started for the wrong reasons

[Hworang00 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hworang00]

After going out with my girlfriend and her friend, her friend told the story about my girlfriend exbf was so hung and thick without me asking. I always thought I had a decent size dick (nbpel 7.4"/ meg 6.3") and was always secure so when we got home I asked my gf how big was he. First mistake, she said she measure it and he was over 9 inches long and even though she didn't measure how thick he was, he noticeably thicker than me. I was shocked and felt a little insecure, which for me means I had to know how everything compare with this guy, my insecurities play out as competition. She told me everything I asked and compared us, so I initially came upon pe by wanting to bebetter than him, but since coming across the website and reading past and present story I realized I was wanting to do it for the wrong reasons. Now thinks to the help of unknown strangers I started a regiment for the betterment of my health and general well being... Thank you guys, I really do appreciate all of you.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Congratulations for changing your outlook on this and good luck!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Well done.
Welcome aboard, shipmate.

[Hworang00 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hworang00]

yea, it's only been a few days but I'm extremely excited about getting seeing the results... It's the same way I felt when I changed my dietary habits and begin to workout; once I saw the results my life changed for the better. I expect an even more....

[Hworang00 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hworang00]

don't really have the lingo quite down lol

[Mr.Curly Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Mr.Curly]

After going out with my girlfriend and her friend, her friend told the story about my girlfriend exbf was so hung and thick without me asking. I always thought I had a decent size dick (nbpel 7.4"/ meg 6.3") and was always secure so when we got home I asked my gf how big was he. First mistake, she said she measure it and he was over 9 inches long and even though she didn't measure how thick he was, he noticeably thicker than me. I was shocked and felt a little insecure, which for me means I had to know how everything compare with this guy, my insecurities play out as competition. She told me everything I asked and compared us, so I initially came upon pe by wanting to bebetter than him, but since coming across the website and reading past and present story I realized I was wanting to do it for the wrong reasons. Now thinks to the help of unknown strangers I started a regiment for the betterment of my health and general well being... Thank you guys, I really do appreciate all of you.

No offense,but i think she's a real bitch for doing this to you.My size is similiar to you as well.This website has also helped me a lot!Its kind of a special place.

[totalpackage Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close totalpackage]

After going out with my girlfriend and her friend, her friend told the story about my girlfriend exbf was so hung and thick without me asking. I always thought I had a decent size dick (nbpel 7.4"/ meg 6.3") and was always secure so when we got home I asked my gf how big was he. First mistake, she said she measure it and he was over 9 inches long and even though she didn't measure how thick he was, he noticeably thicker than me. I was shocked and felt a little insecure, which for me means I had to know how everything compare with this guy, my insecurities play out as competition. She told me everything I asked and compared us, so I initially came upon pe by wanting to bebetter than him, but since coming across the website and reading past and present story I realized I was wanting to do it for the wrong reasons. Now thinks to the help of unknown strangers I started a regiment for the betterment of my health and general well being... Thank you guys, I really do appreciate all of you.

Wow. I am having a difficult time understanding this. You have a dick that is already slightly bigger than what most people believe to be the perfect size. Indeed, based on all of the discussions on this forum, it seems that the most desirable size is 7.5-8.0 bpel and 5.5-6.0 eg. You are above the high-end in both length and girth.

I have encountered some people on this list who are this size but who nevertheless want to be bigger. That doesn't make sense to most of us who might not ever be able to get to those measurement, but even if we could, would not want to go above them out of concern for pleasuring the maximum number of women. But whatever the case, it appears that these already-big men do it for themselves, which seems to me to be a perfectly fine explanation.

You, however, were doing it out of insecurity. So my question for you is: How in the world could you feel insecure about your size? Was it simply the fact that another man was bigger than you? It's just hard for me to fathom feeling insecure at your size...

[B1ue Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close B1ue]

your totally hung dude don't stress it :P

[chinchin Member Find all posts View Profile Close chinchin]

you have what would be considered in the top 95% of dicks. dont stress bro

[Hworang00 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hworang00]

After I heard that the last guy she was with and was almost married was extremely large I became insecure, I know that I'm already larger than most guys but I'm not going compare myself tho others anymore just focus on making myself a better person.

[Jimrod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jimrod]

Not that it really matters now, but can you be certain she's remembering things correctly? Could time have skewed her memory?

I ask because you have a really big unit, and the possibility of her having one noticably bigger (especially in the girth dept) is very slim.

The guy probably did have a big one but lets not forget that other factors can make things seem bigger (like body size). Girls always claim that skinny guys have bigger dicks... I wonder why.

And as for the measuring... this again is a thing that can vary greatly. My gf measured my dick once and did it from underneath, whilst I was lying down. Accoring to her, I was 9.5" long I'm actually around 7"nbp