ATP's wife is in the house!

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

I'm going to take your comment with a grain of salt. On the surface, it is lacking in taste; however, given the forum, I can understand to some degree. It is frankly none of your business. Yes, you are out of line, but that doesn't mean that we can't be friends. I have no idea what my husband has said about our sex life, but it's still private even in this setting.

[kilgore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kilgore]

I agree; it's one thing to talk about whatever your hubby hangs off his junk. it's another to talk about the sex life.

how long have you been nudists? what drew you to it?

i went to a nude beach once and had an awkward experience.

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

As mentioned in an earlier reply, I'm not invested in my husband "trying to grow a bigger penis". I have noticed that it hangs lower when flaccid, but nothing else of note. Our sex life does not revolve around his penis size. For me I need to feel not only desired, but desirable. Sex means that I need to feel good about myself and my body in order to truly open myself up to the experience of sex even with my husband. He could have the biggest penis in the world and it's not going to make me want to have sex when I'm not feeling good about myself.

[kilgore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kilgore]

that makes sense. my penis size has come up exactly zero times with my wife

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Ola

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

I think the key is allowing your lady to absorb all of this information at her own pace. Let her know what your motives are and allow her the opportunity to express her reservations or concerns. Don't feel bad if she says she thinks it's weird. She needs to know that regardless of what you are doing to improve yourself, you are committed to a healthy relationship with HER. I sometimes feel like ATP spends too much time on this stuff, but who am I to control his time? I am comfortable enough in my relationship to know that I can make comments, ask questions, and laugh when necessary. Give her the same opportunity. I may not be the most knowledgeable spouse on the forums, but I will happily entertain any concerns that she has.

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

The same place I keep my smokes--in a little bag that sits on the swim up bar. That, and the keys are conveniently attached to lanyards.

On the topic of nudism, I can honestly say that nudism is not only amazing for your soul, but a wonderful aspect of any relationship. Being nude together, comfortable with the body Mother Nature gave us, is the best thing you can do to break down the remaining walls and insecurity between two people. You haven't partied until you've partied naked, until you've seen your spouse wander around or dance in his own skin in complete comfort. Seeing my husband relaxed and happy is far more satisfying than seeing a bigger penis.

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

That's because she cares less about your penis size than she does feeling confident that she is the most desirable woman in your world!

[kilgore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kilgore]

The same place I keep my smokes--in a little bag that sits on the swim up bar. That, and the keys are conveniently attached to lanyards.

On the topic of nudism, I can honestly say that nudism is not only amazing for your soul, but a wonderful aspect of any relationship. Being nude together, comfortable with the body Mother Nature gave us, is the best thing you can do to break down the remaining walls and insecurity between two people. You haven't partied until you've partied naked, until you've seen your spouse wander around or dance in his own skin in complete comfort. Seeing my husband relaxed and happy is far more satisfying than seeing a bigger penis.

That sounds lovely.

I will say, though, that the time I went to a nude beach, I had the misfortune of getting an erection, which was might embarrassing. Luckily not so noticeable. lol.

[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

I would like to thank everyone for the warm welcome! As ATP will confirm, I am not one to hold back. I have some very firm opinions on some things, but I can be wishy washy on others. I plan to address the topic of nudism and it's benefits to marriage (or other relationships) in the near future. I may not have a deep, abiding interest in penis enhancement, but I am not one to be without words for any other topic that strikes my fancy.

I'm happy to entertain questions about the woman's point of view. I will be honest, but always try to be kind.

[kilgore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kilgore]

I would like to thank everyone for the warm welcome! As ATP will confirm, I am not one to hold back. I have some very firm opinions on some things, but I can be wishy washy on others. I plan to address the topic of nudism and it's benefits to marriage (or other relationships) in the near future. I may not have a deep, abiding interest in penis enhancement, but I am not one to be without words for any other topic that strikes my fancy.


I'm happy to entertain questions about the woman's point of view. I will be honest, but always try to be kind.

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[Mrs. ATP Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. ATP]

MrsATP, thanks for the response. I was typing at the same time you were so it sounded a little strange. Comparing ATP to only ATP have you enjoyed the changes? Have you noticed any psychological changes ie confidence? No pressure to talk of your physical relationship, but any insights would be appreciated. My mrs thinks I am wierd also, and yes we both dance like noone is watching. So I hope you continue to dance.

I will say that ATP has been...increasingly randy. Not that that is a bad thing, but I don't always share the feeling. We've had some good talks about it. I truly hope that your wife appreciates your weird and that it's one of the reasons she married you. I know that ATP and I have great respect for each others weird and the key is allowing each other to express their weirdness. My husband knows that I'm a giant fangirl who sings and dances anywhere. I know that he gets a little OCD about some things. You have to pick your battles. Unless your weirdness about PE is alienating your wife, there should be some way for you to find common ground and appreciate the things that make you different. When all else fails, open a bottle of wine and laugh about it!

Keep dancing! Try it naked next time!

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

So funny story about the naked thing. I strip as soon as I get home. I prefer no clothing. When we first moved into this apartment complex my wife and I were worried because we were on the first floor facing a parking lot. I always made sure the curtains were closed so no problem. About a year ago we moved to the third floor. My wife loves to have the curtains open for the natural light and this apartment faces an open field, so still no problem. Two days ago the land lord decided to redo the gutters on our building. So there I am naked facing the window in the living room when much to the butter mans surprise he went by in a man basket. Already busted I smiled and waved then went to the bedroom for some clothing.

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

I would like to thank everyone for the warm welcome! As ATP will confirm, I am not one to hold back. I have some very firm opinions on some things, but I can be wishy washy on others. I plan to address the topic of nudism and it's benefits to marriage (or other relationships) in the near future. I may not have a deep, abiding interest in penis enhancement, but I am not one to be without words for any other topic that strikes my fancy.

I'm happy to entertain questions about the woman's point of view. I will be honest, but always try to be kind.

Yep, you're gonna fit right in around here.
So glad to have you and your husband with us.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

to the Gym Mrs. ATP! It is absolutely awesome to have another lady here and an active Mrs. Looking forward to getting to know you in the forums. Like your Freak Flag comment the hubby and I are into BDSM, so we completely understand!

Hey, first things first, - *insert one of the many countless silly questions our female members get asked on a regular basis*

Haha, anyway, welcome to the Gym. Good to have more couples on here

I think if my girlfriend was to come on here, she would have to call herself kickinthevag or something haha

Wow KITM, I never really thought of that but darn that is hilarious!

I've given this a bit of thought since reading Mrs. ATP's first two posts. One of the great things about this site is the presence of various member's supportive partners. I am sure I noticed this before, but it never really gelled until last night. It's one of the reasons this place is so comfortable. It also lends a different level of credibility to the concept of growing a bigger penis. Presumably, if a spouse is joining the discussion, she has seen some results and doesn't think her partner is an idiot with too much time on his hands. And I know this sounds kind of strange, but it makes the whole concept of PE a more "family friendly" activity. It's pretty awesome. When I start seeing PE related headlines on the cover of Family Circle, I'll know who to thank.

I agree with this, having joined later on. I can't tell you that the insight gained here has been invaluable for us and we all know that I love to help the hubby with the routine. Yum!

Thanks for the warm welcome! Why do I find it weird? As a woman I think that tugging on and hanging weights on your penis is weird. I have never, ever had a complaint about my husbands performance in the bedroom. To some degree I understand that what he's doing is in an effort to improve himself. We are nudists and I understand the desire to look a certain way, although I've always thought he was super hot no matter what. He compares himself to others, which is natural, but I don't compare him to anyone. I just know that he's all mine and he desires me. So, I respect his desire to improve himself, but I also think that, to some degree you are what you are and you need to make the most of what you have. I go to the gym so who am I to disregard any other type of workout?

As far as my freak flag is concerned...there are some things that are best left between me and ATP. Beyond that, I love to dance, I don't care what people thing about my nose ring or tattoos. I like to be happy and if that means dancing in the kitchen to Little Mix or running around naked in Mexico, then so be it. I'd like to think that I fly my freak flag whenever possible. I'm sure my step daughter thinks I'm crazy some times, but life is short and people should dance like no one is watching!

Funny for me it was a little different since we were dealing with PreEjac and ED when he started doing this. I like you could not care less about the size I was happy with the size before but I must say I do appreciate a fully working penis, since my libido is insane. I look at PEGym as I do Kegels for us ladies, it is for the health, in our case it lead to gains too. I have mentioned before that all the size gains have not been all that is cracked up to be but hell I love his new flaccid and stamina.

Keep dancing! Try it naked next time!

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