Second time around

[closed259 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed259]

Hi all,

I decided that after much lurking here, something is moving me to start giving PE a real attempt.

I had always started and busted, unable to control feelings of arousal and of guilt, being self-conscious that somehow PE was a time-wasting obsession for a bunch of penis-insecure weirdos, lol! This time, I am admitting that I am coming back here of my own volition, not with the goal of become a monster, but to reclaim a normal sexuality. I have been avoiding sexual encounters as much as I could, deferring intimacy for some glorious day in the future that would never come. Instead I wasted my time on games and porn, which both are toxic to a healthy sexuality.

I do admit I am worried about being too late to the party to make any lasting changes, but since I'm here, I might as well admit I always wanted to give the JP90 a real try, before dismissing it as a pass-time for wankers (PE is very much taboo in mainstream society). I also want to cultivate the value of investing for the future, committing time and effort to pursue the lifelong reward of feeling confident in my own skin, having a healthy peen and living intimacy as everyone should -- not avoiding it at all costs.

One day is in the books. Look forward to catching up on all sides of the forum!

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Hey Mindful!

Welcome back to the Gym

It would be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to pursue.

Dont forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors.

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Welcome to the forum!

There are men well into retirement age who've been able to effect great changes through training.

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@not2big
Thanks for you thoroughly-laid advice. JP90 was very much in mind so I will stick with it. I fully agree with the 'light touch' principle; less is more.

I have actually resumed the program while away on vacation. Guess I'm quite motivated to kick-start the program. Must be patient: I am visualizing attaining my objectives in one year from now!

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@not2big
Thanks for you thoroughly-laid advice. JP90 was very much in mind so I will stick with it. I fully agree with the 'light touch' principle; less is more.

I have actually resumed the program while away on vacation. Guess I'm quite motivated to kick-start the program. Must be patient: I am visualizing attaining my objectives in one year from now!

JP's been mentioned a lot recently. I miss him very much!

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JP's been mentioned a lot recently. I miss him very much!

Indeed, I've heard of his passing. That is a great loss, but then what a legacy! I suppose I'm doing his program in honour to what he's done for this community.

It's not easy going against the grain, to be labeled as a sex and size-obsessed guru. Luckily, the woman of his life supported him, as have the women of PEGYM supported countless men.

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Slowly becoming addicted to this site. I have so much to learn and so much peen to grow!! Beginner's infatuation I guess!

I realize the road is long. Better health, better nutrition, more exercise, letting go destructive habits (like porn, excessive masturbation and gaming), music practice, becoming more social... PE seems to be far below all that!

Yet may I mention that I am totally enjoying the feeling from yesterday's routine. My peen feels loved and cared for, as though it stepped out of a spa!! Anyway, cannot wait for the next, highly enjoyable session tonight.

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Indeed, I've heard of his passing. That is a great loss, but then what a legacy! I suppose I'm doing his program in honour to what he's done for this community.

It's not easy going against the grain, to be labeled as a sex and size-obsessed guru. Luckily, the woman of his life supported him, as have the women of PEGYM supported countless men.

JP was an integral part of this forum and one of the most committed people I've ever met. His absence is still felt.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Slowly becoming addicted to this site. I have so much to learn and so much peen to grow!! Beginner's infatuation I guess!

I realize the road is long. Better health, better nutrition, more exercise, letting go destructive habits (like porn, excessive masturbation and gaming), music practice, becoming more social... PE seems to be far below all that!

Yet may I mention that I am totally enjoying the feeling from yesterday's routine. My peen feels loved and cared for, as though it stepped out of a spa!! Anyway, cannot wait for the next, highly enjoyable session tonight.

It's good to read you're liking and learning from the forum!

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I set up a progress log in the other section so I will be henceforth tracking my evolution there.

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One week in and I am more motivated than ever to keep going. The way I see it:

PE = building a healthy sexuality

(..not just getting a bigger cock)

My first goal remains simple: to find the right girl with whom I can EXPRESS and AFFIRM myself sexually.

The second but equally important goal is for me to become a lot more confident, be it relational, with my own body, and my cock.

Third goal that completes the holy trinity lol! would be to fine-tune sexual ability. So better EQ, more stamina, learning foreplay, massage technique, female psychology and how to ignite her passion, multiple/dry orgasms, mastering several positions, thrusting patterns. My, the mountain of knowledge yet to learn!

Of course the process of PE'ing WILL bring on girth and length gains. My only concern here is watching out for an enlarging ego as I start growing cock. As I said before, a bigger cock I will most happily welcome, for myself and that special gal.. but I must remain mindful of any ego trips from the increased confidence.

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Forgot to mention that after 5 full sessions, especially that last revelatory one, I am rapidly turning from skeptic to believer. I am almost certain that gains will come, sooner or later. I'm patient, so really this is the first part of a long journey. Possibly even a life journey, one where I would have no issue sharing my PE endeavours with my SO.

I absolutely love PE'ing!! 😁 I can't believe an openly admitting it, but everything about it: the physical sensations, the increased libido, the multiple erections throughout the day, the willpower to work hard towards my goals and the anticipation that the doors of my sexuality are about to swing wide open... so while I have yet to meet that special lady, in the meantime I'll be growing cock for the two of us! ❤️

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After coming back from the vacay, I wasn't feeling the time was ripe to continue on track. I guessed it might have been the high spirits from being overseas, but after a while back, and the prospects of being with a woman I had feelings for are now formally thrown in a wastebasket, my reaction is not one of indolence and depression. A sexual awakening of sorts is taking shape, and I am more motivated than ever to move on from life as I knew it in the past 18 months, and off to a new start. The exciting part is now the prospect of meeting a new woman, one where things can start off on a much better note, and where intimacy can be enabled, and this on both sides.

I often thought: do I wait to PE once I get the girl, or do I PE before? The advantage of waiting is for things to materialize organically, without thinking too much about sex. But I know myself. What I need is a STRONG motivator to MOVE towards potential romantic/sexual partners. And PE is an EXCELLENT motivator, as it provides me with ample libido from the workouts and sexual confidence from sticking to the process and witnessing positive changes (not just in size).

So here I am, looking to make a serious attempt to PE my way to a satisfying intimate relationship with a great lady.