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    Hello guys..I am new here and i really need some help.
    I am 26 and i thought i would be great ...which i am everywhere except in bed. Which just sucks the life out of me.
    I will tell u my story so that u ppl can help me. I started to masturbate at the age of 17 and i use to get a very hard and bigger erection. But i was a shy guy in school and i use to think that masturbation was a sin , but then my body demand was so high that i became a sex frenzy and i use to do it two - three times a day. this continued for a long time . then in the college i had a full access to porn and i started to time myself as in porn -they can do it for 30 mins and i could masturbate for only 4-5 min. this was my mistake which i am repenting today. I then ..started to loose my erection a little bit ...and i contnued to rely on porn for an erection as t was good and i was adamant to last long like a pornstar. I never knew that they did some penis excercises to achive those limits and i was in a wild goose and everytime i failed in achieving that i lost confidence. Over time i lost a little bit more erection , i wasn't as hard and big as i use to be but somedays , yes i use to be like the old days, which use to keep me away from visiting the doc or anybody else for this problem.
    This continued and i a doubt was always with me that maybe i wasn't good enough and my erection isn't good(which now i know was good, and i was an idiot back then to think it was wrong).
    Today the situation is , i found an extremely good girl and we wanted to have sex and i failed , i couldn't get the proper erection.
    this was suppose to be my first time . I have never had sex before and i have never been in a relationship, i have had bad luck with the ladies. And i use to vent out my frustration by watching porn, and look what i have done to myself, i have destroyed myself.

    I came across ur PE forum, and i think if a man is determined enough he can do everything. Lance armstrong was able to win over cancer. I just wana go back to the way i was when i first started when i use to have a large erection (seriously that was good). I don't get that anymore and i think thats all my fault.

    I have started to do some kegel exercise from yesterday , i can hold the pc muscles for 5 sec and i repeat this for 30-40 times. this seems to have brought some life back as i had an erection in the morning, which was 70% strong. I have stopped porn.

    Guys i really need help , please tell me what to do to get my proper erection.(on monday i will go to see the doc to check if my testosterone levels are fine or not, i suspect they have fallen.)
    Control one's emotion to control the world around.
    Initial flaccid- 4.5 x 4 inch
    Initial Erect- 6.5 x 4.5 inch
    Goal-7 x 5 inch.

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    How long have you been off the porn mate? Sounds to me like your dick is very much alive! The porn has just mixed up the signals, and its playing havoc with your erection. I do not believe you have "destroyed" yourself, but its going to take some re-training to get you back to normality. A lot of us here are dealing with the effects of porn habit. I'd keep doing your kegels (don't go overboard though, stay the hell away from porn, and i reckon your erection will improve.

    Welcome to pe mate. In time, things will get better.

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    • #3
      I highly recommend JPs newbie routine, erection tea. and the supplements! It has brought new life below the belt.
      NoseyBailey:rolleyes:

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