problem about avoiding jack-offs

[luweesz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close luweesz]

well, time to time, i am stopping myself from masturbating for just a couple of weeks in order for me to have greater erections and multiple orgasms.. but i guess i'm having a problem doing that.

just this new year, i promised myself not to do it in a matter of 40 days, like the one in a movie. however, everytime i am observing this strict abstinence upon me, i realized that my dick gets too hard that it embarrasses me every morning. we live in a small house where my sisters and my parents see me naked (i don't have my own room by the way) and one time having this abstinence, my silly sister took a picture of my woody in the morning.

however, nine days after my new year's resolution, after hitting the gym and heating myself out in the sauna (so that i could have my 10-minute warm-up for my PE) my dick suddenly became itchy, and i don't wanna scratch my crotch. and i went to the shower hoping that this itch would be washed by soap and water and boom... just 30 seconds upon massaging my dick in soap i came out... (don't worry the shower rooms in the gym are closed so nobody saw me came)

is this a psychological problem? never in a straight two weeks time that i manage to stop myself doing it and whenever i imagine myself having sex i just hold my balls and massage my penis in baby oil ::: assuming i am only jelqing at this point ::: and boom! i'm feeling so relaxed however i'm feeling guilty the moment i came out -- and hey, we live in a small house so my parents might see me doing that thing.

there was also one time that i check it out on how to wear a condom. after watching beautiful girls in FTV (the gorgeous models) while my dick is wearing condom, i can't help but masturbate... oh guys help me with this problem.

anyway, the exercises really help, however, i can't manage to do the warm-up routine. i just stretch it out automatically and jelq with baby oil. from 5.5", it grew to 6.5" and i guess the girth has also improved.

is there something that i can do in order to fulfill this 40-day "abstinence"? i'm virgin and i can wait until the time is right for me. i'm 22. thanks!

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

Uhhhhh, don't abstain from ejaculating for that long, its probably really not good for you, with the new research on prostates and all.

What you should do is the opposite. What I mean is, one day, when your ready, JACK OFF UNTIL YOU CAN'T ANYMORE,.....THEN........when it starts to become hard to come again, try to bring yourself right to the point of ejaculating (coming) and then let off, then repeat the process for a while, preferably 30min to and hour. This is called "Edging" meaning that you bring yourself to the "edge" of coming, but you don't let yourself come. It will help cement your gains as well as make you last longer, once you DO decide to lose your virginity, that is.

Good luck luweesz!!!

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Like said above. Edge brotha.

[luweesz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close luweesz]

gee thanks guys

okay now i know... thanks a lot!

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Get your self a private room, your living situation sounds cramped, how do you find the privacy to well, do anything. do you have your own bedroom?

[Gator Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Gator]

Abstaining from an ejaculation for 40 days will likely result in a 4am wakeup call (approximately 10 days in) where you discover a massive amount of splooge in your bloomers. I tried abstaining once for 2 weeks and I made it 11 days before I had to change my boxers at 3:30am.

[luweesz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close luweesz]

well gator, i guess that goes with me as well. apparently, every time i try from abstaining my doodle turns into hard meat and embarrasses me -- even in the gym when i feel relaxed. so i guess i must shoot it whenever i feel it

[Dante311 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dante311]

Abstaining from an ejaculation for 40 days will likely result in a 4am wakeup call (approximately 10 days in) where you discover a massive amount of splooge in your bloomers. I tried abstaining once for 2 weeks and I made it 11 days before I had to change my boxers at 3:30am.

Hahaha sorry.

There is no way I can go longer than a 2 weeks without sex or masturbation..

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[meebo411 Member Find all posts View Profile Close meebo411]

listen im only 18 and i was literally addicted to masterbating like i couldnt go without it for more then a week. so after a while my erection quality wasnt as good and im only 18!!! so since im doing P.E full dedication i will not be masterbating(only on the days i have sex with my girlfriend ofcourse). i want my dick to be healthier so it can take the p.e programs

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

listen im only 18 and i was literally addicted to masterbating like i couldnt go without it for more then a week. so after a while my erection quality wasnt as good and im only 18!!! so since im doing P.E full dedication i will not be masterbating(only on the days i have sex with my girlfriend ofcourse). i want my dick to be healthier so it can take the p.e programs

Don't use so much force when masturbating and try to make it last long, I would still shoot for 3 ejacualtions per week. You never know if ylour going to get regualr sex.

[luweesz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close luweesz]

Get your self a private room, your living situation sounds cramped, how do you find the privacy to well, do anything. do you have your own bedroom?

yeah dude, i don't have a bedroom and that sucks... maybe in a year's time i'll rent a pad and do whatever i want

[007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 007]

Some good points are brought up here. First your body needs to ejaculate on a timely basis and if you won't bring yourself to do this (as in an abstinance period) The your body will go ahead and clear out the old inventory while you slep....either way it gets done.
I myself went the entire last summer without any special time, but there were still nocturnal protein shakes happenin'.
And (2......uh your sister is taking pictures of your penis....uhh okay...what did she do with them?
Just teasin ya, bro.

[UYN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UYN]

yeah dude, i don't have a bedroom and that sucks... maybe in a year's time i'll rent a pad and do whatever i want

How do you find the privacy of even just reading about PE?

[The Maul Banned Find all posts View Profile Close The Maul]

I went 5 days before I almost fucked a tree to death

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I went about 3 monhs at a time when i had ED.