Hello :)

[PE_g Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE_g]

Here I am, 23 years old, uncut, 6 years sexual active,
beating it off very fast for years because I didnt want anyone to see me and now I have of course problems to stay long in bed. First girl, who i lost my virginity too, broke kinda up because of that with me. (yeah cruel world ). Since then I always had fears that a relation ship wouldnt last long. Luckily i always met girls who did not have a problem with that and to who i could speak freely about my fears..

I already learned that i did hold my PC muscle all the time (hey at least its now kinda strong) and im masterbating for 2 month now for about 20 mins (with lubricant) and upwards and try to relax the pc muscle. Stopped watching porn. I have a long-distance relationship and hoped i could last longer but the results are kinda the same. When she is beating me off i can last for 5 minutes and upwards (depends on speed). Another problem is when i go down on her, I get really excited so that even laying on my tum is enough to unload me. Fingering her is ok, but when she gets wet i do get very excited too.. Well its hard to not think of something erotic when licking or fingering a person, but i think its the problem. The fact that what im doing to a women is pleasing to her, gets me excited. Entering her is the same problem. If she stops when the glans is in, its kinda to late.. Kegeling during sex or before PONR gets me even more excited, but already mastered to get multiorgasmis.
Penis size: about 7,1 inch and 5,6 (its enough for me)

tltr: i train to stop kegeling during sex,masterbating
still got problems to stop kegeling during sex
dont know if i should concentrate to last longer through reverse kegeling (or maybe im kegeling wrong??!) or i should try to get multiorgasmic

cheers

[007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 007]

Hey man welcome. Glad your here....

Did I understand you correctly,....you have mastered multi's? If so we have a group about dry's and multi's you should come and regail us with your secrets.

Also as top you endurance issues, I think you get to much stimulie all at once and you are becomeing super-stimulated. try slowing down everything, and really taking your time with touch and pleasure. It will require a lot of mental focus, at first but eventually it gets easier.

[Dustpan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dustpan]

PE-g

Welcome to the PE Gym

[Elias Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Elias]

Hey man,

and welcome to the Gym!

I am in a long distance relationship so I can relate to you mate. I have been kegeling and reverse kegeling myself but I have not reached dry orgasms yet. It seems that you know heaps already so I don't know how to guide you eactly but I would just say that start reading mate! You can see that we have a lot of stuff here at the gym. Recommended readings would be Edging 101 and Ballooning 101 and other threads related to kegeling/reverse kegeling. There are heaps of threads where guys are talking about how to last longer in bed. Just use the search box and you'll find them mate!

I would only say that you can have both - to last longer and being multiorgasmic. Actually it is the same thing, right? You go on and on while having dry orgasms and then finally, you ejaculate! I think your problem is the timing of kegels. If you flex your PC/BC muscle too early, you will accelerate ejaculation. But if you keep them relaxed and when the feeling of cumming arises, you stop all activity (masturbation or intercourse) and do a strong kegel to stop ejaculation. Then when the feeling has passed, you can continue stroking your knob or having sex. This has worked for me. Last time I had sex, I went on and on for two hours. I stopped and kegeled when I felt like cumming and then when the feeling passed, I continued again.

So yeah, just learn the timing of kegels and stop masturbating, instead do some edging where you stay near the PONR for an extended period of time before cumming. Like teasing yourself before ejaculation. That will teach your cock to stay in the game longer!

Elias

[PE_g Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE_g]

Thx for the fast posts.

Well I got one time a multiorgasm i was only masterbating for 10 minutes and tried it, but had a hard time to keep the erection (so it wasn't probably a dry orgasmn) but it stayed hard till the second time. i did try to do it some more times but i did not get the same results.
If i get better and more accurate results, I will come to the multi-group

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

Elias is right, try the "Edging 101" and when you master that, try "Ballooning 101".

This is the best and really only way to personally train yourself. Plus, its fun, and, well,..."Pleasurable"!!!

[hardcore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcore]

hey pe_g welcome to the gym!