Small Penis - Big Penis

[flamego67 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close flamego67]

Hi everyone! I am 21 years old and since my teenage years I have been suffering with the size of my penis; I feel as though I am missing out on what should be the best times of my life. I have wasted countless opportunities to get close to someone for fear of being humiliated and this has lead to becoming extremely lonely not to mention the lack of girlfriends has lead to my parents questioning if I am gay. As many with a small penis do, as a man I feel inadequate, my confidence has evaporated and I fear I maybe battling depression.

This is not however, a sob story feel sorry for myself rant!

I refuse to be beaten and continue to live like this! And here I hope to have found the tools that with a little bit of dedication could really help me improve my life, hopefully with some support and encouragement I can achieve a bigger penis.

I measure my penis at between 5 and 5.5 inches in length and just under 6 inches in length if bone pressed. The length is not so much of an issue; I reach only 4-4.1 inch in girth, which is very thin and makes the penis look very small.

Thanks for reading and any advice is greatly appreciated.

[Jama Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jama]

Your in the right place! Make yourself happy to comeback a year from now way bigger! Stick with it no matter what!

[PiNkY Member Find all posts View Profile Close PiNkY]

Hey don't be so ashamed of what you got. I have similar stats as you. Now that I have started I am seeing some small gains but it has boosted up my confidence a lot. Start JP's 30 Day beginner routine and you start seeing some gains in no time. Good luck and Welcome!

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

The part where you said that you fear you may be battling with depression worries me a bit. I understand the way you feel about your penis and how it is holding you back because the same has applied to me also. Unfortunately i had a long battle physchologicaly because of the way i felt and this caused ED and the low self esteem that came with it. I could not participate in penile exercising untill i conquered those problems which held me back even longer ...one hell of a nasty circle.
The best advice i can give you is be POSITIVE ! do not exercise with the mindset " i am small". Instead exercise with the mindset that every workout is taking you one step closer to your goal and use the mantra "My penis is getting bigger day by day".

[James8X6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close James8X6]

The best advice i can give you is be POSITIVE ! do not exercise with the mindset " i am small". Instead exercise with the mindset that every workout is taking you one step closer to your goal and use the mantra "My penis is getting bigger day by day".

Great advice Viper. Many people disregard the mental side.

My length is the about the same as yours, however my girth is 4.6inches - a little bigger, but still nothing to shout about. Dont let your stats get you down. Just go out, enjoy life, stay dedicated to PE (and be dedicated to rest days) and within 6 months you may even get to 6inches NBP x 4.5. This would put you pretty much right in the middle of average!

[Boitim2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boitim2]

flame your not small, you might want to think about a vacuum pump or a bathmate, that will help alot in girth.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

First, bro, dude, I myself feel my s*** small so a lot of men feel the same even if stats say different. Don't be depressed about it but rather do something about it. If you are here, then you are taking the steps to increase your size, props from me to you. Also, bro, don't like your penis' girth be the marker for your manhood, it is still just a part of your body. I hope you the best of gains.

[flamego67 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close flamego67]

Thanks a lot for the advice and comments guys. I am definitely trying to stay positive, as I said I may be battling depressing but I have not succumbed to it and am feeling highly optimistic atm, even if the gains don’t come initially I will stay dedicated!

I am not sure about a penis pump yet, don’t know too much about them, are they safe etc? Right now I feel to concentrate on the PE and if that fails, maybe I will attempt the pump?

I have begun my routine and will post back with my progress soon! Thanks again

[Lazarus Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Lazarus]

flame your not small, you might want to think about a vacuum pump or a bathmate, that will help alot in girth.

Where can I get these?

edit:
Is a vacuum pump basically a penis pump?
http://www.maleenhancementblog.net/w...penis-pump.jpg

[closeed258 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closeed258]

Is a vacuum pump basically a penis pump?

Yes it is, be sure not to buy a cheap pump without a gauge they're a waste of money. It is worth paying more to get a good one.

[closeed258 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closeed258]

Good luck on your PE journey Flame!!

[Lazarus Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Lazarus]

If possible, can you link me to a quality one? Also, what are the benefits of using one and are the results, if any, permanent? Sorry for the questions just a noob and I'm one of those people that try to find out as much about something before buying or trying it. Thanks in advanced!

[chris1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chris1]

If possible, can you link me to a quality one? Also, what are the benefits of using one and are the results, if any, permanent? Sorry for the questions just a noob and I'm one of those people that try to find out as much about something before buying or trying it. Thanks in advanced!

You can buy it at Vacutech.com with a gauge. Don't buy cheap pump without a gauge.

[Ranchu Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ranchu]

5-5.5" is definitely nothing to b depressed about... mine is alil over 5inch (nbp) when erect in its normal state and probably around 5.75" (nbp) just before PONR... i only started PEing less than 2 months ago... my gains to date have been very minimal if any, however i must say my EQ is generally better... regardless, im still goin to keep at it and hope for the best... and i guess ill give it one solid year before i make up my mind on quitting PE if i still dont have any visually evident gains...

i know how u feel about being inadequate, but in all honesty, id much rather have sex with a quality gf than fuck sum random... if a girl truly has feelings for you, the size of ur penis is not an issue... goodluck and all the best...

[flamego67 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close flamego67]

Hi guys, quick update of how i'm doing!

I have gains!!
About .2 in both length and girth! - When i have my hardest erections the gains are really noticeable!
This is just the start for me
I began with JPs routine but for me it took too long and it was more like a chore - my attitude to it was wrong and i didn't really think that it was working for me
But i didn't want to stop and so i tried something along the lines of espg - where i would just do the basic stretches followed by jelpquing with lots of edging!! I enjoy the exercises and believe they are working for me - which is why i think i am having much more success with them!!

I also during this period of successful PE, first discovered the doco-movie 'the Secret' and the wonders of the law of attraction - this has really helped me mentally and i believe that my practiced and purposeful belief that these exercises do work have lead to my success!