A short rant

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

I just deleted a rant on a thread that was kind of condescending, offensive, and directed to the OP, to just say, I cant believe how damaged the minds of men are these days. I'm only 28 but the way the minds of this generation of internet porn kids is truly saddening. I keep seeing threads where guys are so terrified about there size when they aren't even small that they are turning down sex and girls over fear of being called small. Now this is not directed to everyone, just the extreme posters who struggle with or don't take our advice and make comments about not wanting to live/kill themselves over it. I'm proud of the guys who come here asking for help and actually listen to what we say and put it to use and then share their success story! I love that. When I was a virgin, I was nervous and insecure thinking I was small but I would have never turned down sex. My desire to feel the warmth of a woman far overcame any fear/insecurities I had. For the guys and gals who been here a long time I applaud you on what you do. You've seen and heard it all countless times over and over but you still try everything you can to help these guys. The threads on these forums are truly an I opener for me.

[rocket50 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rocket50]

Preach brotha preach

[apjelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apjelq]

Penis envy is not a new thing at all. It coded in our brains. Even before sexuality an porn became so open I think guys always wanted bigger. I do think porn has a role in it too, but it isn't the main reason. For example when I was in the first grade we had these trips to indoor swimming baths and as we went to sauna I was hoping in my mind that I had the biggest and I'm pretty sure so did everyone else. I had not even seen porn before that and I already had it in my mind.

I have also noticed that most of the Pe'rs have pretty normal dicks and some even big, but still they want bigger. There aren't really many guys with really really small penises here. I'm here for three reasons. Better erection quality, better confidence and bigger penis. As sad as it sounds bigger penis really brings better self confidence and we all know girls like guys who are self confident.

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Well usually that picture can be changed by stopping influencing yourself with porn.

I used to watch porn in the ''big dick'' category while I did not think myself as being small in size since I was above average.

I was curious just could I increase my size and I have made great gains. Due to me quitting viewing porn I have no intrest in it since I have researched on how fake the industry is and porn is not enjoyable at all.

Personally I noticed not so good EQ myself and I was viewing porn because I was bored.

If your watching porn due to being bored then get yourelf a hobby or fill in your schedule with something that will improve you.

Being honest with yourself and evaluating your reasoning of watching porn and how it affects you personally is a must.

Quitting porn and focusing on things that are more real and beneficial to myself shifted my focus on other things. There has to be also a desire in yourself to change.

I have tendency of listening to advice while ofcourse being critical of it. Most of the guys on this forum want to help and have a lot experience.

[rocket50 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rocket50]

Valid points all. what I believe the original poster is trying to say is that guys seem to put to much into how big they are. Yes it is important to many women, but you could have the perfect size dick and still be alone. The people who come here looking for help should take the advice they are given and do something about what they perceive to be a small penis. If you sit there and feel sorry for yourself acting like life's not worth living than you have already lost. That time could be used to improve yourself. If you have found this site you already have the knowledge that SO MANY men wish the had but sadly will never discover. Take this gift and make your dream a reality.

[OptimumDreamer Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OptimumDreamer]

Kind of funny me commenting now as I'm just breaking from a porn video, but couldn't resist. As with everything it's relative. People still believe a nuclear meltdown will form a shroom or a zombie outbreak is about to happen, due to media. I wouldn't put down porn. It's been good to me. It's given me an idea of what a womens body is like where it's all located.
In retrospect I can't stand anything hardcore. I barely like watching the sex scenes. Mostly solo girls. Maybe lesbian probably for the sensuality.
Fact of the matter is there are always going to be idiots or people who just don't think first.
I'm just under 7" Not sure if it's average or lower, and sure I could jelq and maybe I will in the future, but I'm happy for now. I've had far more success being skilled than equipped. An while I have turned down sex on a few occasions that's due to my P.E which I will beat down (pun, yes, ha).

[OptimumDreamer Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OptimumDreamer]

Valid points all. what I believe the original poster is trying to say is that guys seem to put to much into how big they are. Yes it is important to many women, but you could have the perfect size dick and still be alone. The people who come here looking for help should take the advice they are given and do something about what they perceive to be a small penis. If you sit there and feel sorry for yourself acting like life's not worth living than you have already lost. That time could be used to improve yourself. If you have found this site you already have the knowledge that SO MANY men wish the had but sadly will never discover. Take this gift and make your dream a reality.

P.S This is a great comment, there's a wealth of knowledge and you all have those hicks/assholes or whoever you want to call and they will never take the initiative to learn, regardless of their size you'll come out on top.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Power to the op.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Valid points all. what I believe the original poster is trying to say is that guys seem to put to much into how big they are. Yes it is important to many women, but you could have the perfect size dick and still be alone. The people who come here looking for help should take the advice they are given and do something about what they perceive to be a small penis. If you sit there and feel sorry for yourself acting like life's not worth living than you have already lost. That time could be used to improve yourself. If you have found this site you already have the knowledge that SO MANY men wish the had but sadly will never discover. Take this gift and make your dream a reality.

Yup Spot on!

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Reps to you good sir! You took the words out of my mouth. A lot of the guys on here that refuse to have sex until they are a certain size are really and truly fucking themselves up. Missing out on so many opportunities and experiences in life. I commend the guys that find information, change their outlooks, develop self-confidence as a result, and grow physically and mentally in the process. There are those that just wallow and feel self-pity for themselves and forcibly reject all information and help given. They are messing their lives up needlessly.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Reps to you good sir! You took the words out of my mouth. A lot of the guys on here that refuse to have sex until they are a certain size are really and truly fucking themselves up. Missing out on so many opportunities and experiences in life. I commend the guys that find information, change their outlooks, develop self-confidence as a result, and grow physically and mentally in the process. There are those that just wallow and feel self-pity for themselves and forcibly reject all information and help given. They are messing their lives up needlessly.

Yes Sir! Thats a big one, missing out on so many opportunities. They will all have regrets on that like many of us do. I wish I had so many men like on this forum giving me advice 10years ago! If I only knew the things I know now back then, thats why the guys that are so negative bothers me so much. This is a forum full of men passing on all kinds of wisdom. We even have a few awesome experienced women too which is just sprinkles of glitter of icing on the cake
Yet, they still crumble in their insecurities even from a womans POV. And bless some of the ladies souls and their patients lol. I remember reading a thread a while ago where some guy ask Qandisa (i I think it was her, don't know if I spelled that right) to guess some porn stars penis size from a pic because he didn't believe she's been with any large endowed men. She guessed he was 9" and the guy was like "your wrong!...hes 9.5" ...see women don't know what they are talking about..blah blah blah" and kept flaming away that she was .5 off....from a pic! I was like omg seriously, how sad lol

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Yeah this post is definitely related to me.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Yup, tell me about it. I am in the same age bracket as you, and if I had this forum back then it would have helped me out in so many different ways. And penis enlargement would have been well down the list!

Yes Sir! Thats a big one, missing out on so many opportunities. They will all have regrets on that like many of us do. I wish I had so many men like on this forum giving me advice 10years ago! If I only knew the things I know now back then, thats why the guys that are so negative bothers me so much. This is a forum full of men passing on all kinds of wisdom. We even have a few awesome experienced women too which is just sprinkles of glitter of icing on the cake
Yet, they still crumble in their insecurities even from a womans POV. And bless some of the ladies souls and their patients lol. I remember reading a thread a while ago where some guy ask Qandisa (i I think it was her, don't know if I spelled that right) to guess some porn stars penis size from a pic because he didn't believe she's been with any large endowed men. She guessed he was 9" and the guy was like "your wrong!...hes 9.5" ...see women don't know what they are talking about..blah blah blah" and kept flaming away that she was .5 off....from a pic! I was like omg seriously, how sad lol