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[Volley Member Find all posts View Profile Close Volley]

Hello all,
My first post, just signed up on here a couple of days ago.
My user name is Volley, but my real name is Mark. I am just over 60 so have something like 45 years of wanking and fucking experience. I am married, for over 30 years, and been pretty faithful all that time. I have always enjoyed sole masturbation as well as the marital bed side of things and we have enjoyed a good and adventurous sex life.
Two things have changed in the last year or so. She has started the menopause and sex is pretty much off the menu, but I am happy enough on my own with the help of the internet if you take my meaning !
Other thing that mainly got me on this site is that my son Split with his girlfriend and came back to us, he is in his late 30's and I had pretty much forgotten that he is a lucky horse-hung lad.
We are a pretty open household as far as nudity goes, and accidental glimpses of him reminded me of his nice fat cock (when flaccid, heaven knows what He's like when hard &#128525 and has started me thinking about my "shortage" again. He was big from a baby and I always wondered where it came from, not me !.

I have a reasonable 6 inch hard-on, but slack it has always been tiny. I sometimes think I don't help myself as I pretty much never wear underwear, so living in the UK my tackle is cool most of the time. We have just had a rare hot summer so I have noticed that I look a bit better. Age has not improved things either, although my stiffy is still good. I am in reasonable shape and weight. Stopped smoking over two years ago, drink a bit though.

Anyway He is moving back out in the next week and I have decided to put a bit of effort into improving my dick. I have ordered a Bathmate with shower-strap. I would not like it if He was still here and caught me with it 🤣
My plan is to use it as often as possible without taking it to seriously. I do a bit of Jelquing and Kegels anyway.
As I've said I am mainly looking for a better look when flaccid.
I will be doing a photo diary and take some sizes (have also ordered the bathmate ruler) and hope to post on here sometime.
So that's my story, all advice welcome.
Cheers all, Mark.

[Sticke Senior Member Member of the Month March 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Sticke]

Well, PE would be fun for you, oh beware that your flaccid size will get much much bigger when you do PE. Maybe that will spark some interest to your wife. I wish you the best. Happy to have you here!

[Volley Member Find all posts View Profile Close Volley]

Thanks for the reply sticke,
A better flacid "display" is just what I'm after & a bigger boner is a bonus though!
As a newbie in PE gym, is there a glossary/explanation anywhere on here of all the abbreviations like BPEL ? think that means bone pressed erection length ?? but there are some other terms used I'm not sure of.
Thanks again.

[Sticke Senior Member Member of the Month March 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Sticke]

BPEL = Bone Pressed Erect Length / NBPEL = Non BPEL
MEG = Mid Erect Girth/ BEG = Base Erect Girth
EQ = Erection Quality
BPFSL = Bone Pressed Flaccid Stretched Length
MFG = Mid Flaccid Girth

There you go

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

The best place for you to begin would be to START HERE!

[Volley Member Find all posts View Profile Close Volley]

Thanks Sticke, and Big Al, there is indeed a list in the "start here" listing abbreviations, just hadn't read right down the list.
Cheers, Mark.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Mark!

Welcome to the Gym.

60 is a ways back in my rear view mirror.

It would be a good idea to reread the Start Here section. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to pursue.

Dont forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors.

[Volley Member Find all posts View Profile Close Volley]

Thanks not2,
After reading some of the guides etc I am thinking my first focus should be the warm up thing, never really thought about it before joining in here. As I've mentioned the thing is generally kept cool so I'll be looking at rice socks etc.
I hope to do a decent photo set as soon as I get the bathmate ruler so measurements etc are consistent.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome to the forum!

The guys have given you a lot of great advice so I'll just say jump right in and enjoy. Looking forward to hearing more from you.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Hey Volley, welcome. I’m 57, married 31 years, never strayed, she’s been my only partner. That said. She has completeld, menopause, how old is your Mrs? Should be done by now I’d think. Anyway, during and after my, wife became hyper multi orgasmic. Hope you get that lucky too.

As as far as your son’s size, my son as well is hung like a beast. He’s had many partners and steady gals as well, but truthfully would love to settle down with a soul mate, he’s 27. He’s extremely good looking BTW. Like you, I don’t know where he got it from. Worried me so much, I had to google it. Lucky, the only thing my DNA had to do with his size was to tell it to be male. Size genes are from the mother, received from her father’s genes, which he got from his maternal grandfather. My wife has her father’s wedding band, it’s sobig I could use it as a cock ring, LOL.

Old Guy Sex Forever! After all, we know what we’re doing.

[Volley Member Find all posts View Profile Close Volley]

Hi Party,
I hear what you say about sons, I would guess my wife's father was a big fella in the trouser department, he died a few years ago, but had four kids and seemed the type. like yours my lad has played the field a bit, but has yet to settle really, getting his own house next week so he won't be around (i hope) to catch me in the shower wearing my eagerly expected bathmate & strap ��
Wife (60 this year) is not having a good time health wise, so me and my cock are making our own entertainment for now, and I am hoping to make improvements for when she gets a bit more interested,
All the best,
Mark.