Hello

[Dfresh Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dfresh]

Just a little about me, im here more bc of pe, although i love the idea of possibly increasing my size. I recently married, last oct, and we have wonderful sex. The problem is before her the girls i was with never cared if i wore a condom, and i was fine, she demanded it, and for some reason that made me unable to last very long without orgasming. Then i pretty much made the mistake of my life, looking for a quick fix i started using ejaculation control condoms, at first just to get used to wearing them and to her, and now more than 4yrs later i still need them. If i start with regular ones or with nothing i hit the ponr within 5minutes, not nearly long enough to satisfy her. I can usually change once ive had them on for awhile, but theres other times when it makes me so numb i have to wash myself off, imagine that o baby, yeah, that feels so good, o hang on a sec i cant feel anything ill b right back. Yup, thats hot, but if i dont then i lose my erection. Ugh i could write so much more but ive written a book already, my goal is to satisfy my wife one day without relying on those damn things, i also recently started taking my time masturbating instead of just trying to get there like before, that should help a bit. O and just a quick thank u to the administators and owners of this site, this is stuff u cant really talk to ur boys or anyone else for that matter about, nice to be able to tell someone and know people are here to help

[RICKHEEZE Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RICKHEEZE]

Well welcome to the gym! Sounds like you have been doing some reading already and I highly encourage you to continue. I unfortunetly don't have much experience with the issues you have described. One thing I always do, that may have programmed myself to last a bit longer, is that I always get myself to the PONR during sex and then stop and do something else, then repeat several times. I would say that your lasting 5 minutes is probably pretty average so I wouldn't sweat it to much. Kegels may help you with control as well...good luck, good reading, good PE'ing.