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  • Hello!

    I'm glad to have found this site. I've never been satisfied with my size but in the last year or so I've noticed that it's more difficult to maintain an erection when masturbating. I have no problem keeping an erection as long as there is visual stimulation or I'm physically helping but as soon as the visuals are gone or shortly after I stop helping the erection fades.

    I'm in my early 40's and fairly healthy. In the last year I lost around 30 pounds with reduced caloric intake and exercise which put my body fat around15%, where I've been fairly good at maintaining it. I was hopeful that improving my overall health would help with this issue but it hasn't.

    Today I purchased a phalloextender to not only increase my size but hopefully to help with my EQ as well. I chose this route because I simply don't have time to dedicate to all the exercises. I'm a very involved father of three and husband and I have a very demanding professional career. I typically work on my laptop after everyone is in bed, often until I fall asleep working, so the PF is the only thing that looked like it would fit my lifestyle because I can wear it while I sleep.

    I'm also considering buying a Bathmate x30 extreme to get the most out of my newbie gains. Again, this is something that will fit my lifestyle because I can do it while I shower, requiring no extra time out of my packed schedule. I'm going to post about this over in the devices forum to ask for feedback so if anyone wants to offer advice for this approach please post over there. The post will be named "Just bought phalloextender, get bathmate too?".

    My initial measurements are BPEL 5.5" EG 4.5" and I'd love to reach BPEL 7.5" EG 6". I should probably also mention that this interests me because, while I have no proof, I feel as though I've been getting smaller over the last year or two. I would also like to restore my ability to keep an erection at will, indefinitely, without constant physical help while masturbating. Lastly, I have no problem maintaining an erection when my wife is involved, it's only when I'm alone that I've noticed it.

    Once again, I'm glad to be here and I look forward to being involved, improving and hopefully helping others once I am seasoned. Thanks!

  • #2
    Welcome to PEGym!

    Glad you found us!

    It sounds like you're a super-busy guy! I think you're definitely going to like the Phallosan Forte - it's perfect to wear comfortably doing almost any type of activity, but especially if you're spending hours online. And, it's super discreet - unlike a lot of other extenders that are bulky.

    The Bathmate is definitely great because of the ability to multi-task -- pump and shower at the same time. If you're thinking of the Bathmate - be sure to use the V-Day discount Bathpump.com is giving PEGym members --

    Promo Code:
    VDAY17HERCULES – $5 off Bathmate Hercules
    VDAY17HYDROMAX – $10 off Bathmate Hydromax X20, X30, or X40
    VDAY17XTREME – $15 off Bathmate X20 Xtreme, X30 Xtreme, X40 Xtreme, or X50 Xtreme

    We have dedicated threads for both the Phallosan and the Bathmate - so, you'll have lots of support for both devices. :-)

    Again, so glad you found us! I look forward to hearing more from you!
    Kimberly
    PEGym.com

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    • #3
      Welcome ElCon! Get involved and...ENJOY!

      Watch much porn?
      The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".

      Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!

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      • #4
        Yes that's almost exclusively how I masturbate. The only way I don't use porn is if it's first thing in the morning and I'm already firing on all cylinders. That's the only time I do watch it, though, and only for that reason. This is due to a less than stellar sex life with my wife, but that's a whole other story. We're both extremely busy.
        ElConquistador
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        Last edited by ElConquistador; 02-15-2017, 01:15 PM.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by ElConquistador View Post
          Yes that's almost exclusively how I masturbate. The only way I don't use porn is if it's first thing in the morning and I'm already firing on all cylinders. That's the only time I do watch it, though, and only for that reason. This is due to a less than stellar sex life with my wife, but that's a whole other story. We're both extremely busy.
          When you stated
          I have no problem keeping an erection as long as there is visual stimulation or I'm physically helping but as soon as the visuals are gone or shortly after I stop helping the erection fades.
          this could very well be due to using porn.

          Join our AP90 (Anti Porn 90) group and thread to motivate you and be accountable for your porn use. Give it up today and begin again to use your imagination instead. If it's hard for you to stop using porn you may very well be addicted.

          The AP90 thread is here...AP90
          The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".

          Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!

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          • #6
            Welcome to the gym!

            You have been given some great advice above. If you are looking to improve your EQ I would recommend that you hold off on the bathmate and use the time in the shower to do some jelqing instead. It's a great exercise to help improve EQ. You will also want to start kegeling to strengthen your pelvic floor for improved EQ. Kegels can be done anytime and don't require any privacy to do them. Quitting porn is a good idea. Try replacing the time you spend watching it to do some exercises such as some stretching or edging. As always, if you have any questions don't hesitate to ask, the members here are very helpful.

            Good luck.

            Kegel Exercises

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            To totally satisfy a woman sexually is not about having a large penis, it's about being a good lover.

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