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Hello to all. I'm in my mid thirties, and I'm told I'm quite a good looking guy, perhaps even have a good looking penis, but at around 5.5" EL and have a FL that can become rather embarressing depending upon the situation, I have some negative thoughts/feelings/behaviours (such as shyness, low confidence) that thinking positively only goes so far to address.
My wife has never indicated that my size is an issue, and I think as well as being acutely aware of the impact that such perceptions can have on a fellow, she may also truly believe that it isn't an issue for her. Sometimes during sex though, she will apologise for being 'too wet' and might say 'you mustn't be able to feel anything', and I can regularly slip out which is an annoying mood and rhythym breaker. She has been insulted by other guys before for being too large/loose, so saying these things is a automatic defence for her, from being hurt by jerks in the past.
We recently agreed, after a very horny weekend of discussing fantasies and such, to go to a swingers club next year when she gets her braces off. We had probably the best sex we've ever had that weekend, and I orgasmed so hard that I was shocked. I yelled and screamed out and then afterwards laughed and laughed and thought if it had been any stronger I would have died. So I've been gearing up my mind to go to a swingers club where most likely the guys that have enough confidence to attend such a thing are all larger than average. I was thinking that I have a mind, heart, body and cock that can share pleasure, and I just need to accept my place amongst larger men. If I can be comfortable swapping partners, I don't have to feel bad anymore that I'm depriving my wife of a larger penis.
Having said that, I thought it might be a good idea to search for ideas to stop shrinkage, if there was some kind of herb or medicine or technique that would stop my flaccid state from getting so small, especially in this future situation where I might feel threatened. I eventually found this site. I had looked into surgery before, but the outcomes and the price were unacceptable to me. At first the idea of natural PE seemed like a crock, but the more I looked at people's stories, and the fact that noone is really trying to sell anything, made me realise that something is going on here. Bloody hell, something is going on here that could change my life!
I've learnt that PE is going to take time and dedication and honesty, and I'm feeling pretty excited about it. I'm a little worried still that it's too good to be true, but this has got to be worth a serious undertaking. The thing is, I was ready to accept myself as I am anyway, so if I grow just a little and improve my penis health, then it won't be in vain. I've alreay told my wife though that I believe there's exercises and techniques that a man can do to increase the size of his penis, and apart from being worried that I'm going to break it, I think she has the same guarded feelings of excitement and hopefullness as I do. I figured that telling her is going to make the whole thing easier, say if I want to do the exercises in front of tele or something, rather than hiding away in the bathroom or whatever.
So after I take all the proper measurements, I'll start with a very light practise routine of learning the techniques of some simple stretching and jelqing whilst I research more about the routine I will follow. I'm thinking the JP's 90 day routine. I'm uncut though so I'm also trying to find techniques more specific to issues involved with being uncircumsized. I also have a 1/3 pound all day weight on it's way, which I figure may be helpful in the future too if I do weight hanging, post workout to prevent turtling and heal at a stretched length etc using a safe all day weight.
I don't know if it's too weird writing a large post like this for the introduction, and hope I haven't inadertently broke any forum policies by talking about sex, but I thought I may as well get the backstory out there, possibly adding some interest and context to my future posts, and lettng you know what has led me here.
Wish me luck
My wife has never indicated that my size is an issue, and I think as well as being acutely aware of the impact that such perceptions can have on a fellow, she may also truly believe that it isn't an issue for her. Sometimes during sex though, she will apologise for being 'too wet' and might say 'you mustn't be able to feel anything', and I can regularly slip out which is an annoying mood and rhythym breaker. She has been insulted by other guys before for being too large/loose, so saying these things is a automatic defence for her, from being hurt by jerks in the past.
We recently agreed, after a very horny weekend of discussing fantasies and such, to go to a swingers club next year when she gets her braces off. We had probably the best sex we've ever had that weekend, and I orgasmed so hard that I was shocked. I yelled and screamed out and then afterwards laughed and laughed and thought if it had been any stronger I would have died. So I've been gearing up my mind to go to a swingers club where most likely the guys that have enough confidence to attend such a thing are all larger than average. I was thinking that I have a mind, heart, body and cock that can share pleasure, and I just need to accept my place amongst larger men. If I can be comfortable swapping partners, I don't have to feel bad anymore that I'm depriving my wife of a larger penis.
Having said that, I thought it might be a good idea to search for ideas to stop shrinkage, if there was some kind of herb or medicine or technique that would stop my flaccid state from getting so small, especially in this future situation where I might feel threatened. I eventually found this site. I had looked into surgery before, but the outcomes and the price were unacceptable to me. At first the idea of natural PE seemed like a crock, but the more I looked at people's stories, and the fact that noone is really trying to sell anything, made me realise that something is going on here. Bloody hell, something is going on here that could change my life!
I've learnt that PE is going to take time and dedication and honesty, and I'm feeling pretty excited about it. I'm a little worried still that it's too good to be true, but this has got to be worth a serious undertaking. The thing is, I was ready to accept myself as I am anyway, so if I grow just a little and improve my penis health, then it won't be in vain. I've alreay told my wife though that I believe there's exercises and techniques that a man can do to increase the size of his penis, and apart from being worried that I'm going to break it, I think she has the same guarded feelings of excitement and hopefullness as I do. I figured that telling her is going to make the whole thing easier, say if I want to do the exercises in front of tele or something, rather than hiding away in the bathroom or whatever.
So after I take all the proper measurements, I'll start with a very light practise routine of learning the techniques of some simple stretching and jelqing whilst I research more about the routine I will follow. I'm thinking the JP's 90 day routine. I'm uncut though so I'm also trying to find techniques more specific to issues involved with being uncircumsized. I also have a 1/3 pound all day weight on it's way, which I figure may be helpful in the future too if I do weight hanging, post workout to prevent turtling and heal at a stretched length etc using a safe all day weight.
I don't know if it's too weird writing a large post like this for the introduction, and hope I haven't inadertently broke any forum policies by talking about sex, but I thought I may as well get the backstory out there, possibly adding some interest and context to my future posts, and lettng you know what has led me here.
Wish me luck
Admin of the Month Mar 2015
to the forum, I think you are one of them that will be in there for the long-haul.
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