Hello all

[metalheadwillie Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close metalheadwillie]

Hello all,

So I have been browsing and reading on the forum for a couple of weeks. I have signed up and committed to doing this.

I'm 27, in a serious relationship, and with self-esteem issues regarding my member.

I feel ridiculous at times as my girlfriend says she is completely satisfied with my size and how we make love. She feels that I am big, but by the numbers... I know I am not. She said she has had two other partners that were bigger than me. They were near, or as thick as, soda cans. She said she in no way liked the way they looked and could not go any more than a couple of minutes with them. I am very giving and considerate in bed, and don't suffer from pre-ejaculation. But after thinking it over, and talking with her... I think I should give this a shot. I am experienced in other repetitive, committed hobbies and trainings (I am a guitarist and an ex-powerlifter).

Currently my stats are 6.75" length (ruler on top of penis, fat pad pushed down) and 5" in girth. I have started with the JP 90-day beginner program. I have modified it to two days on, one day off... and I am about a week in. I hope this will be enough to condition my member, but I really don't want to injure myself. What I have noticed so far is increased sensitivity and much harder erections.

What I hope to gain is girth, but I don't mind a little length in the process. So we'll see where this goes, I've got awhile before I can get more intricate with the training. I purchased a bathmate, but haven't done too much with it as I have read it is a more advanced thing to do.


Any and all input is greatly appreciated.


Thanks,
Will

[IHaveAHugeNick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close IHaveAHugeNick]

Hello all,

So I have been browsing and reading on the forum for a couple of weeks. I have signed up and committed to doing this.

I'm 27, in a serious relationship, and with self-esteem issues regarding my member.

I feel ridiculous at times as my girlfriend says she is completely satisfied with my size and how we make love. She feels that I am big, but by the numbers... I know I am not. She said she has had two other partners that were bigger than me. They were near, or as thick as, soda cans. She said she in no way liked the way they looked and could not go any more than a couple of minutes with them. I am very giving and considerate in bed, and don't suffer from pre-ejaculation. But after thinking it over, and talking with her... I think I should give this a shot. I am experienced in other repetitive, committed hobbies and trainings (I am a guitarist and an ex-powerlifter).

Currently my stats are 6.75" length (ruler on top of penis, fat pad pushed down) and 5" in girth. I have started with the JP 90-day beginner program. I have modified it to two days on, one day off... and I am about a week in. I hope this will be enough to condition my member, but I really don't want to injure myself. What I have noticed so far is increased sensitivity and much harder erections.

What I hope to gain is girth, but I don't mind a little length in the process. So we'll see where this goes, I've got awhile before I can get more intricate with the training. I purchased a bathmate, but haven't done too much with it as I have read it is a more advanced thing to do.


Any and all input is greatly appreciated.


Thanks,
Will

Welcome Will!

You are more than average. From the data at this site Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything. , I would say you are above average in length and a hair above average in girth. Good news, since any gains you get will put you even bigger than the average

Remember to read the safety first post at the top of the beginner forum. You only have one penis so you want to treat it well as you PE.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

You've been on this site for 2 weeks and haven't been initiated yet? We're supposed to throw you a sock party. Oh well I guess we'll let it slide this time.

I believe a soda can is about 8" in circumference. She might be exaggerating.
Do yourself a huge favour and believe your girlfriend when she tells you she likes your dick.
A soda can is huge, by any standard. Even a 6.5" girth is huge. 5" is nice.

Best of luck with your goals, but don't take this whole penis thing too seriously. if you've cruised around for 2 weeks, then you've probably seen 50 thousand threads on the subject.

[metalheadwillie Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close metalheadwillie]

Thank you Toadstool. In all honesty, I have never conversed with ANYONE about this except her. Being online has a sort of nice anonymity to it... But I am sure that there are others here that understand the semi-psychotic obsession with penis size... and the adverse effects.

I do have a hard time believing her... But it is out of my own insecurity and porn-poisoned mind (which I stopped watching and become more aware of what I have viewed). She is an amazing person, and our story is a whole different post in itself. Long story short, we got another chance to be together after many years.

I appreciate you saying don't take this whole penis thing too seriously, as I do unfortunately. I am hoping to gain in the territory of .5 to .75 (or more) in girth... so I know I am in for the long haul. Some length would be great, but it is not my focus.

I appreciate the posts so far... It looks like with the acknowledgement, I should start a log.

[scottrod Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close scottrod]

I'm in the same boat with u so to speak, the more I read on this site the more I see that I am actually a little above average. And seeing the guys who are 7+ length and 5.5 girth going through the same heartache and "confusion"

[scottrod Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close scottrod]

Oops accidently pressed post. Yeah seeing bigger guys go through the same mental challenges as me is somewhat releaving.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

Hey man, just so you know when she says you're big she really means it! You claim by the numbers you're not big but in reality you're slightly above average! Good luck on your journey, make sure you read all of the beginners stickies and let us know how it goes!