Fighting the steterotypes

[Kao Cheng Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kao Cheng]

Thank you for those who will take time to read this.


Hello, everyone.


The first thing to know about me is that I'm from asian descent but I live in North America. Also, my penis is 5,5'' in length and 4,25'' in girth.


I'm quite despair because everywhere I go (in parties, bar, etc.) people that I don't even know me tries to make fun of my ''asian size'' and this hurts a lot. I never know what to reply since my penis actually comply to the stereotypes.


The worst is that all my friends (white) are reputed to have very big manhoods. A girl once told me that one of my friend couldn't put his penis in a paper toilet roll. That is very depressing because this stupid size thing is always holding me back.


I want it to change and I'm ready to make all the efforts needed, but I'm very lost in all this jelqing thing (like probably any beginner). I don't want to fix myself a goal size since I don't want to abandon if the results aren't what I thought they would be, but optimistically I would like a 6,5'' in lenght and 5'' in girth which is a bit above white american average.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

What girls ask guys to put their dicks in toilet rolls? haha...

Anyway, welcome to the gym mate, hopefully we can help you feel more confident about yourself and put you on the journey towards a bigger pee pee Remember, dedication and effort is required to get there though, are you ready to put in the hard work?

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

to the Gym Kao Cheng!


Don't miss this thread!!

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...t-mindset.html

And if you haven't already done so, please READ THIS, as well as the articles in the topmost blue navigation bar, and pay attention to safety instructions.


Don't worry about stereotypes, don't let it hold you back, you have come to the right place to increase your penis size, do it for the right reasons, a big penis means very little if you are not confident, confidence must come from within, don't base your confidence on the size of your penis, having a healthy working penis and knowing how to use it, beats having a huge one.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...l-anxiety.html



When done correctly, PE will greatly improve your penile health and increase your EQ, in addition to size gains, but you need to be consistent, patient and persistent, please do as much research as you can, ask questions, follow safety and exercise instructions carefully and remember that PE is a long term process, don't rush it up.

Starting a journal in the progress forum is a good idea, to track your progress and get feedback, also for motivation!

I recommend following a beginner's manual routine for at least 90 days or until you stop gaining - whichever comes last. Most members here start with JP90, and gain fine from it, being an intense beginner's routine, you may want to consider starting slow and gradually increase workload!


Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!

What to Expect....A Beginner's Guide

Helpful jelqing Information


Stamina exercises contribute to EQ, penile health and gains, I suggest you read through the Premature Ejaculation Forum and follow a balanced regular and reverse kegels routine for optimum pelvic floor health and conditioning, as well as practice Edging for more stamina and control.


Good Luck!

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Hi Kao,


Click here to start!

Please review the Rules, and most importantly the items in the Safety section. Critically important information is in there, so you don't hurt yourself/go in the wrong direction.

Then on to the Beginners Section, and select a Routine.

JP's 90 Day Beginner Routine is one used by many.

You will be 'conditioning' your weener & perhaps will get some gain from doing that.

More of our members will add in.
Good luck, and Thank you for joining!

[Kao Cheng Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kao Cheng]

@kickinthemebs: Sl*ts probably xD

And yes! I'm ready to make the efforts and the hard work. I've already been successfully dedicated to working out and hopefully soon jelqing.

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Such a shame to see so many men here with this sort of socially-programmed anxiety, and beaten down self-image. Really sad to see how shallow many social groups and 'friends' can be.

OP-you are not inadequate-no matter WHO may put you down or try to make you feel so. There is SO much more to a human being than their physical proportions.

That being said, you have come to the right place to work on safely expanding your manhood, should you choose to do so. The above advice given is a great starting point. Keep your head up, and best of luck to you in your journey.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Kao!

Welcome to the Gim. You have been given plenty of advice on how to get started.

i want to assure you that your dick's length is well within the average range, including all ethnicities and your girth is only slightly below the average range. I say this because I do not want you to shy away from sexual opportunities because you perceive your size as inadequate. On the contrary, you are more than adequate to provide pleasure to most all partners.

I started out not much thicker than you are and after nine months of PE I was unable to fit in a TP role.

Good Luck, be consistent, and be patient.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hiya Kao and welcome to the Gym!

So sorry to hear about what you have had to endure due to small mindedness.

The guys have given you some really great information to get you started so I'll just to let you know that should you require it, there are also some helpful and supportive ladies available on the forum who are more than willing to offer their insight and wisdom. We can often be located in the following forums:

A Woman's Perspective

Relationship Forum

The Gym

We're glad you found us!

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Welcome to the gym Kao Cheng!

It really sucks that you have to deal with that sterotype about asians. Trust me guys brag about their penis size and mostly they lie a bit.

I can tell from experience that PE works and you can make a big difference on how dedicated and consistent you are with your PE workouts.

You can make it happend and increase your penis size so you will not have to worry about that stereotype.

It also comes down to your overall confidence and how you handle those remarks about you.

I would advice to start with JP 90 routine since it is a great routine for a beginner that will condition you for more advanced exercises.

JP 90:https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html

Physiological indicators are your best friends and they will guide you with your PE journey.

They will also help you to avoid overtraining.

Physiological indicators:Physiological Indicators Are Your Best Friend

I hope that you will enjoy yourself here and don't be afraid to ask questions.

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Welcome to the Gym Kao Cheng.
Follow the links that were provided above, choose a beginner routine such as the JP90 and get going. Just stay dedicated and consistent and in time will reach your goals. Please don't hesitate to ask if you have questions.
Stay safe and good luck.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Welcome to the gym Kao Cheng!

Good to have you with us buddy, pay no attention to the people who try and put you down. The people ho are making fun of you, for your "Asian size" sound like racist assh*les! The ladies who are telling you about their huge ex's, ask them why they think you would want to know this.

Don't worry, as others have said here you are average anyway! There are always people out there who will try and make themselves feel better by making other people feel like crap and it p!sses me off, especially when it's done to nice lads like yourself!

The good news as you already know, is that you can increase your initial measurements and get a healthier, harder unit! Just be cautious to begin, start slowly and work your way up.

Setting your self a realistic goal may help you stay motivated, just don't set a time frame to get there. Starting a log in the progress forum will help you keep track of what works for you and also help stay motivated.

Time to put all the negative crap behind you and start making a positive changes in your life. You have found a great place here, with lovely people who will do their best to help you!

Good luck bro, I hope you get the results your after, stay safe!

[bolkonsky Banned Find all posts View Profile Close bolkonsky]

I love it when bitches ask me to fuck a toilet paper roll. Its such a turn on. I'm like Hell ya i'll fuck that toilet paper roll.. lol jk.

Welcome. You can easily put on the gains your looking for. Just stay consistent and work hard. Then once you get to 6.5'' by 5''; you'll set some higher goals. Dont be in a hurry and look forward to years of PE.

[bozocore56 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bozocore56]

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[GeeMox Retired Moderator Member of the Month April 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GeeMox]

to the gym Kao Cheng!, enjoy your time here and have a safe PE journey. Gain a self-confidence here

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

I am not even going to say 'I feel you there on the size thing' because I would be lying. But, I can say that most men are between 5.5 - 6.2 in length and 4.7 - 5.1 in girth. So you are average in length which is a good thing. You can read all about PE but don't let your size hinder you from feeling like a man because at the end of it all you are a man, bro!

Also, there are plenty of even so called white dudes that suffer the same girth issues. Some are blessed and some are not. Genetics does play some what of a role but sometimes it don't at all when it comes to penis sizes. I am straight up Irish-Italian and they as well fall under average size.