My Problem...feed back wanted

[88jeramy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 88jeramy]

Guys, I come to you with a problem that is hurting my relationship. Everytime I have sex with my girlfriend, I cannot maintain an erection. I don't know what's wrong. I am very attracted to my girlfriend and I am rock hard when sex starts, but I eventually get soft during the middle of sex and I definitely cannot maintain an erection when she's on top. Now she thinks that it's her fault when I cant stay hard and I can't convince her that it's my own problem. Can anyone give me some advice?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Hmm. Maybe her riding technique is a little off. Maybe your masturbation technique has something to do with it, if you masturbate. It could also be your EQ. Maybe you're just not very fond of that position. Yada yada yada.

[TehDBare Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TehDBare]

Too much masturbation, your penis is tuned to the stimulation of your hand and not your girlfriend. Lay off the stroking and your sensitivity should return in due course.

[UpcomingStallion Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UpcomingStallion]

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[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

I am very attracted to my girlfriend and I am rock hard when sex starts, but I eventually get soft during the middle of sex and I definitely cannot maintain an erection when she's on top.

Stress is almost certainly a factor at this point, not initially, but it likely is now.

Does it only happen when she's on top?

It could be an EQ issue, it could be related to your masturbatory habits and a subsequent desensitisation ("deathgrip"), or it could be stress.

How physically fit are you? It could also be a fatigue issue, since it only happens mid sex.

[longmonster Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longmonster]

Do you watch lots of porn? I think it might be a combination of things: check these: Porn, Too much/hard masturbation, STRESS, low EQ, not exercising.
Check all of these and see where the problem is. I'm sure you can fix it, don't worry.