Salutations

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

Greetings, gentlemen!

I'm an almost 50-year old married dude looking to get bit longer.
I'm an athlete, very fit. No erectile problems.
My wing wang is already a little above average in size at 6.5" long and quite thick at 6" in diameter.
The extra girth gives it kind of a stubbier appearance. A lover once said, "It looks small, but it isn't."
She didn't mean to offend, but those words have always bothered me.

I have been married for a long time and really love my wife. We have a good relationship, except when it comes to sex. She has almost no sex drive. It has gone on for years and it is at the point where we basically never have sex. It has been several months since the last time and I have given up and lack confidence. It seems easier not to deal with it. However, deep down, this really messes with me. I am always tempted to stray, but fight it.

I think having a longer cock would be a nice boost for me and I would get a big kick out of unveiling that for the Mrs. Who knows, maybe it could help get the ball rolling again? My goal is 8 inches. Do you guys think this is realistic? Any gain would be exciting. I am not looking to add significant girth, because I want to get a longer, less stubby appearance.

I am using the Andropenis and have recently started the "Evolution Phase" - now stretching just a tad beyond my erect length for 9 whole hours a day. So far, so good. Kind of a pain, but kind of fun too. I think my dick is enjoying all the attention!

I am also jelqing every other day, following the instructions on this site. If it starts to affect the girth significantly, I will probably stop or cut back on that.

I welcome your feedback and suggestions!

Your friend on the journey,

- Blunt Object

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Good Morning and Welcome to the Gym BluntObject!

While I may not be able to assist you with the PE exercises, I can perhaps offer some advice about your sex life as can the other ladies and gentlemen on the site. While you're learning about PE, be sure to take a moment to check out the "Women's Perspective" and "Relationship" forums for lots of great insight. Welcome Aboard!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well we bestow upon thee a hearty welcome to our little home. Normally I'm the one that says the greetings and salutation stuff but it seems you have already beaten me to it. Good luck, read, learn, post, and have some fun while you're here!

[donjelqer76 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close donjelqer76]

Welcome aboard

Many men have joined here for the same reason you are - lack of interest in the bedroom normally leads us men to believe it's because we are leaving something to be desired when it comes to our penis size. In reality though, this is almost always due to something different all together (hormone levels, other issues in the relationship, etc.)

While you get started and work on boosting your confidence through PE, you should also explore other avenues to get to the bottom of why there has been a lack of intimacy - you'll probably find that penis size isn't even part of the equation.

Regardless, PE can be a lot of fun and you'll gain a lot of insight along the way. Good luck!

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

Thanks for the replies, friends.
I know that the size of my thing is not the reason for our lack of intimacy.
I think our problems have more to do with her feelings about herself than about me or my penis.
As I said, we get along quite well and I am very loving with her.

I think I just want to get bigger for me. I'm actually a bit giddy about the idea. I find this oddly fun.

I will check out the Women's Perspective and Relationship threads.

Thanks again.

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

WOW...save for the fact that I'm younger than you (I'm 33), your intro reminds me a LOT of mine. Trying to do something to improve myself with the hopes of possibly helping things in the bedroom...feeling "smaller" than you really are and recognizing that you actually aren't "small". Hell, right down the the same methods! I was using the andropenis when I first started as well as some light jelqing. Stick with it my friend...it does work and it is oddly fun...it just takes time and patience.

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

Steneo,

Thanks for the reply!
When you get a chance, would you might giving me a brief synopsis of your experience so far or direct me to where you have posted it already.
Did you stick with the Andropenis? Did it work for you?
What advice do you have for me?

As I mentioned, I am much more interested in more length than girth, so the jelqing scares me a bit.
I just started my 2nd week of "Evolution" phase with the Andro.
Pretty uncomfortable at times, burning, etc, so taking lots of breaks. Getting in the 9 hours though.
Hard to know how much tension is best, but I'm following the instructions religiously.

Thanks, in advance.

Blunt

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

OK Steneo,

Just found your progress thread. Very interesting.
Sounds like the Phallosan has worked out well for you.
I would like to be more comfortable and dicreet.
Are you still happy with it?

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

Hmmmm, I was in your shoes not too long ago. My advice may seem like it doesn't apply to your concerns, but you need to focus your energy on boosting your wife's sex drive, and don't wast time on getting a bigger penis. Besides it's the girth that counts, length is over-rated. But hey, if you can fix your marriage and find the time and energy to do your PE exercises, hell, all the more power to ya! Just be warned ... the size of your penis has very little to do with sexual confidence. I know, I know, I told you you'd think I was crazy.

Ya, your size and EQ seem fine. It's your marriage that sucks donkey balls right now. FYI, I lived in a sexless marriage (like you are right now) for 10 years. Once I learned to make my wife feel great about herself and how she looks, damn dude, we have sex 3-5 times a week. Week after week after week, consistently. Not bragging, just letting you that I may have first hand advice that can help you. Trust me, a marriage with frequent great sex is the best kind of marriage. No question.

But you need to start with the first step, so let me ask you ... what have you done lately to make your wife feel good about herself and how she looks?

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

Hey Blunt Object, as you found in my progress thread, the andro did work for me - in 1,000 hours of use I gained 5/8 inch in length (common wisdom on the forums is that it takes ~2,000 hours for an inch).

The only issue, as I'm sure you are finding out, is comfort. Once you get higher in tension you will probably start to have some circulation issues in your glans (coldness and numbness). When these symptoms creep in you must take it off to restore circulation. For most of my 1,000 hours (once I made it past the initial phase) I was able to do around 5ish hours per day, with very frequent removals to restore circulation. Some days I was removing it every 15 or 20 minutes - you must check your glans all the time in my experience.

It's good you are following the routine right now, but I gotta tell you that you won't be able to keep following it. It's arbitrary and as you get more and more bars it becomes difficult/impossible to keep adding them at the rate they say while maintaining an appropriate (not too high) level of tension. Just so you know, when the time comes, it's ok to divert from the schedule. Also, 9 hours per day is a herculean effort so don't sweat not making that either. Just listen to your body - you'll figure it out.

The phallosan has been great for me. It is much easier to wear than the andro in my experience because there aren't circulation issues. Hopefully the gains continue in the same way! You can keep track of how members are doing with it over in this thread:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-d...ins-table.html

Edit: To add, draggin is right that your penis size most likely isn't going to restart your sex life. You need to find a different approach. Mine is a work in progress but maybe starting to get better with the help of some folks here. Good luck

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

Hey draggin,

Thanks for the reply. You are pretty funny!
You also have some good advice for me there.

[Blunt Object Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blunt Object]

Thanks Steneo,

Very helpful info!

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

Greetings, gentlemen!

I'm an almost 50-year old married dude looking to get bit longer.
I'm an athlete, very fit. No erectile problems.
My wing wang is already a little above average in size at 6.5" long and quite thick at 6" in diameter.
The extra girth gives it kind of a stubbier appearance. A lover once said, "It looks small, but it isn't."
She didn't mean to offend, but those words have always bothered me.

I have been married for a long time and really love my wife. We have a good relationship, except when it comes to sex. She has almost no sex drive. It has gone on for years and it is at the point where we basically never have sex. It has been several months since the last time and I have given up and lack confidence. It seems easier not to deal with it. However, deep down, this really messes with me. I am always tempted to stray, but fight it.

I think having a longer cock would be a nice boost for me and I would get a big kick out of unveiling that for the Mrs. Who knows, maybe it could help get the ball rolling again? My goal is 8 inches. Do you guys think this is realistic? Any gain would be exciting. I am not looking to add significant girth, because I want to get a longer, less stubby appearance.

I am using the Andropenis and have recently started the "Evolution Phase" - now stretching just a tad beyond my erect length for 9 whole hours a day. So far, so good. Kind of a pain, but kind of fun too. I think my dick is enjoying all the attention!

I am also jelqing every other day, following the instructions on this site. If it starts to affect the girth significantly, I will probably stop or cut back on that.

I welcome your feedback and suggestions!

Your friend on the journey,

- Blunt Object

LOL! Maybe your signature should be: "Big Things come in Small Packages!!" Don't take it wrong, I'm just playing on what you said. You can be proud of that though,,,,,you are like a "sleeper". ;-)