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Found this site today and hoping it will help.
Thought I would start at the beginning, I'm 30 years old and premature ejaculation is taking its toll on me.
From the age of 15 I was overweight and very self conscious, I never had any confidence with women and didn't actually lose my virginity until 21 to a prostitute on a drunken lads weekend. The opposite was the problem then I couldn't finish.
Years went by with the odd fumble and drunken night. Until my mid twenties, when I became very low and contemplated suicide. It was not a good time in my life but I came through it and managed to shake some demons. I lost a lot of weight going from 133kg to 95kg and decided to go traveling, my confidence did go up but I was still insecure. I had some encounters whilst traveling but issues would come up I would either lose my erection or not get one at all.
Whilst away I met someone and we but when it came down to it, I came after a minute of foreplay. I brushed it of with her saying it hadn't happened before, this went on for awhile.
Anyway long story short we actually ended up becoming a couple even with my problem and I think the only reason she put up with my 2 second performances was because I had mastered the art of oral.
I have tried drugs, Cialis did help my performance but the prices weren't sustainable.
We are now back living in the UK but my performance has troubled me so much that it is causing issues in the relationship, I sometimes last a couple of minutes and after drink I can last longer but we have talked and I don't satisfy her with sex, she is very understanding but I need to do something about it before she loses that understanding.
I have been to the doctors for my depression and have sorted some therapy to help with my depression/self esteem issues.
I hoping I can help myself with training and techniques on this website so I can enjoy sex.
Any help greatly appreciated
Thought I would start at the beginning, I'm 30 years old and premature ejaculation is taking its toll on me.
From the age of 15 I was overweight and very self conscious, I never had any confidence with women and didn't actually lose my virginity until 21 to a prostitute on a drunken lads weekend. The opposite was the problem then I couldn't finish.
Years went by with the odd fumble and drunken night. Until my mid twenties, when I became very low and contemplated suicide. It was not a good time in my life but I came through it and managed to shake some demons. I lost a lot of weight going from 133kg to 95kg and decided to go traveling, my confidence did go up but I was still insecure. I had some encounters whilst traveling but issues would come up I would either lose my erection or not get one at all.
Whilst away I met someone and we but when it came down to it, I came after a minute of foreplay. I brushed it of with her saying it hadn't happened before, this went on for awhile.
Anyway long story short we actually ended up becoming a couple even with my problem and I think the only reason she put up with my 2 second performances was because I had mastered the art of oral.
I have tried drugs, Cialis did help my performance but the prices weren't sustainable.
We are now back living in the UK but my performance has troubled me so much that it is causing issues in the relationship, I sometimes last a couple of minutes and after drink I can last longer but we have talked and I don't satisfy her with sex, she is very understanding but I need to do something about it before she loses that understanding.
I have been to the doctors for my depression and have sorted some therapy to help with my depression/self esteem issues.
I hoping I can help myself with training and techniques on this website so I can enjoy sex.
Any help greatly appreciated
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