Has porn screwed our women's mindset on size/sex aswell ?

[turtler Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close turtler]

You haven't seen any porn flicks directed by women, have you? (Ok, a few women shoot the same as men, but mostly there's a world of difference.

[kokprobs Member Find all posts View Profile Close kokprobs]

You haven't seen any porn flicks directed by women, have you? (Ok, a few women shoot the same as men, but mostly there's a world of difference.

The gender of the director is irrelevant.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

WHo makes porn has no bearing on anything. Why would men give other men a complex about dick size? What is there to gain? Porn is the land of excess, doesnt matter who makes the shit. A woman doesnt have to know who fucking mandingo is in order to know that a big cock = good.

Your points or kind of invalid.

I know that trying to argue with you and talk sense into you is about as pointless as trying to argue with a 2 year old but...

1) Here's a stat for you - Men are 543% more likely to look at porn than women. Overall the majority of porn is made FOR MEN. BY MEN.

2) For some reason, I don't know why, men like watching women being fucked by big things. Big dildos, big vegetables, fists... This is why I hide my big dildo (that I never use) when guys come over, because they like trying to use it on me... just to see it. I hate the thing, the guys love seeing it.

3) Porn is not about making guys feel better about themselves. You asked what there is to gain? $$$$ Porn is about making money. They don't give a rats ass if it makes you feel insecure, as long as they make money from it they're going to do it. And if they make a ton of money from big dick porn then they're going to keep making big dick porn. If guys stopped watching it then they'd move onto something else.

4) You know what else makes a bunch of money? Male enhancement schemes. I'm not talking about sites like this one, I'm talking about the here take these pills and get a bigger dick industry and the like. They LOVE big dick porn because it keeps them in business. They LOVE guys that are insecure about their dick size because it means more money for them.

And for what I'd love to be the last time (but I know it won't be)
A BIG DICK DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUAL GOOD SEX
and in fact most women that have actually been with guys with big dicks know that the truth is usually the opposite.

[turtler Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close turtler]

The gender of the director is irrelevant.

In theory yes, in practice: no.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

WHo makes porn has no bearing on anything. Why would men give other men a complex about dick size?

Haha, is that a serious question? You might as well ask "Why would the existence of millionaires give other people a complex about having no money".

What is there to gain?

Uh, money? You've said yourself that porn is about excess, so you've answered your own question. Giant dicks is one of the main fetishes of hardcore porn. It just makes porn that much pornier, and people who watch porn - mainly men, as I said before - like it.

You might as well ask why fashion and cosmetics companies hire beautiful, slim, young models to advertise their products rather than average-looking 40-year-olds who are carrying a few spare pounds.

A woman doesnt have to know who fucking mandingo is in order to know that a big cock = good.

Look, the problem is that lots of guys have now watched so many videos of young women screaming "OH YES FUCK ME WITH YOUR GINORMOUS COCK, I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!!!" while being reamed by some guy hung like a boa constrictor that they're convinced that's how most women think. It's projection: men are obsessed with the idea that women are obsessed with huge cocks. As you yourself are demonstrating right now.

I don't have a link to it but there was a big survey done a few years ago that found that something like 85% of heterosexual women described their current or most recent partner's penis as "very satisfying" or "satisfying" in size - I'll see if I can find it. The best-selling dildos - the ones bought by women to use at home for their own pleasure, not for use as props in porn videos or as joke presents for hen parties - are always about the same size as an average penis, or perhaps *slightly* bigger. As I said, there might be some women who are genuinely obsessed with gigantic cocks, but they're not representative, and they've probably got that way by viewing porn that was made by male pornographers with a male audience in mind.

If you've overheard women talking about big cocks then do please realize they're just trying to impress each other, as Qandisa says. If a woman says the last guy she slept with had a "really nice big cock", she probably means it was like 6.5" or something.

The problem is in your head, not (the vast majority of) women's heads.

Your points or kind of invalid.

Heh, yeah, if you say so.

[kokprobs Member Find all posts View Profile Close kokprobs]

I know that trying to argue with you and talk sense into you is about as pointless as trying to argue with a 2 year old but...

1) Here's a stat for you - Men are 543% more likely to look at porn than women. Overall the majority of porn is made FOR MEN. BY MEN.

2) For some reason, I don't know why, men like watching women being fucked by big things. Big dildos, big vegetables, fists... This is why I hide my big dildo (that I never use) when guys come over, because they like trying to use it on me... just to see it. I hate the thing, the guys love seeing it.

3) Porn is not about making guys feel better about themselves. You asked what there is to gain? $$$$ Porn is about making money. They don't give a rats ass if it makes you feel insecure, as long as they make money from it they're going to do it. And if they make a ton of money from big dick porn then they're going to keep making big dick porn. If guys stopped watching it then they'd move onto something else.

4) You know what else makes a bunch of money? Male enhancement schemes. I'm not talking about sites like this one, I'm talking about the here take these pills and get a bigger dick industry and the like. They LOVE big dick porn because it keeps them in business. They LOVE guys that are insecure about their dick size because it means more money for them.

And for what I'd love to be the last time (but I know it won't be)
A BIG DICK DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUAL GOOD SEX
and in fact most women that have actually been with guys with big dicks know that the truth is usually the opposite.

Says she gives stats, yet no citation lol. You think big dick porn is the driving money maker in porn? Seriously, if they lost that niche it wouldnt matter they would still be making hand over fist. Big dick porn isnt the fuel that keeps the porn industry running, it is the women.

You never use a big dildo but still have it? Something isnt adding up, normally when someone doesnt use something they get rid of it. hmmm....

You are the only one that keeps harping on big dick doesnt equal good sex. No one said it did in this thread.

[turtler Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close turtler]

You are the only one that keeps harping on big dick doesnt equal good sex. No one said it did in this thread.

A woman doesnt have to know who fucking mandingo is in order to know that a big cock = good.

I defer to you. You've successfully read an entire book on criticial thinking, making you one of the most intelligent people on the planet. I fear your razor sharp logic is pretty much lost on us humble souls here, though, and instead of wasting your precious gift on us, wouldn't it be better if you posted on a more worthwhile forum?

I hear there are still unsolved problems in the field of quantum physics.

[kokprobs Member Find all posts View Profile Close kokprobs]

If you're overheard women talking about big cocks then do please realize they're just trying to impress each other. If a woman says the last guy she slept with had a "really nice big cock", she probably means it was like 6.5" or something.

The problem is in your head, not (the vast majority of) women's heads.

Way to throw out an arbitrary number in order to try and make your point, the fact is you have no idea what size their SO are. They could in fact be bigger than the avg. Women might be happy with their current partner but if they got dicked down by a bigger cock they would up and leave OR continue to fuck the big cock behind their guy's back.

Its like saying "ya im happy making 60k a year" until you have the opportunity to live off 6 million a year. One is better than the other. Same thing is happening with dick size.

[kokprobs Member Find all posts View Profile Close kokprobs]

I defer to you. You've successfully read an entire book on criticial thinking, making you one of the most intelligent people on the planet. I fear your razor sharp logic is pretty much lost on us humble souls here, though, and instead of wasting your precious gift on us, wouldn't it be better if you posted on a more worthwhile forum?

I hear there are still unsolved problems in the field of quantum physics.

Thanks for contributing.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Edit: woops, double post, sorry about that.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

If you read the thread in TPW's post, as well as the following you will understand the many negative effects of porn on those who watch it.

Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1


This thread, does not only show you how to quit porn, but also, taps on how deep seated the problems are.

Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Way to throw out an arbitrary number in order to try and make your point, the fact is you have no idea what size their SO are. They could in fact be bigger than the avg.

Nothing arbitrary about it. The average erect cock, at least in North America, is about 5.5" long or perhaps even a shade less. I said 6.5" because that's a good inch bigger than average, which is enough to make you "big" in the same way that being 4" taller than average is enough to make you "tall". Not Shaq O'Neal tall, of course, but tall enough that if someone were asked to describe you, they'd say you were "tall". And a woman who has seen a fair cross-section of cocks will regard a 6.5" cock as fairly big.

(BTW, your post makes it sound like you don't consider 6.5" to be bigger than average, which is probably part of the problem.)

Its like saying "ya im happy making 60k a year" until you have the opportunity to live off 6 million a year. One is better than the other. Same thing is happening with dick size.

That's because you're applying your male attitude to cock size - "there is no such thing as too big" - to women.

There is such a thing as too big. Let me tell you a little story. Years ago I briefly dated this girl who wouldn't actually let me put it inside her because, in her words, I would "rip [her] to shreds". (She did, it has to be said, have a ridiculously tight vagina.) I was about 8" x 5.6" at the time. She told me about a guy she'd once slept with who was "renowned for being massive", and that I was "an inch" bigger than him. So "just" 7" can qualify as "massive" - which makes perfect sense when you consider that it already puts you in the top few percent for length.

You may well ask why I then decided to do manual PE. It's a good question, and I can only answer that it was because I had a weird hang-up about needing to have THE BIGGEST DICK IN THE WORLD - presumably like a lot of guys who post on this forum, and like you, by the sound of it. The difference between you and me is that I recognize that the problem lay entirely in my own head.

How many times has a man on this forum, Thunder's Place, LSPG or wherever, said: "I want to be the biggest she's ever had"? Please, stop kidding yourself that it's all about "her pleasure" - all you're really doing is engaging in a dick-sizing contest with all her previous lovers, in which the woman herself becomes basically irrelevant.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Sigh you know what I hear superficial girls talk about? How much money he makes ,the status of his job, the car he drives yada yada .
I have heard women talk about penis size, but it is a drop in the ocean in comparison .

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Says she gives stats, yet no citation lol. You think big dick porn is the driving money maker in porn? Seriously, if they lost that niche it wouldnt matter they would still be making hand over fist. Big dick porn isnt the fuel that keeps the porn industry running, it is the women.

Citation: Porn Stats | Covenant Eyes | The Leaders in Accountability Software

And I'm assuming when you say it's the women that keeps the porn industry running that you mean women featured in porn, and not women paying for porn. And yes that's true, but if porn was just "here's a woman let's look at her body" it wouldn't be as interesting as "here's a woman, let's put various things into her body". But do they limit it to just regular sized items? No. It's let's see if we can get something larger in there, and then larger than that, or hey how about 2 or 3 of these! You think when the woman is saying oh yeah that's what I want that's REALLY what she means? You think that when she's at home alone she's trying to see how many things she can cram inside her? No, she's thinking thank fuck that's over but at least I got paid well for it.
If they lost big dick porn they'd go onto something else, but it would still be male-driven.

You never use a big dildo but still have it? Something isnt adding up, normally when someone doesnt use something they get rid of it. hmmm....

I would get rid of it but I use it for photos. A few times a week a take pics for my FWBs and sometimes I like to take one of a dildo between my breasts (they seem to like that). If I use one of my regular ones it pretty much gets lost in there and isn't very visible so I keep the larger one on hand just for that. I have 2 boxes of toys so it's not really a big deal to keep it around.

ETA: I also sometimes take pics sucking it, they seem to like that too. But still, if it wasn't for pictures that thing would be in the garbage.

You are the only one that keeps harping on big dick doesnt equal good sex. No one said it did in this thread.

Actually you did.

A woman doesnt have to know who fucking mandingo is in order to know that a big cock = good.

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Don't worry about this knuckle head any longer. He can pitch his last turd as long as he does before I walk over to my PC and ban his sorry little argumentative ass out of here.

You got about 1 minute k***robs....type quickly.