Do I have prem E?

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I’m after some advice. I suffer from anxiety wanted some advice on if I’m suffering from prem E? I Have some episodes of quick sex (not sure how long but no more than a few mins) mostly when I’m sober. However when I’ve had a few drinks and am not feeling too anxious sex is completely normal (any where up to 40 mins+). Masterbation is also always normal. So my question is if I had prem E would this affect sex all the time even when had a drink or two? Been edgenimg for a while as well now. Any help appreciated

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Do I have Prem E

I’m after some advice. I suffer from anxiety wanted some advice on if I’m suffering from prem E? I Have some episodes of quick sex (not sure how long but no more than a few mins) mostly when I’m sober. However when I’ve had a few drinks and am not feeling too anxious sex is completely normal (any where up to 40 mins+). Masterbation is also always normal. So my question is if I had prem E would this affect sex all the time even when had a drink or two? Should I seek help or this a problem I don’t have? Been edgenimg for a while as well now. Any help appreciated

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Welcome to the forum!

What you describe does sound like anxiety induced premature ejaculation.

The following may be of use to you: More On The Mental Side Of Male Enhancement

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Thanks for your reply. The article you sent was of use. As I say most of sexual experiences are ususlaly of satisfactory length (as a couple of beers reduce my anxiety) and when sober usually last a few mins or so (not had a stop watch out though) so do I you think this is premature ejacultion and that I should do something about it? Or is this I fact normal and I should seek treatment for my anxiety (which I am doing). Been practicing with edging and can managed 20 mins before reaching ponr with no issues.

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Thanks for your reply. The article you sent was of use. As I say most of sexual experiences are ususlaly of satisfactory length (as a couple of beers reduce my anxiety) and when sober usually last a few mins or so (not had a stop watch out though) so do I you think this is premature ejacultion and that I should do something about it? Or is this I fact normal and I should seek treatment for my anxiety (which I am doing). Been practicing with edging and can managed 20 mins before reaching ponr with no issues.

You're most welcome

Your type of premature ejaculation is caused by anxiety, so doing what you can to reduce said anxiety should help to resolve your issue. Work on boosting your sexual confidence and in mastering your abilities via exercises like erect Kegels and edging (Stop and Starts).

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Having treatment for anxiety which started a few months ago and have been practicing Kegel and edging. These anxiety’s only started recently for some reason I have a long term (very long!) girlfriend who assured me I have no issues which is why It might be more anxiety than me actually suffering from prem E. Does being able to edge for 30 mins seem like a good indicator of increasing ejac time? Thanks

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I have this view .
You have anxiety that you wish to treat; this will help your sexual stamina .
I don't get into the what is pre e question too much . If i guy wants more sexual stamina i try to help him achieve it .
Edging is 1 methodology . The downside of solo edging is that it is like a boxer training in the gym ;fight night can be different . Have you done edging with your partner?
There is a lot of other methodology read the stickies.

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I merged the two threads that have the same topic and first post.

One more thread in another forum with 95% similarity that I left alone as mods already answered that one, too.

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I have this view .
You have anxiety that you wish to treat; this will help your sexual stamina .
I don't get into the what is pre e question too much . If i guy wants more sexual stamina i try to help him achieve it .
Edging is 1 methodology . The downside of solo edging is that it is like a boxer training in the gym ;fight night can be different . Have you done edging with your partner?
There is a lot of other methodology read the stickies.

Not yet tried edging with a partner. Discussed this issue with my long term partner who assures me I have nothing to worry about but when I’m anxious about sex I don’t last as long (not sure how long I do last not had sropnwatch). Do manage to have satisfying encounters but would like to be able to last every time. I’m not sure whether I need to test the anxiety or the premE?

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I have prem-ejaculation issues due to my frenulum as i can feel it getting very sensitive during intercourse/edging..From my PE exercises i ve managed to desensitise that area, but not sure if the frenulum exactly. I noticed jelqing considerably desensitises my hole glans area so it s probably that, anyway a plus for me..

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Having treatment for anxiety which started a few months ago and have been practicing Kegel and edging. These anxiety’s only started recently for some reason I have a long term (very long!) girlfriend who assured me I have no issues which is why It might be more anxiety than me actually suffering from prem E. Does being able to edge for 30 mins seem like a good indicator of increasing ejac time? Thanks

It's not uncommon for one to be able to perform fine in some scenarios (edging, masturbation, another partner, etc.) and have issues with others. This is because performance anxiety can be selective in nature.

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I have prem-ejaculation issues due to my frenulum as i can feel it getting very sensitive during intercourse/edging..From my PE exercises i ve managed to desensitise that area, but not sure if the frenulum exactly. I noticed jelqing considerably desensitises my hole glans area so it s probably that, anyway a plus for me..

Hey tspot180. What's your issue with frenulum? I used to have short frenulum which kind fulled my glans downwards especially when pulling my skin away from it. Eventually I went to urologist and had a minor surgery, where they cut it. It took maybe 30mins. It made me love my penis even more than before.. However it didn't have much effect on my Pre-E. But I am very satisfied I got this treatment done.