Insecure and unmotivated

[closed184 Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed184]

Hi guys,
New here. I'm crippling insecure about my penis size. It is 4.5" x 4.5" NBPEL...and I just feel demotivated looking at it. I feel worthless. I feel like a defect. I'm not naive, I know doesnt size matters to women. I'd just be happy to be 6" nbpel and 5" thick. Unfortunately its a long way ahead even if PE does work. I just don't know what to do. I feel worthless. Has anybody else started with this size and attained their goals? I'm still skeptical that this works. Any feedback would be appreciated...

[WIItard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WIItard]

Do JP90 and see what happens. Work on what you don't like about yourself, no need to wait.

Yes people do hit their goals, I wasn't even trying and I saw gains in my first few weeks. Not huge gains but gains and more importantly better hardness.

Most important thing is your dick works. I take it yours works? Give JP90 a shot and ask any questions you have on this forum. What do you have to lose? All the info is free.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Only go with the positives. Leave your negatives along side the road of progress.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

First off you should be using BPEL for measuring. The fat pad can vary a lot between individuals so it's not a good comparison measurement.

Some of the biggest gainers here started out with a penis about the size of yours. PE works and you can reach your goal but you will need to be motivated and dedicated to get there. It's all up to you now, to achieve what you want you need to put in the work.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

Having the right mind set is vital for making this type of training work. PLEASE read the following before you begin any training: Please Read First

[closed184 Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed184]

I know it takes time..its just hard since I have to do PE in stealth.
I've done jp90 for a month before a long time ago and didn't see any results other than 1/8" EQ.

Im focusing on length for now. Currently I started Jelqing for 10 mins in the morning after I wake up. Then 5 way stretches 4x30 seconds in the evening. I also tend to skip warmups due to time constraints...what do you guys think?

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I know it takes time..its just hard since I have to do PE in stealth.
I've done jp90 for a month before a long time ago and didn't see any results other than 1/8" EQ.

Im focusing on length for now. Currently I started Jelqing for 10 mins in the morning after I wake up. Then 5 way stretches 4x30 seconds in the evening. I also tend to skip warmups due to time constraints...what do you guys think?

Warm ups are very important for training purposes.

You may not need jelqs if you're focusing on length and already performing stretches.

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

Welcome to PEGym, lbob975!

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I find wet towels or hot rice socks actually kind of reduces my plump state...it's weird. Also wouldn't light jelqs (50%) contribute to length as well?

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I find wet towels or hot rice socks actually kind of reduces my plump state...it's weird. Also wouldn't light jelqs (50%) contribute to length as well?

Low erection jelqs (with little to no lube) do target length.

Have you tried the hot soak for warming up/warming down?

[Wolf71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wolf71]

Welcome to the gym! PE absolutely works. Realistic goals, staying safe and consistent ALONG with a positive attitude can do amazing things. You're not a defect. Love your penis, make it healthier and even if it takes a while (which it does), if you knew for certain you'd gain even a quarter or half an inch in a year, you'd take that deal, right?
Stick around read a lot and have fun. This place rocks.

[closed184 Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed184]

Thank you everybody for the words of encouragement. Keeping a positive mindset is foreign to me but I'm going to persist in becoming a changed man w/ a changed penis.