BDK Intro!

[BiggDick_Keto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BiggDick_Keto]

Good morning everyone,

Let me tell you a little bit about me. First I will warn you this will be a bit long. I want to go over the situations that brought me here. My goals, my diet, so you all can have a better understanding of me.

So since I was a teen I had an issue with self-esteem. But I managed. In college my first serious relationship destroyed me. She cheated on me, of course my dumb ass asked if he was bigger than me? she said yea, and she through that in my face. It crushed me. We tried to make it work, but she will still talk to dude. So that caused more issues and lead me to believe that size mattered (I think it does, don't tell me different. sure in a romantic sense it won't but, I'm not Romeo)

Another serious relationship, I divulged the above written info to the woman. During an argument she agreed that I was small. So that really got to me. 2 girlfriends said I was small. That crushed me. However I had 1 other g/f and she never complained. Also a booty call that was awesome and she still wants it. I am using sex as validation.

Currently, my G/f Is happy with it. Her words are , "its popping, that was spectacular, amazing" I can make her squirt multiple times. She wants it all the time. She works through the soreness.

I am here because I am not happy with myself. My current size is 7.3 x 5.2 which yea its cool but not as big as I want.

I am working on my fitness as well. As my name state I am following a ketogenic diet. I love it makes me feel amazing. I am working with heavy weights. Just need to include a bit more cardio so I can improve my stamina.

I am currently nursing an injury (pe related) those damn red spots, plus I burned my dick (yes I did) I was using a metal water-bottle to make a steamy warm-up environment. well the metal ended up being hot and well I burned it.

Well there you have it, a brief intro into BDK and why I am the way I am.

EDIT: a few personal goals of mine are to fit into a magnum, snugly. Compete in a power-lifting competition, and learn to dance salsa, bachata, and merengue. Also gain enough confidence to hit up a club.

Also interested in nutrition, nootripics, and supplementation, plus some recreational narcotics.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hello BDK, and welcome to the Gym.

Understandable that those types of comments hit your confidence hard. But also realize that just because one or two immature girls said something to get at you, likely out of anger or justifying her guilt, doesn't make it true. The other girls comments confirm that those were just said because they knew it would bother you. Your stats are definitely above average, even big I'd say.

Besides size gains, a great benefit of PE is a healthier, harder erection, and I don't know what woman wouldn't enjoy that. PE requires some patience and dedication, and safety is always a good thing, as you have seen already.

If the red dots are tiny, give it a couple days rest to heal before continuing. If they are larger, more time will be required, possibly a week or more.

Read through the beginners thread START HERE! It's full of helpful info to get you started safely and effectively, and even has some beginner routines. The JP90 is always highly recommended.

Setting goals is great, and it's good to see that your not putting the whole solution on size alone. However, I must advise staying away from the narcotics. They won't help your PE, clear mind, or your wallet.

Read all you can, and stay safe. Good luck!

[BiggDick_Keto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BiggDick_Keto]

Hello Workin_4_it ,

Yea they did hurt. You honestly think 7x5 is big? I wouldn't mind having a 100% EQ, with out drug or porn assistance.

You've experienced the red dots?

Yea, the drugs are probably a search for something. As far as "what?", I am not sure. Thank you for taking the time out to read my intro.

Have a great day.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hey BDK, you're welcome.

Pain and PE are never a good mix. I have had the tiny red dots before, which was due to over expansion. Too much internal pressure. A few every now and then are not a huge concern, but if you get them often, then it probably means your intensity is too high. Best to tone it down a bit for safety.

The large red dots a burst vessels, and a clear sign to stop PE immediately, and wait to heal. Even when they're gone, sometimes guys have reported getting them right back, because the healing wasn't quite complete.

Porn can have it's negative effects on our ability to obtain, and maintain an erection. But drugs, especially hard ones like narcotics, can have far more widespread damage. If you are using them to cover something, or fill a need, then it would be best to seek some help and address those issues directly. With drugs, the issues will still be there, just hidden. So, it doesn't really help in the long run. Just my friendly advice, take it for what it's worth.

You have a great day too BDK. Hope to see you around the forum.

[HammerTime89 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HammerTime89]

I usually don't get involved in intro posts but your story is similar to mine so I have some advice for you. First off if your measurements are correct to the normal world you are big. I highly doubt your women cheated on you for your size and she was probably lying about the dude being bigger. She found your weak spot and used it against you. She cheated so her morals are not respectful so making you feel bad about your insecurities is right up her alley. For the second girl you told her your fears and insecurities about your size. She again used that against you because she knew it would hurt you. You need to be careful about letting people in and never tell a women your insecure about your size. Women love confidence you need to find yours. Ill share an experience last Saturday I went out with my friends to a dance club. I never dance im shy about trying new things were i can be judged. I let go and danced my Ass off. I had so much fun because I didn't care about what anyone thought. I even got compliments. Let go of you negative self image, do some PE, and find your self-confidence.