May never have sex, but I still jelq/stretch. Anyone else in this situation?

[bcroger2 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bcroger2]

I am a 26 year old man who has never had sex, or a girlfriend/kissed a girl since high school.

During college, I asked out 2 foids, both of whom said no. I talked to about 6 other foids. They all brought up their "boyfriends" or never talked back to me/only answered my questions and never replicated interest.

That said, I still jelq and stretch. When I was 19, I was just shy of 5 inches (about 4.75 inches) . Today I am about 6 inches(not bone pressed, but I do measure to the side, and push down on *some fat.) Having a bigger penis makes me feel more confident, so I can talk to women easier. One of the best parts about having a bigger dick though is that my penis retracts/turtles much less now, so I get into much less uncomfortable situations, especially during exercise.

My goal is 6.5 inches erect and I want a bigger flaccid penis (current flaccid penis is still much smaller than average, but still much bigger than when I started, which at the time was like 1 inch) so I never have to worry about turtling/uncomfortable situations again.

Thoughts? Anyone else in this situation?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

What makes you so glum about the future?

[bcroger2 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bcroger2]

My experiences in college

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well if you want to live in the past be my guest but it's wrong. You want a great happy life? Go out and make one or sit around saying oh woe is me!

[bcroger2 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bcroger2]

True. You are right. I'm figuring out ways to get out there.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

No don't figure out ways just go out and be yourself; be young, have fun and just talk to people. Not everyone will like you but some will and then you can enoy being young.

[bcroger2 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bcroger2]

No don't figure out ways just go out and be yourself; be young, have fun and just talk to people. Not everyone will like you but some will and then you can enoy being young.

True. Its just hard to go places without friends. For example, I don't want to go to a bar or club alone.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Tell me you have no friends? I find that hard to believe.

[tara123 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tara123]

You can meet women anywhere.

Do you have any hobbies where you could join a club?

Do you work? Alot of people meet partners at work.

Do you have friends who can introduce you to their female friends?

Have you given apps like tinder a try?

[MalikMasvidal Member Find all posts View Profile Close MalikMasvidal]

Depends if you just want meaningless sex, or want to make love with someone who means something to you. Meaningless sex is easy to get, like others here have mentioned, but its not that satisfying, and filled with regret afterwards, until you do it so much that you're desensitized to it. Meaningful sex with someone you love is much better, and I think thats what you want. And if you want to find a good partner, then you need to learn to be a man, work on your whole body, not just your cock, hygiene, no drugs, seek knowledge, get a career not just a job, have goals in life that are not just pussy, learn how to talk to people, stop putting women on a pedestal.

[Pankajlal Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Pankajlal]

If you are having too much difficulties with women, then I would suggest you to join a PUA group of your city. They are very helpful and guide you through approaching women and presenting yourself properly to women. Over the time, you will get sufficient social skills so that you will stop feeling anxiety.

[355casio Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 355casio]

Your mind set is wrong , You should be writing 26 year old YOUNG man . and you sample size of woman is to0 small . Just keep talking to different woman and asking them out . look for the signals woman are giving you in passing .

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

While a slight bit of anxiety is normal at first, it should be something you have to stress over. Take your time and enjoy the experience of courting.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Depends if you just want meaningless sex, or want to make love with someone who means something to you. Meaningless sex is easy to get, like others here have mentioned, but its not that satisfying, and filled with regret afterwards, until you do it so much that you're desensitized to it. Meaningful sex with someone you love is much better, and I think thats what you want. And if you want to find a good partner, then you need to learn to be a man, work on your whole body, not just your cock, hygiene, no drugs, seek knowledge, get a career not just a job, have goals in life that are not just pussy, learn how to talk to people, stop putting women on a pedestal.

Thanks for this thoughtful reply!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Stop tensing up. Tension causes anxiety, turtling. Learn to relax. Meditate.

Oh to be 26 again with what I know now.

Welcome to the jungle.