New to Ed, this forum and I'm female

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

It has to start with him Misty. I presume he knows it's important to you? He needs to decide if he cares enough about you to do what is necessary to make you happy. It's all about not being selfish.

If he does decide to open up about it, two of the best things he can do for ED are kegels (repeated flexing and relaxing of the muscle you use to stop peeing) to improve blood flow and squeezing exercises like the jelq to improve circulation. Good luck!

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

He has to reconize that he has a problem. There is a such thing as irreversable ED. This usually is a result of neglecting to deal with the issue of erectile dysfunction.