much larger penis than mine and she did it with a cruel grin and took great joy in hurting me with her words. I felt horrible for a very long time, but that pain drove me to improve. I found the old PE Forum. I started a routine. I stuck with that routine consistently for over a year and gained 1" BPEL and .5" MEG. I don't know if I ended up bigger than that other guy...I don't even actually know if he was in fact bigger than me. But I succeeded. Ultimately, being bigger didn't help my confidence. I worked on that separately, including counseling, and became my own best friend. Find a good routine, keep working at it if that is what you want. Make as many positive changes to your life as you can. But, most importantly, try to find a way to become your own best friend instead of your enemy who keeps telling you that you aren't good enough.

[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

You could sit and feel sorry for yourself about what you didn't get or you can accept what you have and try to make the most of it. Part of being happy in life is learning to let go of the things you can't control and not giving a shit about the little things.