wife and girlfriends

[king0 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close king0]

Hi, i was just wondering something , lets say you prefer a women with clean shaven or waxed body.

Once you get married or have long term girlfriend ,after a while does your wife/gf stop bothering about grooming her legs and body by keeping it clean shaved or waxed, my mates told me that once your comfortable with your girlfriend or wife they dont usually shave there pubic and legs that much.. and you still have sex with them when they have hairy legs and vagina..

i find this idea disturbing as i hate hairy bodys on women and i like to keep my body looking fresh at all times by grooming it... i cant imagine me sleeping with a girl that has even quarter inch of leg hair all over her legs ...

Isit because i am young or will i mature over time and accept that it is natrual?

So i assume many of you here wifes/gf what do you think about this?

The REASON why i asked this is im naked atm penis extending and looking at my legs lmao.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Sure, comfortability grows over time. Little things become less of a concern. Its individual though.

But if it is something that is important to you, let your partner know in kind, subtle ways. "I love when you...Your smooth legs turn me on....I really appreciate that you..."

It gives the message of what you like and why, without causing guilt if she doesn't. It will make her feel good, and she will feel good for doing it. All positive.

You can also ask if there's anything she likes in particular. This can open the conversation for each of you to openly express likes and dislikes.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I'm kind of the same way, so +1 to talking to them if it bothers you, although I have no clue how you could bring it up.

I also kind of hate to admit it, but I went out with one girl once who was sort of cute, but she wore a sleeveless and had hairy arms for a girl (or hairier arms than some guys). Bugged me enough I couldn't let things go further. Hairless girls are just 100x more attractive to me (although it's fine to have some downstairs if there is upkeep).

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Sure, comfortability grows over time. Little things become less of a concern. Its individual though.

But if it is something that is important to you, let your partner know in kind, subtle ways. "I love when you...Your smooth legs turn me on....I really appreciate that you..."

It gives the message of what you like and why, without causing guilt if she doesn't. It will make her feel good, and she will feel good for doing it. All positive.

You can also ask if there's anything she likes in particular. This can open the conversation for each of you to openly express likes and dislikes.

Good to have you back.
My gf and I have been together for a while, but we're both young, I'm 24 she's 21. She hates body hair more than I do ( on her ) and there's been times where I'd want to have sex but she
wouldn't because she wasn't clean shaven, even though I couldn't even notice. but even if she decided to not bother, It wouldn't put me off.
I hate having body hair myself, around the pubic area and stomach, but she likes a bit, when it's trimmed so I don't completely shave it just keep it trim.
I think the Important thing is that we both care for each other and although we have preferences, they wouldn't be a big factor, I've always hated hair, but if she went full amazon, I'd still be as in to her.
Lucky for me she's already contemplating laser surgery, so if it were an issue that could be an option, it's quite cheap now aswel.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Thanks!

Yep, exactly what I mean. Both usually like well groomed, but sometimes time or circumstances don't allow it. Not the end of the world.

Laser doesn't work for gingers.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

You can also bring up you shaving her. It's very sensual and romantic. Then you both take a shower and have fun. =)

[king0 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close king0]

Sure, comfortability grows over time. Little things become less of a concern. Its individual though.

But if it is something that is important to you, let your partner know in kind, subtle ways. "I love when you...Your smooth legs turn me on....I really appreciate that you..."

It gives the message of what you like and why, without causing guilt if she doesn't. It will make her feel good, and she will feel good for doing it. All positive.

You can also ask if there's anything she likes in particular. This can open the conversation for each of you to openly express likes and dislikes.

That is a pretty good way of letting her know without offending her in anyway my last girlfriend was hairless everywhere litrally which was a good thing but just wondering coz i have seen girls wit pretty thick arm hair and my arm hair is really light and thin

[king0 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close king0]

You can also bring up you shaving her. It's very sensual and romantic. Then you both take a shower and have fun. =)

LOL i like this idea

[king0 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close king0]

I'm kind of the same way, so +1 to talking to them if it bothers you, although I have no clue how you could bring it up.

I also kind of hate to admit it, but I went out with one girl once who was sort of cute, but she wore a sleeveless and had hairy arms for a girl (or hairier arms than some guys). Bugged me enough I couldn't let things go further. Hairless girls are just 100x more attractive to me (although it's fine to have some downstairs if there is upkeep).

im sorry to hear about that i had a friend who was crazy about this girl and once she kissed and snoged him he brokeup with her... reason was SHE HAD 1 MUSTASH HAIR that kept poking him when she kisssed him LOOL

[Hound Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hound]

I love the skin on skin thing and I keep myself clean as I can. All the time. My gf wont rarely let me touch her if she hasn't shaved as she finds it uncomfortable and offensive to me. Also she really enjoys the fact I stay clean as well so it helps her stay on top of it. No pun intended

[Satures Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Satures]

Haha that last sentence cracked me up.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

I love the skin on skin thing and I keep myself clean as I can. All the time. My gf wont rarely let me touch her if she hasn't shaved as she finds it uncomfortable and offensive to me. Also she really enjoys the fact I stay clean as well so it helps her stay on top of it. No pun intended

I'm guessing that when she hasn't shaved she feels embarrassed. If you don't mind it, let her know. It may help her be a little more comfortable in time.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Buy her a razor for her birthday. Sledgehammer subtlety and a slap in the face is always fun

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Laser doesn't work on gingers?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Laser doesn't work on gingers?

Nope. Red or blond hair doesn't absorb the laser effectively to kill the follicle. Only dark hair, brown or black.