virginity/girth

[piatek Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close piatek]

Hi guys first of all I hope you are doing great; so I’ve never touched a girl before I have no clue on sex but 4 months ago I met a lovely cute funny girl and I’ll marry her very soon, the thing is I’m a virgin and she’s a virgin and after marriage we will have sex which is obvious. I’m just a little concerned about my girth size I have 6 inches base girth 5,6 middle shaft girth and I tried the toilet paper roll test that I measured it and it was 5,2 inches girth and I could only enter the middle of my head on it and that paper roll was big you know I cannot imagine something in my body that could stretch that way I mean is it normal for a girl to be stretched to that size, and my girl is only 5,2 feet and I think by her size she has a small vagina so guys sorry for writing a long post I just want to know if she wouldn’t be hurt by that and how to make first time sex pleasurable instead of painful I don’t want her first experience to be bad I really love her and care about her.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Get married and the two of you will figure out what works and what doesn't. That's the fun part.

[Nightforce Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nightforce]

From what I've read, for most girls/women, first time sex isn't all that "great" to begin with; most often it's painful from never having had sex before. She'll get used to your size and eventually should be pleasurable for her. Communicate with her and use PLENTY of lube.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Piatek!

Welcome to the Gym.

First off, 5.6” girth is still within the average range and over 90+% of girls would have no problem with it. However, It would be a good idea to bring some personal lube along on your first adventure to make sure everything goes smoothly.

It would also be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to pursue your routine.

Don’t forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

Your girth is above average, so take great care with your new bride!

[piatek Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close piatek]

thank you gentlemen for responding, wish me good luck

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

thank you gentlemen for responding, wish me good luck

N2B’s lube advise is a very good one. My first sexcapade was with a virgin, my future wife, btw. And she was dry as a bone.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

thank you gentlemen for responding, wish me good luck

Good luck, and please be sure to look into your first encounter as something both of you can look forward to. Surely she'll be nervous- likely more than you are- so be tender and patient.

[Wildflower Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wildflower]

This is the sweetest post!!! Have you two talked sex yet?? You should! Yes lube up! But also sed how she feels about oral and digital sex. (Fingers not phone. Hehe) im sure she is nervous. Some women do feel pain when theyre himen is broken. She may bleed a little. Youll feel a small pop type feelinv when its broken. These are all NORMAL! Go slow! Talk with her as your doing these things. Make sure she feels as relaxed as possible. Its refreshing to see the gentle kindness youve portrayed here... thats often unseen these days.

Blessings and have the best first night together!

[maxymoon Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close maxymoon]

Hey Piatek!

Welcome to the Gym.

First off, 5.6” girth is still within the average range and over 90+% of girls would have no problem with it. However, It would be a good idea to bring some personal lube along on your first adventure to make sure everything goes smoothly.

It would also be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to pursue your routine.

Don’t forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors

5.6 isn't in the average range for girth just so you know.

[piatek Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close piatek]

thank you again guys, I'll make sure to have plenty of lube

[piatek Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close piatek]

This is the sweetest post!!! Have you two talked sex yet?? You should! Yes lube up! But also sed how she feels about oral and digital sex. (Fingers not phone. Hehe) im sure she is nervous. Some women do feel pain when theyre himen is broken. She may bleed a little. Youll feel a small pop type feelinv when its broken. These are all NORMAL! Go slow! Talk with her as your doing these things. Make sure she feels as relaxed as possible. Its refreshing to see the gentle kindness youve portrayed here... thats often unseen these days.

Blessings and have the best first night together!

Thank you no we didn't talk about sex yet, the thing is both us are shy but somehow we feel comfortable to each other and I didn't realize how or when she became so precious to me she gave me a meaning to my life, all I want is to be a good husband for her
thank you for the advices!!

[piatek Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close piatek]

5.6 isn't in the average range for girth just so you know.

so if 5.6 isn't the average, would it be a problem for a virgin ?

[Moose Tenderloin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Moose Tenderloin]

When my wife and I got married she was a virgin and she said it was a couple months before sex wasn't uncomfortable. The more you have sex, the less and less it will be uncomfortable. Even now I have to warm her up, use a liberal amount of lube, and go slowly or it hurts. So, it's not just a virgin thing, we've had sex thousands of times and it is still that way. Be gentle, care, go slowly, talk, use lube, WARM HER UP FIRST, that last part is probably the most crucial part.

[maxymoon Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close maxymoon]

so if 5.6 isn't the average, would it be a problem for a virgin ?

No you have a great girth,the girth you have is my dream girth,my goal your lucky.