Premature Ejaculation Domination

[ManMade Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ManMade]

I'm new here and here for only one reason. To finally gain control over my ejaculation and free myself from all of the negative consequences of cumming too soon. If anyone else is in the same boat or has previously been down the path I am taking I'd love to hear it. Thanks.

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You will find a large and helpfull community in the pre e forum Connor202.

[dustinshaw98 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dustinshaw98]

I know where you're coming from, Connor! Heh, had the same problem 2 years ago. Embarrassing, but eventually you have to find ways to deal with it. I did.

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I know where you're coming from, Connor! Heh, had the same problem 2 years ago. Embarrassing, but eventually you have to find ways to deal with it. I did.

And those ways were? Did you gain control? Did you give up? Start taking SSRI's?

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Here is an excellent post from old rocker.
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Greetings! Hopefully, you have come to the right place. There is much expertise here and enough success stories and documentation to encourage your boyfriend to continue to work on his situation till a solution can be located.

Realistically, you and he should realize that it will take some time and a lot of dilligent practice (alone and together) to retrain his ejaculatory reflex to be "re-wired" to withstand the ultra stimulation and sensitivity of the female virgina.

There are a number of issues that will have to be investigated to determine what the best approach should be and usually a combination of multiple techniques is the most assured way to addressing the issue on both the physical and mental side. Some of the things you have attempted are included as well but a regular (daily) routine consistantly practiced over time should eventually start to show results. Every small gain is still a gain and little progress over time amounts to lots of progress in the long run. The best starting advice I can offer is don't get discouraged and stop trying. Stay positive and know that working at it will produce results (and sometimes more than you had hoped for!).

What to do? There are some very valuable threads here in this forum that you and he should read through and decide how you would like to proceed. For starters it looks like there is some performance anxiety and hightened arousal levels when aproaching virginal intercourse so I would recommend reading this thread to see if it applies in your case: Arousal Techniques

For a proven practice program that your boyfriend might want to implement that many here have been successful with I recommend ByggD's Guide here: ByggD's Guide to Controlling Your Ejaculation Response It's a long thread but the first post has all you/he will need to get going on the program.

I saw no mention of any Kegel Training attempts. An important part of Ejaculation Training is learning to train, and balance, the pelvic floor muscles which you will discover play an intregal part in the human sexual response. There are a couple of long threads worth reading that will help explain the role of Kegel and Reverse Kegel exercises in learning to gain control of Premature Ejaculation they are here: THE Solution to Premature Ejaculation! and here: Implications Also, from the same source another honorable mention: PE and DE the physical cure ?

That should get you well on the way and give you the encouragement to stick with a program. For a heart warming success story that goes into vivid detail about how one person overcame P.E. and what he learned along the way I highly recommend this thread by Minuteman as well: "From PE to MMO"- Minuteman's Orgasmic log

You will find other helpful advice here but these particular threads will help you focus on positive results.
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You can start a thread in the progress forum connor. Your mmo group involvement should help with advancedtraining methods if you need them.

[dustinshaw98 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dustinshaw98]

And those ways were? Did you gain control? Did you give up? Start taking SSRI's?

No drugs or any of those voodoo desensitizing creams, Connor. I kind of combed the web, tried some jelly crap that I'll never admit to in public. Not sure if links are allowed in this forum, but here's the link: It is a good handbook, lots of original relaxation stuffs and sex positions. And they worked. My wife loved it.

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No commercial links on forum dustin.

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Uh, sorry.