61 year old penis.

[Bulky-Sock Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bulky-Sock]

Hi! I do have a pencil dick. wife told me so once in my 20s, still smarts to this day. (Dick is 7"x4.5" BTW) she gets very upset with me when i bring this up.
Always was able to please my wife with it for the first 20 yrs marriage though untill she got that hystorectomy. And little by little her desire for sex grew less and less. We only had sex in 2019 7 times and 3 times in 2020.
So she finally agreed that i can get myself a toy and i ordered one that included a rechargable penis pump. The toy sucks but the pump is awesome. Should have got one years ago.
I just want added girth to my lean 7 inch cock but i still work fulltime and my wife is disabled and requires my company so i dont have a lot of time to dedicate myself for it. Half inch extra girth just to please myself.
Anyway i got a lot to learn and Im sure ill be a pest here and i bet a lot of you will be wondering "what for at your age?"
Im not sure. Maybe someone can tell me.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Welcome to the gym,

Pumping should prove to be a good choice. Take it easy in the beginning and if you have any questions at all please feel free to ask away.

There are some great threads in the devices forum, look at some of the sticky threads.

Best of luck

[Alex1988 Senior Member Member of the Month Aug 2021PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Alex1988]

Welcome Bulky-Sock,

for girth check out Bathmate, clamping, jelqing.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Bulky-sock!

Welcome to the Gym

It would be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine (doesn't have to be the JP) and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft . When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to do your exercise.

Once you have conditioned your dick, pumping is a great way to increase your girth. I pumped in the bathroom for 20 minutes in the am and again in the pm.

Don’t forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Umm so 4.5" is average girth and of course 7" is well over average length .

Still why be average welcome to the site.

[Bulky-Sock Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bulky-Sock]

Right. Way too long for the girth. I found a cardboard tube with a girth of 4.5 and cut it to seven inches. Looked really too narrow until I chopped it down to 5.5 inches long and it looked girthier. More like a penis should look like . I use to hate my girth until I learned it was average. Love my length though

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And thank you for the Welcome.

[Largo LaGrande Member Find all posts View Profile Close Largo LaGrande]

You made me consider the possibility that your penis was 61, while you were around 30. Penis-body-age-imbalance-itis. I've never felt that ageism is something that exists around here. And why would anyone get too old for well-being?


Sounds like pumping and clamping will be your road. How's the vascularity down there? Any visible veins? Lack of time might very well be to your advantage, since it'll turn into a natural seasoning period. Or conditioning period, which sounds a bit more professional.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome to the forum!

So why would you want to do it at 61? I'm a very young 59 so i'm not sure I could help you out with that.

There is a lot of information here and a lot to learn. Even better, there are a lot of great members here to help you along with any questions you may have. Ask away.

[Bulky-Sock Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bulky-Sock]

You made me consider the possibility that your penis was 61, while you were around 30. Penis-body-age-imbalance-itis. I've never felt that ageism is something that exists around here. And why would anyone get too old for well-being?


Sounds like pumping and clamping will be your road. How's the vascularity down there? Any visible veins? Lack of time might very well be to your advantage, since it'll turn into a natural seasoning period. Or conditioning period, which sounds a bit more professional.

Lots of veins just kinda narrow like everything else on my body. I only weigh 163 at 5’9.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Welcome. I’m 59, yes penis size is important even to a guy that doesn’t get to use it much. I guess I’m lucky to still have regular sex but the vibes are becoming much more relevant to her than my cock. If you are willing to relegate your self to second fiddle then try them with her. If she does t use it she’ll loose it and then it’s over for PIV Frankly you are both much to young to call it quits in the bedroom. Good luck.

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...Anyway i got a lot to learn and Im sure ill be a pest here and i bet a lot of you will be wondering "what for at your age?"
Im not sure. Maybe someone can tell me.

52 year old here.

That is how I look at PE: I am trying to achieve my full potential. There is a feeling of accomplishment from two angles. I have overcome preE and I have built up my erection. This adds to my own esteem, as I have worked hard on this project, and have, to some extent, succeeded. It is not done to impress or surprise a woman (or man). Much in the same way that I exercise or study, it is to improve myself.

I see PE as way of self-development (or self-realization, or even as it is more commonly called in western contexts, self-actualization) as found in many schools of Buddhism. For the Buddhist, self-realization takes place as a result of long and arduous discipline. PE is really a long and demanding process.

Let's be honest here, engaging in a PE routine and enlarging your erection will not fix your issues. That being said, there are positive mental aspects to engaging in any form of self-improvement, for example, the daily commitment and concentration required of a PE regimen. Trying for a bigger erection can be part of the self actualization process.

[Bulky-Sock Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bulky-Sock]

Welcome. I’m 59, yes penis size is important even to a guy that doesn’t get to use it much. I guess I’m lucky to still have regular sex but the vibes are becoming much more relevant to her than my cock. If you are willing to relegate your self to second fiddle then try them with her. If she does t use it she’ll loose it and then it’s over for PIV Frankly you are both much to young to call it quits in the bedroom. Good luck.

Shes at that point now im afraid. She refuses to use homone creams again. she says it wigs her out too much. She has no interest in a sex at this point in her life right now. Matter of fact im pretty sure she has become asexual. She even just recently chopped her long hair off and sports a dude hair cut.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Enjoy each other in every way that remains agreeable. As you both age, expect changes, look for ways to still love each other. Time and aging can cause changes; look to enjoy each other while embracing the changes.

Welcome !