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Hi guys. I found this forum about a week ago and was just reading through the posts for the past few days. I have tried jelqing and whatnot before but never stuck to it for more than a few days (usually out of boredom or discouragement). Eventually I realized if I'm going to get any results I want to commit to doing this and make it a routine. In my opinion, this won't be hard for me to do. I work out regularly and have no problem keeping routines in any other aspect of my life so this shouldn't be any different. Anyways! Here's a little bit about me.
I turned nineteen a few weeks ago. I'm currently a second year university student (Philosophy + Poli Sci major w/ legal studies option).
I wouldn't say that I am INSECURE about my penis size specifically. I know that I am average length and I am also a little bit above average girth. The problem is that I am just insecure in general and I've made it my life's goal to get over all fears and become completely confident.
Here's the story that led my to the forum:
I started dating a girl at the beginning of last semester. She had recently gotten out of a piece of shit relationship that was officially over months before but was lingering because she was being lead on.
We started becoming sexually active together within a month or so of meeting. It is not just a physical thing (for anyone who may guess that). This relationship means a lot to me and its not my first long-term relationship so I DO know how to tell when I am actually in love with somebody. I am sure of it this time. The best part is, I know for sure she feels the same about me.
Here's where it got a little tough:
I am a competitive person. I'm pretty sure MOST men are, deep down, just as competitive as any other. We were talking one time about past relationships and we got on the topic of penis size (somehow, don't ask my how... it just happens ahaha).
Of course, her ex was apparently well-hung.
At first I was a little insecure about it, but I never made it apparent to her that I was letting an insecurity of mine affect how I feel about her. I knew then, and have always known that confidence is the number 1 factor in a successful ANYTHING. I have only spoken to her once about my feelings regarding this, and I made it as brief and casual as possible. I refused to turn into "wah wah, he's bigger". The conversation was more like, "I know I'm not as big as him. It makes me worry that you'll judge me, but I know we can communicate with each other and sort this out".
Since then I haven't been insecure at all during sex. I've lasted longer, had more fun, etc. But underneath it all I obviously would not mind working with what I've got to its FULLEST potential.
In the last 2/3 weeks I've noticed I've gotten larger by almost half an inch. It happened so quickly that I was almost in disbelief.
This brought my approx length from around 5.75 inches to almost 6 and a quarter.
I want to commit to a routine that can increase my length moreso than girth. At the moment my girth is only a little (less than a 1/4 inch) under 6 inches. I feel like my girth makes me look less long than I am.
Thank you to anyone who read this. I'm sorry if it got to be a bit of a long intro. At least now you know a little backstory for why I'm here.
Looking forward to some help
Wazza
I turned nineteen a few weeks ago. I'm currently a second year university student (Philosophy + Poli Sci major w/ legal studies option).
I wouldn't say that I am INSECURE about my penis size specifically. I know that I am average length and I am also a little bit above average girth. The problem is that I am just insecure in general and I've made it my life's goal to get over all fears and become completely confident.
Here's the story that led my to the forum:
I started dating a girl at the beginning of last semester. She had recently gotten out of a piece of shit relationship that was officially over months before but was lingering because she was being lead on.
We started becoming sexually active together within a month or so of meeting. It is not just a physical thing (for anyone who may guess that). This relationship means a lot to me and its not my first long-term relationship so I DO know how to tell when I am actually in love with somebody. I am sure of it this time. The best part is, I know for sure she feels the same about me.
Here's where it got a little tough:
I am a competitive person. I'm pretty sure MOST men are, deep down, just as competitive as any other. We were talking one time about past relationships and we got on the topic of penis size (somehow, don't ask my how... it just happens ahaha).
Of course, her ex was apparently well-hung.
At first I was a little insecure about it, but I never made it apparent to her that I was letting an insecurity of mine affect how I feel about her. I knew then, and have always known that confidence is the number 1 factor in a successful ANYTHING. I have only spoken to her once about my feelings regarding this, and I made it as brief and casual as possible. I refused to turn into "wah wah, he's bigger". The conversation was more like, "I know I'm not as big as him. It makes me worry that you'll judge me, but I know we can communicate with each other and sort this out".
Since then I haven't been insecure at all during sex. I've lasted longer, had more fun, etc. But underneath it all I obviously would not mind working with what I've got to its FULLEST potential.
In the last 2/3 weeks I've noticed I've gotten larger by almost half an inch. It happened so quickly that I was almost in disbelief.
This brought my approx length from around 5.75 inches to almost 6 and a quarter.
I want to commit to a routine that can increase my length moreso than girth. At the moment my girth is only a little (less than a 1/4 inch) under 6 inches. I feel like my girth makes me look less long than I am.
Thank you to anyone who read this. I'm sorry if it got to be a bit of a long intro. At least now you know a little backstory for why I'm here.
Looking forward to some help
Wazza
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