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Hey guys and girls. I just wanted to introduce myself. I have been restoring for the last couple months and that led me to find this site. I am 33 years old and was married at 20 years old to the only woman I had ever been intimate with. She had two partners before me, and of course I wanted to be the biggest lover she had. I Unfortunantly was told that her first lover wad much bigger than me, and I was about the same size as her second lover.. I was decistated...

This news fortunantly led me to work very hard on being an all around better lover. Not depending on a super large cock, but learning how to touch a woman with my hands and my mouth... And I soon found jelqing and stretching on the web. I never started a full blown regiment, so I couldn't tell you how much gains I had. But I did notice some gains. After 8 years of marriage she lost intrest is sex... Her self image and self esteem was her main problem
... I told her everyday how beautiful I thought she was, and how attracted I was to her... She finally told me on night "you know I don't have sex with you because I like it? I have sex with you because I have to...". This broke my heart, and after some counseling, the marriage was dissolved.

At 29 years old I sex with the second woman in my life. Once again self conscious of my size I mentioned something about not being very big. Around 6.5 x 6 if I am measuring correctly today. To my suprise the woman informed me that I was not at all small to her. It was like a ton of bricks had been lifted from my back... Like my ex wife had said this to mind fuck me... And she really had put a serious mind fuck on me...

Needless to say, I have not found anyone who has been disappointed about my size. I still say it's because I still try very hard to use all my talents in bed, not just my cock... I still think of it as being small... When I describe my cock I like to say... "I'm hung like a tuna can... I can't hit the bottom... But I can slap the shit out of the sides..." That mental image has cause a lot of curiosity over the last couple years... And I once again am told how silly I am... And that is one of the reasons I am here today... The site has motivated me to find a regiment and stick with it. And see some great gains...

I am a grower, and what excited me a lot is the fact that I can increase the size of my flaccid dick... That is probably my main goal... Having my girlfriend comment on my size would also be a pretty bad ass feeling. :-)

Thanks everyone for the motivation you have already given me.
Best of luck! david

[Guest Close XitemeM]

Hi David, to PEGym

Reading all the stories from guys here you'll see that there's a general understanding that woman don't care much about size, so there's less reason to feel devistated if you find someone else has been bigger. Besides, any cock other than your own, is not yours, so don't concern yourself so much

I will mention also that your girth of 6" is probably the most common girth goal of all the members here, so congratulations on your starting size. I think your tuna can joke is funny though. Sorry to hear the sad story of your marriage. All the best in finding a nicer woman in the future.

Check out the sticky threads in the beginners forum to find all the best information for getting started.

Good luck.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Welcome to the gym Snuffy, 6.5 x 6.0 is big, especially in the girth department. Xitem gave you good advice, go into the link he suggested and lood at the beginnerroutines.
Usually the first thing you will notice is the flacid gains and your gal pal will notice too. Stay safe and enjoy the gym!

[snuffy Member Find all posts View Profile Close snuffy]

Thanks guys. I'm very glad I am here.

[snuffy Member Find all posts View Profile Close snuffy]

I am finally getting to posting my size.

Starting size :
BPEL: 7.0
EG: 5.5, not 6.0

[kevins0826 Member Find all posts View Profile Close kevins0826]

5.5 girth is still thick bro, that is my goal. It is good your girlfriend complemented on your tool. My girlfriend never did, but I make her come all the time with my dick, finger and tongue.

Good luck with everything!! Do not get insecure. It is how you use it (being big is a bonus)

[snuffy Member Find all posts View Profile Close snuffy]

5.5 girth is still thick bro, that is my goal. It is good your girlfriend complemented on your tool. My girlfriend never did, but I make her come all the time with my dick, finger and tongue.

Good luck with everything!! Do not get insecure. It is how you use it (being big is a bonus)

Thanks Kevins0826. I agree completly. For 11 years with my first wife I thought I was small. That was a blessing because it but me on the path of becoming the best lover i could be. I haven't looked back since.