Road to Happiness

[worldhuge Member Find all posts View Profile Close worldhuge]

why we love sex, why this problem come to my mind couple of minutes ago, i think i need to find an answer, why we are crazy about sex, i think sex brings us happiness, sometimes fantasy that is quite special gift that god give to us, expecially at the time of peak experience, you know the feeling of organism is what we pursuit for, as the psychologist Freud said, all motivations root in sex.
the senic of intercourse may be disgusting and evil, and we may feel guilty in some sex practise, maybe we may also need some sensation and emotion, if we need real happiness.
sex, how nice it is, it is the key to happiness, generations and generations, sex is just the amazing start point, it's the practice where life is created.
Oh, sex, what an pleasing word, wanna to find the pussy that belongs to me, the source of happiness ...

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Hi there I moved your thread here, I don't think it belongs in the science and PE theory forum.

[worldhuge Member Find all posts View Profile Close worldhuge]

I'd like to read books on happiness, and write what i learn from the books in this thread. I have lots of books on this topic, now i choose two from them, that is Masters of Sex and The Gay Science (this gay not means homosexual, here it stands for joy and happiness, this book is written by the famous Germany philosopher Nietzsche). Currently, i haven't make the decision about how to read these books, because the effective way of reading should follow my heart, that is to follow the underlying motivation of my interests, so i will not feel tired when i am pursing the road the happiness, what is sex, what is happiness, and how to reach happiness and get the pussy that you want, haha, words are not elegant, sometimes even rude, but it's not offensive, i only write i am thinking now

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

My theory is that one's primary goal in life is to bring happiness to others. When I initiate sex with my wife, my primary goal is to make her happy by bringing her to orgasm. When I do this, I am happy too. I am more bothered if I fail to bring her to orgasm then I am if I fail to orgasm.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I used to feel the same way, and then they took away my ludes! Hey to each his own. Personally I think happiness, life, has more to do with relationships and love than it has to do with sex. There are many here and even on this planet ( can't speak for other planets unless they give me my ludes back), that can't have sex nd yet they find happiness and love. Sex is fleeting; love last forever.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I think it appeals to that instinctual want for connection, bonding, intimacy. The bliss that comes in those moments of forgetting about everything else, if only for a brief time, and having no choice but to be present in the pleasure of the act.

The release of stress, emotion, feel good endorphins and hormones. A chance to let go of all the expectations, all the worries, and just be you, as a human, with another human. Individual and combined at the same time, sharing a specific and unique moment together.

It's no wonder elevated feelings for one another can heighten the effect, or vice versa. Or why it's such a great source of happiness.