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    Hi there,

    I stumbled upon this site a couple of weeks ago, while searching the net about premature ejaculation problems (something I regularly suffer from). I was intrigued by the penis enlargement techniques and stories. I didn't even know something like that existed. And I have to admit I still have a hard time believing it.

    Anyway, I was intrigued (since the size of my penis is just average and on the thin side, fortunately with a rather large head), started to do some JAI stretches, secretely tried some other stretching techniques, as well as jelqueing exercises, and then decided to commit to a real workout regime (the beginners 90 day routine). I also decided that if I really want to commit to this, I have to tell my wife. There's no way I could keep doing this secretely.

    So I told her last weekend. I was really afraid that she would find this whole idea ridiculous and that she would think I'm an idiot. And of course her first (to be expected) reaction was that she's happy with my size as it is, so no need to do any exercises. When I told her that, out of curiousity, I really wanted to try it anyway, her reaction was: 'what can I say, if I could increase the size of my tits by exercising, I would go for it too'.

    I'm really glad that she is understanding, so I don't have to hide what I'm doing. This makes things much less complicated. I even think that the idea secretly turns her on a bit. The first time I was doing my exercises after I told her, she came into the bedroom unexpectedly to get something (yeah right), and then jumped me. That was the end of that exercise session... I told her afterwards though that next time I really need privacy and have to finish my exercises... I'm serious about this. I'm still feeling a bit uncomfortable when I tell her I'm going upstairs to do my exercises, and very uncomfortable when she occasionally enters the bedroom and sees me doing it, but I guess I will get used to it.

    I'm really excited to try this, but I'm also a bit nervous about it. What if it doesn't work? Fortunatly there are a couple of things that might be to my advantage. First of all I'm not injury prone, and furthermore it has always been fairly easy for me to gain muscle mass (I'm not a body builder type at all, but my body is definitely toned, and I have to do practically nothing for it). So maybe this will be the same. I hope so. Another advantage is that I don't mind doing the exercises. I have quite a busy life and so far I find doing these exercises very relaxing.

    Now for my question: I'm now on a 5 day on, 2 days off routine (some 10 minutes stretching, 10 minutes jelqueing and 10 minutes of V-jelques). On those training days, would it be safe for a beginner like me to do JAI stretches too (say, 2 times 30 stretches a day)? I suppose that on the 2 rest days, I shouldn't do any stretches at all...

    Thanks for any answers!
    december 2012: 6.3 BPEL, 4.5 BEG
    may 2013: 6.5 BPEL, 4.7 BEG
    july 2014: 7 BPEL, 5 BEG
    short term goal: 7,5 x 5,5

  • #2
    Welcome to the gym, if it doesn't work you keep trying, but leave the first 3 months and just do it how it's stated, do not add too it because you won't gain faster. Also you don't know if you're injury prone even if you feel like you are, people in the past said the same they thought they can gain faster doing more than they should or advance exercises when they weren't conditioned and got an injury.
    Stay safe, PE isn't a race and for the most part: less is more.

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    • #3
      Welcome aboard!
      Steve23 is absolutely right: less is more.
      Take your time and do this right.
      Yarrr!
      Pirate Diplomacy:
      The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

      Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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      • #4
        Thanks guys,

        For the wake up call... I'll take my time, I'm not in a hurry.... sigh....
        december 2012: 6.3 BPEL, 4.5 BEG
        may 2013: 6.5 BPEL, 4.7 BEG
        july 2014: 7 BPEL, 5 BEG
        short term goal: 7,5 x 5,5

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        • #5


          If you suffer from premature ejaculation you should check out the Pre forum, we have a lot a useful info there.
          On a break from the forum
          imac's Phallosan Forte Progress Log
          Pelvic Floor Balance
          Confusion With Reverse Kegels

          Reverse Kegel Breathing (Meditative Reverse Kegels)

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          • #6
            Originally posted by RRRR View Post
            Hi there,

            I stumbled upon this site a couple of weeks ago, while searching the net about premature ejaculation problems (something I regularly suffer from). I was intrigued by the penis enlargement techniques and stories. I didn't even know something like that existed. And I have to admit I still have a hard time believing it.

            Anyway, I was intrigued (since the size of my penis is just average and on the thin side, fortunately with a rather large head), started to do some JAI stretches, secretely tried some other stretching techniques, as well as jelqueing exercises, and then decided to commit to a real workout regime (the beginners 90 day routine). I also decided that if I really want to commit to this, I have to tell my wife. There's no way I could keep doing this secretely.

            So I told her last weekend. I was really afraid that she would find this whole idea ridiculous and that she would think I'm an idiot. And of course her first (to be expected) reaction was that she's happy with my size as it is, so no need to do any exercises. When I told her that, out of curiousity, I really wanted to try it anyway, her reaction was: 'what can I say, if I could increase the size of my tits by exercising, I would go for it too'.

            I'm really glad that she is understanding, so I don't have to hide what I'm doing. This makes things much less complicated. I even think that the idea secretly turns her on a bit. The first time I was doing my exercises after I told her, she came into the bedroom unexpectedly to get something (yeah right), and then jumped me. That was the end of that exercise session... I told her afterwards though that next time I really need privacy and have to finish my exercises... I'm serious about this. I'm still feeling a bit uncomfortable when I tell her I'm going upstairs to do my exercises, and very uncomfortable when she occasionally enters the bedroom and sees me doing it, but I guess I will get used to it.

            I'm really excited to try this, but I'm also a bit nervous about it. What if it doesn't work? Fortunatly there are a couple of things that might be to my advantage. First of all I'm not injury prone, and furthermore it has always been fairly easy for me to gain muscle mass (I'm not a body builder type at all, but my body is definitely toned, and I have to do practically nothing for it). So maybe this will be the same. I hope so. Another advantage is that I don't mind doing the exercises. I have quite a busy life and so far I find doing these exercises very relaxing.

            Now for my question: I'm now on a 5 day on, 2 days off routine (some 10 minutes stretching, 10 minutes jelqueing and 10 minutes of V-jelques). On those training days, would it be safe for a beginner like me to do JAI stretches too (say, 2 times 30 stretches a day)? I suppose that on the 2 rest days, I shouldn't do any stretches at all...

            Thanks for any answers!
            What is your girth? Keep in mind that 4.75 or so is average. You might not be that thin.
            Start July 2012: 6.3 BPEL, 5.125 MSEG
            Current : 7.375 BPEL, 5.3-5.4 MSEG, 7.125 NBPEL
            Short Term Goal:7.5 BPEL, 5.5 MSEG
            Goal: ​8.5 BPEL, 6 MSEG, 8.25 NBPEL

            I am on a fucking Girth Mission right now. No sleep till 5.75 MSEG!

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            • #7
              Welcome to the gym

              Make sure you get accurate measurements to track your growth. Also, you'll get more comfortable doing PE around your wife - i was uncomfortable in the beginning too, but my wife is routinely in the room whether I'm pumping, hanging, extending or whatever PE i'm doing that day. She doesn't even bat an eyelash anymore, I no longer feel weird when she is there. I think its a good move that you told her.

              If you do decide to add a little extra, make sure you give your current routine some time first and get comfortable listening to your body. Always add in a new exercise very slowly and cautiously so that you can watch for how your body reacts. As others pointed out, more isn't always better - it depends highly on the individual, so paying close attention is extra important.

              One last thing. If you're truly serious about making this work, I highly recommend that you interact with the community here on a daily basis. This will keep you motivated, provide support and ensure that you continue to learn new things. Pick yourself a cool avatar, hang out and have a little fun. Starting a progress log and updating it daily is also a good idea.

              Good luck!
              2011 2012 2013 2014

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              • #8
                Welcome to the gym, they have given great advice so I will just say have fun and stay safe!
                Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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                • #9
                  Thanks again for the warm welcome and for the advice. I'm checking this site every day and I guess staying motivated isn't going to be a problem any time soon. The next thing I'm going to do is looking into how to get correct measurements.

                  A progress blog? I might... as soon as there's any progress . Right now there's too much to learn to dedicate much time to writing...
                  december 2012: 6.3 BPEL, 4.5 BEG
                  may 2013: 6.5 BPEL, 4.7 BEG
                  july 2014: 7 BPEL, 5 BEG
                  short term goal: 7,5 x 5,5

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