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New Member and My story
Where to begin? I have been with my wife since age 16 (didn't get married until I was 22) and I am now 31. For the first 12 years everything was great in the penis department. Rock hard erections and the ability to stay erect as long as was needed.
Then 5 years ago I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. Nearly died from not knowing what was wrong with me. My blood sugar was so high everyone in the ER thought I would be dead by morning. The blood sugar reading was 1800 and that is not a typo. I luckily did not slip into a coma or anything really. Oddly enough, I felt fine other than the extreme thrush that was devastating my mouth.
Everything was still functioning properly until around 3 years ago. The economy tanked, I lost my job, then subsequently the wife and I had to move in with my parents for lack of income. I was depressed and also trying to get it on with your wife in your parents house was devastating to my erection.
It was pretty much a downward spiral from that point. Although the wife and I could get it going enough for penetration and I could go for a while but it was no where near hard. And the act was no where near satisfactory for me. On the other hand, she could not tell a difference because while my erections were fading, she actually enjoyed sex more. She had started to have multiple orgasms during intercourse.
I ignored the problem but It had only got worse. When my wife would preform oral, she thought that I was losing interest in her because of it's 60% erect status. I still very much love and desire my wife. (She's really really hot, IMO) She on the other hand could not understand what was going on. Hell, I didn't either. I never thought I could experience ED at my age. Never even crossed my mind. I was just told by my GP that it was normal for diabetics to have weak erections.
My GP gave me a script for Cialis and a trial pack. I went home, popped a pill and had a raging erection for like 15 min. under direct stimulation. While I showed improvement, I was disappointed because I would normally last for at least an hour beforehand. Cialis was supposed to work for 36 hrs and it kind of stopped at around 16 hrs. I used up all the pills in 5 months because the wife and I are still very sexually active. Even with the weak erections. I stopped taking Cialis because of the expense.
I discovered this site about 3 months ago. I have been lurking and trying to absorb as much information as possible since. From the information I have gathered from this site about ED, my sex life has changed dramatically. I started drinking the Erection Tea (Green tea, ginger, cinnamon, clove and horny goat's weed w/ a twist of lemon), taking the 5G supplements and doing kegals; went from around 60% erect to now around 80%. I have discussed with my wife on starting the PE training regimen but she is kind of against this idea. Mainly because my penis when 100% erect is 9.5" by 7". She does not want to see gains but would like to see it back at 100% erect because she knows it feels good to me.
So I'm torn on what to do about PE training. Anyone have advice on how to gain back my 100% erection? I've given up on Cialis and other erection pills. (I don't believe I need them anymore) Only natural teas or supplements and exercise. Oh, I do not watch porn.
-Jack Trades
Then 5 years ago I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. Nearly died from not knowing what was wrong with me. My blood sugar was so high everyone in the ER thought I would be dead by morning. The blood sugar reading was 1800 and that is not a typo. I luckily did not slip into a coma or anything really. Oddly enough, I felt fine other than the extreme thrush that was devastating my mouth.
Everything was still functioning properly until around 3 years ago. The economy tanked, I lost my job, then subsequently the wife and I had to move in with my parents for lack of income. I was depressed and also trying to get it on with your wife in your parents house was devastating to my erection.
It was pretty much a downward spiral from that point. Although the wife and I could get it going enough for penetration and I could go for a while but it was no where near hard. And the act was no where near satisfactory for me. On the other hand, she could not tell a difference because while my erections were fading, she actually enjoyed sex more. She had started to have multiple orgasms during intercourse.
I ignored the problem but It had only got worse. When my wife would preform oral, she thought that I was losing interest in her because of it's 60% erect status. I still very much love and desire my wife. (She's really really hot, IMO) She on the other hand could not understand what was going on. Hell, I didn't either. I never thought I could experience ED at my age. Never even crossed my mind. I was just told by my GP that it was normal for diabetics to have weak erections.
My GP gave me a script for Cialis and a trial pack. I went home, popped a pill and had a raging erection for like 15 min. under direct stimulation. While I showed improvement, I was disappointed because I would normally last for at least an hour beforehand. Cialis was supposed to work for 36 hrs and it kind of stopped at around 16 hrs. I used up all the pills in 5 months because the wife and I are still very sexually active. Even with the weak erections. I stopped taking Cialis because of the expense.
I discovered this site about 3 months ago. I have been lurking and trying to absorb as much information as possible since. From the information I have gathered from this site about ED, my sex life has changed dramatically. I started drinking the Erection Tea (Green tea, ginger, cinnamon, clove and horny goat's weed w/ a twist of lemon), taking the 5G supplements and doing kegals; went from around 60% erect to now around 80%. I have discussed with my wife on starting the PE training regimen but she is kind of against this idea. Mainly because my penis when 100% erect is 9.5" by 7". She does not want to see gains but would like to see it back at 100% erect because she knows it feels good to me.
So I'm torn on what to do about PE training. Anyone have advice on how to gain back my 100% erection? I've given up on Cialis and other erection pills. (I don't believe I need them anymore) Only natural teas or supplements and exercise. Oh, I do not watch porn.
-Jack Trades
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