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  • A Newb with issues

    Good Day guy.

    I'm a 28 year old guy of Arab and Indo-pak descent living in Canada. I'm in a loving marriage for close to 3 years, but I've always felt some something is wrong with me.

    I'm 1.7 m tall and 70 kg, with an average to muscular build, and I'm not sure if I'm measuring correctly but if I jam the tape down in my my pubic bone as hard as I can, I'm 15.3 cm with a girth of around 12 cm. I'm circumcised since birth and have a really weird scar below my circumcision ring, not sure if it's related. I also have a varicocele on my left nut.

    I started mastubating and watching porn really young and have a porn addiction, which I think messed me up.

    My main issues is that I feel like my size is small as in porn and in online there seem to be many larger men. What do you guys think?

    Sexually I've only had sex with my wife, and she's only had sex with me, but I can never make her cum using my cock alone. If we're having having vaginal sex, I almost always need to be rubbing her clit with my fingers for her to cum. Also sexually I'm super kinky as I watched so much porn, but my wife is very vanilla, she always cums during sex but cannot go beyond two orgasms. I often have thoughts about having sex with other woman to experience if they're similar

    I also have a weird case of premature ejaculation. Whenever we have sex, for my first load I can barely last a few minutes and sometimes it's even seconds and I cum. I don't take a break and continue but with a significantly weaker and softer erection, where I struggle or have to focus so much to reach an orgasm. I've tried a few things to cure my PE, but I'm a super ticklish guy and some people have said it's genetic.

    I don't have too much time to myself, so all I've tried is stretching my cock, 18 cm is my ideal size.

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    If you had not been self-brainwashed by porn, what would your married life be like then? Take those thoughts, and re-assemble your life and marriage into that dream. Now you will have a goal. What if......
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    • #3
      Welcome to the forum.

      Forget porn dicks.
      Two things really helped to clear my mind about dick sizes.
      1. scroll through some amateur live cams - you really can get a good sense for the real average out there
      2. read about dick size studies. thevisualiser dot com offers a good comparison between your dick, average dicks and pornstar dicks
      Be happy that you can get your wife to orgasm. Btw, it's quite rare that women cum just by penetration, as far as I know. So no worries.
      My (stats intensive) Progress Log

      Start (02.01.22): 6.7" x 4.3"

      Current (28.03.22): 7.3" x 4.5"

      Next Goal (01.07.22): 8.0" x 4.5"
      Final Goal: 8.0" x 6.0"

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      • #4
        ^^
        Thanks guys. Appreciate the advise and support.

        My married life is pretty much as ideal as I like it, just sexually

        The issue is giving porn with addiction is so damned difficult, I also chat with other woman online and these are really promiscuous woman. I know I need to stop but it's so hard.

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        • #5
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          • #6
            ^Thanks man! From this I see the main issue being mastubating while viewing porn and I also do it while chatting to other woman online.

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            • #7
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