Looking at my future.

[jscorpio Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jscorpio]

Hello guys, my names Jerome im 43 and a 335 pd mess. Ive gotten married and we've had a baby in the last year. During that time ive let myself go. Weight up, sex drive down. SO... being that im a fix it type of guy I've finally said to myself "ITS TIME TO CHANGE". Not only for myself but the beautiful woman i married. My sex drive is next to nil and that's not acceptable anymore (i used to blame it on working, (the overnight shift), and having a part time job and being to tired). So im here as part of my self improvement plan. Im currently reading the site to figure how to begin - stretching, jelqing???? everything. So i dont have a plan yet, but its in the making. I will see you gentlemen around the boards.

[Unit Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Unit]

That's the way to do it. Read and learn. I'm 47 and PE has helped my sex life. I look forward to seeing you around.

[selfgrowth Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close selfgrowth]

Jerome, I'm curious what drew you to PE. I ask because you mentioned that as your weight went up your sex drive went down. Are you considering approaching your drop in sex drive with from the general fitness side as well?

No matter the reason, best of luck! I've been on the site only a short time, but have found it to be a great community.

[jscorpio Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jscorpio]

Thank you UnitaElevation, Selfgrowth, yes im going to be getting more active, i have a gym i can use for free(no excueses). My diet needs alot of work to. Im going full circle. what made me stop by was my wife and i have not had alot sex before the baby or during the pregnancy, the feeling just wasnt there. i have 2 jobs so i concentrated on them. my wife and i have talked about this situation, and ive had blood wk done - low testosterone, ive had my pitutary gland checked , itsmaking to much prolactin, need to see an endocrinologist. was gonna follow up with doctors but decided to look at myself first and see what i could do. ALSO its been 6 wks since the baby and we can have sex. Its been toooooooo long.

[Sanjuro Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sanjuro]

Fantastically noble jscorpio; its such a pleasure to see someone PE not only for themselves, but for their loved ones as well, self improvement eventually becomes a passion, once you see the weight drop, the gains start, and every day you're a little bit better than the previous day, heck, not much can stop you then! And who'd want to! Best of luck, we'll be watching

[selfgrowth Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close selfgrowth]

Jscorpio, it sounds like you are being very proactive about working on yourself and are fortunate to have a supportie wife. I agree with the other comments about how good progress feels. You have a great plan. Keep us posted!