Hey guys -
I'm a newbie. I'm anxious to make gains, but I'm also somewhat skeptical. I'm 42, been married for 15 years, and like so many others guys, just a little paranoid and/or wishing they were bigger. I've decided to do everything I can to make that happen, ... but as smart as I can. I have begun the intro exercises, and I've got the Bathmate, maybe about a week into both.
When erect I'm @ 5.75 length and girth is 4.5. I believe I'm average, or at the lower ends of average. The thing is, I just feel that my girth is on the small size, and when having sex with my wife, things getting wet, I just feel as if I'm just not doing much. She's happy, has never ever complained to me, and has orgasms from our sex, most all of the time. However, I'm just tired of feeling on the smaller side. I want her to come home, or call me from work and tell me she can't wait to get home and have me inside her. Now, of course, this is all perhaps in my head, but having more confidence, and feeling that I'm gaining size to where I'm larger, surely can't hurt our sex life and my confidence, too. By adding girth, I feel I'll be able to better stimulate her.
My goals, over time: 7.75 length and maybe 5.75 to 6.00 in girth. Am i dreaming? Are these realistic? Sure, these would be awesome numbers, for anyone, but even if I was able to go to 7.0 & 5.5, that would surely be quite an improvement and place me well into the better than average zone.
I aprpeciate any support and advice, and thank you all in advance.
I'm a newbie. I'm anxious to make gains, but I'm also somewhat skeptical. I'm 42, been married for 15 years, and like so many others guys, just a little paranoid and/or wishing they were bigger. I've decided to do everything I can to make that happen, ... but as smart as I can. I have begun the intro exercises, and I've got the Bathmate, maybe about a week into both.
When erect I'm @ 5.75 length and girth is 4.5. I believe I'm average, or at the lower ends of average. The thing is, I just feel that my girth is on the small size, and when having sex with my wife, things getting wet, I just feel as if I'm just not doing much. She's happy, has never ever complained to me, and has orgasms from our sex, most all of the time. However, I'm just tired of feeling on the smaller side. I want her to come home, or call me from work and tell me she can't wait to get home and have me inside her. Now, of course, this is all perhaps in my head, but having more confidence, and feeling that I'm gaining size to where I'm larger, surely can't hurt our sex life and my confidence, too. By adding girth, I feel I'll be able to better stimulate her.
My goals, over time: 7.75 length and maybe 5.75 to 6.00 in girth. Am i dreaming? Are these realistic? Sure, these would be awesome numbers, for anyone, but even if I was able to go to 7.0 & 5.5, that would surely be quite an improvement and place me well into the better than average zone.
I aprpeciate any support and advice, and thank you all in advance.

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