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    Greetings Inernet lurkers.

    I've been going through a hot & cold series of changes in my life, and I've recently decided to take control of at least one of them. One at a time as opposed to many.

    For the sake of the introduction, I'm going to state my purpose here first. This is, I think, the only paragraph that most of you need to read really. My primary goal is to learn the secrets of male multiple orgasms, and master them. I wouldn't consider myself to be someone with a premature ejaculation problem, but I 'm definitely no marathon man; I would safely assume that I wouldn't last as long as I wanted in bed given the opportunity. Once I have that under control, I might think about trying the jelqing routines and whatnot. I still don't know how everything works yet. I've no ruler or anything, but I'm probably about 7" erect at least.

    I'm 24 years old, and single. I've been single for so long that I might as well consider myself a virgin. I was 15 when I lost that. So what's the problem exactly? Supposedly I'm a good looking guy, I'm no athlete or anything but I'm in decent shape, and try to carry myself well. I guess the issue is both in my confidence, and my avoidance of pursuit. I'm someone who is considered a "weirdo", and thinking about a long term relationship with any "normal" woman still boggles the mind. Maybe I'm being too picky. I think the bigger issue is my conundrum with sex and practice. Masturbation does not count as practice. I'm just too worried that I suck in bed as much as I did when I lost my virginity. I'm not the type to panic around women, but I just want a way to up my sexual experience without the embarrassment of potentially (still) sucking in bed, however I can't get any practice without embarrassing myself with a nice woman in the process; It's not like I know how one night stands actually work. Will one of those weird "fleshlights" help this conundrum, or make it worse?

    That's a whole 'nother issue for a whole 'nother time though. This comes first. I'll be browsing the website in order to get an assessment of things that I need to log down and keep track of in the uhh... "progress log" board. Til then, here's hoping I can tackle this before my birthday comes up, or at least before the year ends. Time limits and pressure are bad, but a man can hope, right? :P

    Let's kick this off!
    Goal: Nothing to do with increasing size just yet, but I seek to learn and master the secrets of Multiple Male Orgasm. That is all that matters to me right now.

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    MMO is quite fun. I suggest you join the group to get the info on it!
    Starting Size (09/2009): ~7"BPEL x ~5" MSEG
    Most Recent Measurement (08/13/2012): 8"BPEL x 5.5"MSEG
    Final Goal: When I'm told to stop.
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    • #3
      I've experienced similar issues GoFig4. The way I deal with premature ejaculation is to masturbate up until the point where you're just about to bust...and then stop and let it subside, do this over and over throughout your masturbation session until you finally decide to let go of the ejaculation. This technique is mentioned on this site quite a bit and referred to as "edging" and will build your endurance. Also, when I'm having sex and the feeling gets overwhelmingly intense too soon, I'll pull out and go to giving her oral sex for a while or to switch positions. She won't suspect you're doing it to prevent early ejaculation if you do it quickly and aggressively, and she'll be thrilled to see that you're diverse and devoted to pleasuring her all around. Also, if you release the muscle tension in your entire penis area when you get the urge of ejaculation, and close your eyes to block the visual stimulation, that can help to prevent it also. Of course one thing that still gets me a lot of the time is the verbal stimulation...If she's a seductive screamer and moaner it's EXTREMELY difficult for me to block premature ejaculation.
      Anyway...hope this helps. You said you have a 7" penis at the least so you can always work on ejaculation issues with the consoling pleasure of having a fairly large penis (you're over the halfway-mark of the ruler)
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      • #4
        NP97, Thanks for the tip, one of the first things I did was join that group. There is already a ton of information for me to sort through, but now I know where my priorities lie.
        Dedicator, Thanks for the information! Depending on my free time, I hope to put this to use as often as possible. One thing though.. am I letting the erection subside 100%, or just enough to let the PNR feeling subside? I used to have trouble fighting the urge to ejaculate during practice, but is no longer a big issue.

        Also my being single situation is still at hand, so the other tip is much appreciated. I still worry about my performance after not having a shot at it for so long though. Masturbation is no substitute for the real thing, and not as intense... haha yes I am worried indeed.
        Goal: Nothing to do with increasing size just yet, but I seek to learn and master the secrets of Multiple Male Orgasm. That is all that matters to me right now.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Gofig4 View Post
          NP97, One thing though.. am I letting the erection subside 100%, or just enough to let the PNR feeling subside?
          Just enough to let the feeling subside
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