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I stumbled onto this forum a few days ago and have had a good time reading, so I thought I would jump in.
So as the name might suggest, I have some esteem issues. This really goes back to being a plump kid with a dysfunctional family. I have grown into a semi athletic, well-established 43 yo in a good marriage with kids. By most measures, I shouldn’t worry, but I have always been a bit of a minute man and it has bothered me. On a good day, I can manage 10 minutes, but only very occasionally longer than that.
So dummy me knocked up the wife again which has created another issue. I was always used to the condom break after a few minutes. Stopping to put on a condom was always just the right amount of time to recover and then add some damping to let me finished up on a pretty good note.
Since she has been pregnant, we haven’t used condoms and it has really cut my time to an embarrassing 3-6 minutes. I have noticed the difference in the way she interacts w/ me. She doesn’t have her hands on me as much during the day…no compliments after or often she would text me the next day with “that was fun”…things like that. She is “tired” more than she used to be. Granted she is pregnant, but you can tell, it’s just a general lack of interest.
I’m not worth staying up for in this pathetic condition. This is really taking an emotional toll on me and it’s becoming an ever present thought in my mind during the day. I have tried different techniques in the past that haven’t worked. If I masturbate, I make sure it’s longer than 10 minutes.
I have tried different herbal recommendations. They are all a joke from what I can tell.
Now on to the PE side of things. I’m “ok” size I suppose. But being “ok” with my occasional premature and ever present self esteem issues, It’s not really ok for me.
I was trying a PE routine a few years back. I wasn’t really seeing much, but I started jelqing too hard and gave myself about a 3 day impotence one time. It really scared me and I stopped.
So this round a little smarter and not pushing boundaries or comfort level. I would like to gain a little, just to push passed the "ok" size, but my preme is really the biggest issue I have.
So as the name might suggest, I have some esteem issues. This really goes back to being a plump kid with a dysfunctional family. I have grown into a semi athletic, well-established 43 yo in a good marriage with kids. By most measures, I shouldn’t worry, but I have always been a bit of a minute man and it has bothered me. On a good day, I can manage 10 minutes, but only very occasionally longer than that.
So dummy me knocked up the wife again which has created another issue. I was always used to the condom break after a few minutes. Stopping to put on a condom was always just the right amount of time to recover and then add some damping to let me finished up on a pretty good note.
Since she has been pregnant, we haven’t used condoms and it has really cut my time to an embarrassing 3-6 minutes. I have noticed the difference in the way she interacts w/ me. She doesn’t have her hands on me as much during the day…no compliments after or often she would text me the next day with “that was fun”…things like that. She is “tired” more than she used to be. Granted she is pregnant, but you can tell, it’s just a general lack of interest.
I’m not worth staying up for in this pathetic condition. This is really taking an emotional toll on me and it’s becoming an ever present thought in my mind during the day. I have tried different techniques in the past that haven’t worked. If I masturbate, I make sure it’s longer than 10 minutes.
I have tried different herbal recommendations. They are all a joke from what I can tell.
Now on to the PE side of things. I’m “ok” size I suppose. But being “ok” with my occasional premature and ever present self esteem issues, It’s not really ok for me.
I was trying a PE routine a few years back. I wasn’t really seeing much, but I started jelqing too hard and gave myself about a 3 day impotence one time. It really scared me and I stopped.
So this round a little smarter and not pushing boundaries or comfort level. I would like to gain a little, just to push passed the "ok" size, but my preme is really the biggest issue I have.
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