Hello :)

[weneedthis Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close weneedthis]

To be honest, I've been lurking on these forums for a bit now and have only started PE within a 2 week span.

So far, this is the most comfortable I've felt on a forum knowing there are others in my situation.

I'm extremely self conscious of my penis size, with my girlfriend.
I have no confidence in bed because of it.

I'm an attractive 20yr old male, with a gorgeous girlfriend.

But the downside is, she has been with 10 guys. I naturally felt defeated, and started comparing myself. Wondering how hung all of these dudes could have/may have been.

Copped up the nerve to ask her, she has been with some big ones. Even saw old messages of hers to people "ya its big haha " and talking about liking it.

She has never said anything negative about my size, she is actually one of the sweetest girls I've met. But I still cannot, no matter what she tries to comfort me with "size doesn't matter, I love your size, you are big". I simply, cannot hear it. It goes in one ear out the other.

From her mouth "I always thought 7-7 1/2 was big anyways" and she thinks I am that size. But I want her to KNOW, I am that size. With a great girth to make her remember it the next morning! :C

I have been with two chicks that were exs, so I am somewhat envious of her sexual "past". She has changed her morals a bit, and doesn't agree with how her past was. And seeing as she is young and had sex with all 10 in a course of 6 months, then came me, I feel more close and personal to it.

So many thoughts of being sub-par to my girlfriends ex fuck buddies.

Granted she has said I am the best in bed compared, I was the first to make her orgasm vaginally through sex (as in not oral), I am great at oral as well and made her cum three times the first time I went down on her... So I mean, the words are there, and the 'achievement' feeling should be there. But sadly, it's not. So, I'm here .

My measurements are:

BPFSL: 6.4in
FG: 4.2in
BPEL: 6.1in
EG: 5.3in

My goal is to have a BPEL of 7in at the least, and an EG of 5.7-6 at the least.

I honestly only even care about girth, I hurt her sometimes when I go too deep. I just feel as though she's been with some thick giants, and I feel the need to compete.

I am started on the JP 90 day beginner exercises. I'll eventually make a log of some sort. So ya, there's my story...

Nice to meet you guys and be a part of this community!

[Growler Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Growler]

Welcome bro. Good to hear you have great sex with your girl. Of course it's fine to work on your size but if you make her come vaginally I don't think she care about your size at all. So I think you will gain more from working with your thoughts. Good luck.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

A few facts you should know about penis size (actual not-self reported studies). Your girth is above average. Most of the studies came up with figure of 4.9 which means you are good to go on girth; the variant is 4.8-5.1. The length is still good to go because the figure is 5.8 with the variant at 5.7-6.2. So, dude, stop stressing out for nothing (which is really nothing). And for the love of God accept the fact regardless of how big you may get that your size is just fine and is more important to you than to her. The woman's "love zone" will accommodate to most sizes in general provided it is not too long or too thin/thick during the course of the relationship.

Anyway, welcome to the PeGym. Start of the JP's 90 day primarily to condition your penis to growth and intermediate to advanced PE in the long haul of the scheme to enlarge your member. Be patient and be safe.

P.S: She want the man to whom the penis is attached.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Welcome to the gym

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

Some good stuff to read => https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html

That link will get you started!

[Novajelqer Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Novajelqer]

Welcome to the Gym. Set your goals and reach them, so you can remove that mental anxiety you seem to have obtained. Your young and don't get so caught up in size issues. Have fun with Pe, have fun with your girl and have fun with life...stress takes all the fun away so take the stress away. Good luck and keep pounding that good pu$$y your girl has.

[bautista19 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bautista19]

Step 1: Stop talking to your girl about penis sizes. She will either begin to think you're really weird or gay. If you keep talking about them, and stop getting hard because of anxiety she will definitely think you're gay. Then she'll tell all her hot friends and you'll never get laid again.

Think about those consequences.

Step 2: Women, generally, don't know shit about penis sizes. You may as well ask her opinion on astro-physics and the expansion and contraction of the universe while you're at it.

Step 3: Start a routine and have fun with it. I recommend the JP90. I've replaced my masturbation addiction with it.

EDIT: The candid nature of this website is wonderful.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

Step 1: Stop talking to your girl about penis sizes. She will either begin to think you're really weird or gay. If you keep talking about them, and stop getting hard because of anxiety she will definitely think you're gay. Then she'll tell all her hot friends and you'll never get laid again.

Think about those consequences.

Step 2: Women, generally, don't know shit about penis sizes. You may as well ask her opinion on astro-physics and the expansion and contraction of the universe while you're at it.

Step 3: Start a routine and have fun with it. I recommend the JP90. I've replaced my masturbation addiction with it.

Good advice!

[weneedthis Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close weneedthis]

Welcome bro. Good to hear you have great sex with your girl. Of course it's fine to work on your size but if you make her come vaginally I don't think she care about your size at all. So I think you will gain more from working with your thoughts. Good luck.

Agreed, and thanks for the welcome!

A few facts you should know about penis size (actual not-self reported studies). Your girth is above average. Most of the studies came up with figure of 4.9 which means you are good to go on girth; the variant is 4.8-5.1. The length is still good to go because the figure is 5.8 with the variant at 5.7-6.2. So, dude, stop stressing out for nothing (which is really nothing). And for the love of God accept the fact regardless of how big you may get that your size is just fine and is more important to you than to her. The woman's "love zone" will accommodate to most sizes in general provided it is not too long or too thin/thick during the course of the relationship.

Anyway, welcome to the PeGym. Start of the JP's 90 day primarily to condition your penis to growth and intermediate to advanced PE in the long haul of the scheme to enlarge your member. Be patient and be safe.

P.S: She want the man to whom the penis is attached.

Touche! Especially to the P.S.

Welcome to the gym

Thanks!

Some good stuff to read => https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html

That link will get you started!

I found this prior to posting, hence knowing what the abbreviations finally meant lol! But thank you for the welcome and for the pointer!

If my grammar isn't great, I am sorry!

Welcome to the Gym. Set your goals and reach them, so you can remove that mental anxiety you seem to have obtained. Your young and don't get so caught up in size issues. Have fun with Pe, have fun with your girl and have fun with life...stress takes all the fun away so take the stress away. Good luck and keep pounding that good pu$$y your girl has.

Indeed stress has been eating me alive lately. I have my own remedy for that though, but only momentary until I work the issues out.

Step 1: Stop talking to your girl about penis sizes. She will either begin to think you're really weird or gay. If you keep talking about them, and stop getting hard because of anxiety she will definitely think you're gay. Then she'll tell all her hot friends and you'll never get laid again.

Think about those consequences.

Step 2: Women, generally, don't know shit about penis sizes. You may as well ask her opinion on astro-physics and the expansion and contraction of the universe while you're at it.

Step 3: Start a routine and have fun with it. I recommend the JP90. I've replaced my masturbation addiction with it.

EDIT: The candid nature of this website is wonderful.

Well for the first step. Trust me, she won't be thinking I'm gay any time soon. She was being sweet and supportive every time I mentioned anything about doing PE. She would repeat "make sure you know you're doing this for YOU, not ME! I'm happy with your size."

Also, it wouldn't be the end of my world if she ran and told all her friends. When I am done with a female, I am done with a female. They all have big mouths so I know shit will be pouring out of it regardless of how we end. So that is no worry to me. But yes, discussing and bitching about my size to her too many times is going to have her build up probably a hatred to my dick. Just from hearing about it every second of the day. I am stopping and trying. I have to get over my own insecurities first.

To step 2 I completely agree.

I have started JP90, thanks . I will try and replace masturbation with PE instead!

[weneedthis Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close weneedthis]

Also, to any members who have currently done various PE...

Which programs work best for girth, how long can it take to get a thicker penis? Ideal is around 5.7-6 for EG.

So currently being at 5.2-5.3, how long do you suspect for it to take to reach 6 or even 5.7?

Or better yet, how long is the suspected .1 of an inch added on? In what amount of time does it generally come?