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I’ve been lurking and doing things on my own since September 2018. I live on the East Coast. 41. I am divorced. I have been with my girl for almost 4 years.

I’ve made some modest gains on my own through daily pumping and stretching. I am focused on length right now. I just ordered a Quick Extender Pro and I am anxiously awaiting its arrival. I’ve also enlisted the services of Big Al. He’s been great to work with.

When I was married, my sex life was pretty bad. We didn’t have a lot of sex. Looking back, I regret not putting in more of an effort there. She is a good person and deserves more. As for my current relationship, I am in love with this girl. On average, we are intimate 6-7 times a week. I have never been more attracted to anyone in my life than I am to her. We also have challenges in the bedroom. She is a good deal more experienced than I. I must admit I am intimidated by what she has told me about her past. Lots of casual partners. Lots of sneaking around. Until very recently she had not experienced an orgasm. When she got close, she would literally push me off of her. It was very frustrating and my ego took a big hit. It’s only been in the past few months that she’s trusted me enough to bring her to orgasm. She also doesn’t give a lot of head. I know she did in the past and is somewhat a sore subject. This also has hurt me a lot. Making gains has boosted my confidence. I am chasing that feeling which is why I am here. I think my goals are reasonable. I am 6.4 BPEL x 5.5 MEG now. I want to be at least a solid 7 BPEL x 5.75 MEG.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Jp!

Welcome to the Gym.

It would be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to do your exercises.

your goals are very achievable.

Don’t forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome to the forum!

Your goals are indeed very reasonable. I'm sure with Big Al's guidance you will gain even more. I would offer you some advice but your in good hands now. Jump in and enjoy the forum and keep us posted on your progress.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

I think you have a solid approach. The QEP is a great device. I have a progress log in my signature. Commit the time and you'll receive the gains. Oral will be challenging at your target girth btw and anal may be off the table with some. Just some things to consider.

[jp87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close jp87]

I think you have a solid approach. The QEP is a great device. I have a progress log in my signature. Commit the time and you'll receive the gains. Oral will be challenging at your target girth btw and anal may be off the table with some. Just some things to consider.

Actually, you and the other burrito helped me decide on the QEP. I’m hoping to use some of your knowledge in the months to come. I work from home. So it’s been very easy to stretch and pump while I work. I don’t think extending will be much different.

Great point on anal and oral. I really want the butt. However, I don’t see that happening any time soon. It’s funny, my ex-wife really like anal. Back then I wasn’t into it. But now I think about it a lot. Probably because my current partner won’t play ball. If I am being completely honest, I really want to be a bit longer. I think my girth is ok.

[jp87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close jp87]

Welcome to the forum!

Your goals are indeed very reasonable. I'm sure with Big Al's guidance you will gain even more. I would offer you some advice but your in good hands now. Jump in and enjoy the forum and keep us posted on your progress.

Thank you! I’ll still take any advice.

[jp87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close jp87]

Hey Jp!

Welcome to the Gym.

It would be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to do your exercises.

your goals are very achievable.

Don’t forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors

Thank you! That’s all good advice. I tried Jelqing. I just couldn’t get the hang of it. I work in technology. So by nature I am more of a gadget type. I’ve been pumping daily for the past 11 months. This is why I want to try the extender.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum- and thanks for the kind mention!