Blasphemy AP90

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

So what do you guys think if you are doing AP90 and you see naked girls or hentai whatever. Or you got pictures of your girl on your phone.

NO PENIS IN VAGINA, NO PENISSES, ONLY GIRLS (or you penis in somebody else)

In my opinion it's still going against the rules right?


Tell me how you feel how you really really feel

<3

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

...Tell me how you feel how you really really feel...

Dunno...sounds like a Spice Girls record to me?

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

If you're doing ap90 then you're on the anti porn 90 days.No porn.

Naked pics isn't porn, pics of your girl isn't porn. Porn is porn. Seeing a naked girl, that's real it isn't porn, your girl jumping on your 8===▶ isn't porn. Porn is porn is porn.

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

i think it would be ok if the pictures were only of your girlfriend or other girls you had a sexual encounters with(keeping with realistic scenarios).Playboy has naked pics in it ,but that is considered porn ,right?

[plays alot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close plays alot]

How I really feel is using any aides(pics,vids,sounds,etc.) to achieve erections or orgasms defeats the purpose of AP90. Replacing porn videos with naked photos doesn't solve the dependency one has on visual stimulation.
I quite doing cocaine, now i just smoke crack...
Give it all up. Use your mind and connect more with your body.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

If you're doing ap90 then you're on the anti porn 90 days.No porn.

Naked pics isn't porn, pics of your girl isn't porn. Porn is porn. Seeing a naked girl, that's real it isn't porn, your girl jumping on your 8===▶ isn't porn. Porn is porn is porn.

Is filming your horizontal monster mash and watching it later at the nearest Regal cinema porn?

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

I don't seek out pictures videos or audio/literotica. I've kept my stimulus to either being sensation, imagination of past encounters etc, or real women

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

I think if you're doing AP-challenge, the thing is to take away every stimulation that's not in real life. Meaning, everything that turns you on that's not a real woman.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

I think if you're doing AP-challenge, the thing is to take away every stimulation that's not in real life. Meaning, everything that turns you on that's not a real woman.

So every photoshopped picture ever is out?

[gchi Member Find all posts View Profile Close gchi]

My opinion, if you look at a Victoria Secrect catalog with the intent to get aroused, then it is porn.

Edit: unless your wife happens to be that VS model.

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

My opinion, if you look at a Victoria Secrect catalog with the intent to get aroused, then it is porn.

Edit: unless your wife happens to be that VS model.

Exactly

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

My opinion, if you look at a Victoria Secrect catalog with the intent to get aroused, then it is porn.

Edit: unless your wife happens to be that VS model.

Nope. Porn is porn....... is there an echo.

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

Nope. Porn is porn....... is there an echo.

Nope. When doing this to get back the EQ, everything that turns you on, beside your partner is porn.
Here's the link to Yourbrainonporn.com, which I believe is one of the better sites about porn addiction.

And here's the quote for rebooting basics:

What's allowed during a reboot?

This is probably the number one question we are asked, other than "How long will it take for my ED to be fixed"? Again, we have no program, only insights from men who have recovered. If your only goal is to unhook from porn, then stopping porn may be enough. That said, many men eliminate all artificial sexual stimuli and masturbation/orgasm (if you have a partner see the above links). Some have to eliminate sexual fantasy as well - at least for a while.
It's important to understand that recovery is not about porn per se. It's about reversing dopamine dysregulation and sexual conditioning(sensitization). Your reward circuitry knows exactly what cocaine is, but has no idea as to what porn is. For behavioral addictions such as Internet porn and gambling, your reward circuitry only knows squirts of dopamine. For example, the lesbian porn that jacked-up your dopamine last month may no longer give you a buzz today. Now you need transsexual porn. As odd as this may sound, there's no such thing as (a definition of) porn. It all comes down to whether you are reactivating sensitized addiction pathways, and whether you are overstimulating your brain's already desensitized dopamine system.
Questions about what's "approved", or what's a "relapse", or whether X, Y, or Z, will slow someone's reboot cannot be answered. A better question is, "What type of brain training leads to addictive changes in my brain, and am I repeating it?" Your fundamental problem is that you are hooked on artificial sexual stimuli, and need to make a change if you want to return to your normal sexual responsiveness. See Porn Then and Now: Welcome to Brain Training to understand this concept.
A short list of what it helps to avoid includes: (Also see this FAQ -What stimuli must I avoid during my reboot - Did I relapse?)

1. Porn: all types. If you need to ask, then the answer is, 'bad move.' If it's not an in-person connection with a real person, don't use it (and that includes cam contacts).
2. Avoid behaviors that mimic YOUR porn addiction. Which usually means behaviors that substitute the synthetic and the two-dimensional for the real deal.
3. Eliminating artificial or synthetic means don't engage in "cam to cam" or chat rooms.
4. Surfing Facebook, YouTube, Craig'sList or dating sites for pictures and sexual stimuli is like an alcoholic switching to lite beer.
5. Fantasizing about porn is nearly the same as watching it, as you are activating your brain's addiction-related pathways.
6. "What about fantasizing about real women?" See this FAQ for a full discussion: What about fantasizing during a reboot?
7. Reading "erotic" stories counts as porn fantasy.

Right now some readers may be thinking: "Must I avoid all dopamine-producing activities?" Of course not! Quite the opposite. You want to replace your addiction with as much fun as possible, especially exercise, socializing, meditation, even touching and smooching. A few couples employ slow, gentle intercourse and avoid orgasm (see: Another Way to Make Love). Research shows that these activities actually help regulate your dopamine levels and your mood (unlike intense video games, TV, junk-food and so forth).
Some guys think that replacing Internet porn with hours of video gaming or mindless surfing may have slowed down their rebooting process. Who knows? Certainly, Internet addiction does exist. See: Recent Internet Addiction Brain Studies Include Porn. The difference comes down to subtly different neurochemical effects that involve activation of the reward circuitry through oxytocin and opioids. When in doubt, steer for the kinds of activities your brain evolved to pursue, and which your ancestors regularly engaged in.