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I am 30 years old.
I have been married for almost 2 years. I was satisfied with my sex life and things were good. It was during last june that i had some issues.
I noticed that i wasn't bale to pass urine smoothly. I use to feel that still there was little left in my bladder. It use to take me some time to pass on the rest. It became an embarrassing problem, small drop of urine use to trickle down after coming out of the bathroom. Along with this embarrassing problem came .. another issue. My penis started to feel lifeless All of sudden things had nose dived. At that time, there was a lot of stress at my office and i was really under stress.
I went to see the urologist and he told me that my sex problem was due to stress and he gave me Omnic Ocas for my urine issue. He told me that there is nothing to worry about and things will get back to normal. I had tried to use Ginseng plus royal jelly to get my erection back along with L-arganine .. but nothing had helped.
Thankfully, things came back to normal after two weeks.
I stopped taking any medicine and started to feel life back in my penis. My sexlife was back to normal and we started plan for baby.
I normally take a longer time to ejaculate and this was fine with my wife as she use to cum all the time and feel satisfied. Even during my normal sex life, i use to feel a drop in my erection but but soon i would get it up and go back at it.
The problem ...
Since, Dec, i am again having the similar issue. My erections have reduced in strength. At one time, my erection was so weak that i was not able to penetrate . I was mortified/ ashamed/ shaken. My sack feels less heavy and my penis doesn't feel the same.
I have tried to add zinc along with Horny goat weed to increase my libido but it hasn't helped.
I have tried to be calm and not think too much out of it, but it still feels like something is wrong bigtime.
I am not thinking too much but during the day i dont get erections. Though i am getting morning wood.
As for stress part i feel i am little concerned about my parents and my wife.
During October,my parents had a troubled health phase and both were hospitalised. It was a very tumultuous time for me.. and during those visit to the hospital i also found that my wife also has PCOS and need surgery treatment for her ovaries.
After all this, i guess i became depressed. I started to feel negative and sad feeling all through day that all of sudden my family is suffering so much.
I use to watch porn before marriage and had managed to reduce the dose by watching it only on weekends. Since, marriage i had reduced my porn intake to only sexy tumblr pics and occasional videos.
I was alone at home during November, as wife and my parents were at my native place and i had to return back after 3 weeks of extended medical emergency leave to office. It was during Nov, that i again started to watch porn and i use to ejaculate 3-4 times on weekends. I had noticed during the last weeks of nov that i had started to take much longer time to ejaculate and had to watch hardcore stuff to get an ejaculation. Though i thought that things will be normal when wife will be back.
On the second week of Dec, my wife joined me after her recovery and we had good return sex. My erection was strong but i lost its strength midway but i rebuilt my hardness and finished the job. It after her return that i completely stopped porn and other erotic stuff and got back to normal life.
Since, Dec, my erections have reduced, though i get morning wood but the strength of the erection is less. I am not able to rebuild my erection once i lose it and it is now very embarrassing and i am ashamed of myself.
I have tried to eat right, do exercise , cardio but nothing has helped.
I have tried combination of Zinc and Horney goat weed one day and Ginseng plus royal jelly other day but things haven't changed.
One more thing i have noticed is that i don't feel sexy within. I am not sure what is wrong with me and how to return back to normal life.
My wife is supportive though. She has consoled me that things will be back to normal soon, just like it was back to normal in July- august.
Now, is the time for fun and planning for future of my family but sadly i am not able to rise up. I am thinking about seeing the urologist again as my urine issue has't gone and this sexual issue has again come back.
I am 5.7" tall and i weigh 79 kgs. I feel heavy breathing after taking stairs. I am a bit worried as signs suggest that maybe i am suffering from something which isn't just psychological ... Porn induced ED.
Kindly help.
I have been married for almost 2 years. I was satisfied with my sex life and things were good. It was during last june that i had some issues.
I noticed that i wasn't bale to pass urine smoothly. I use to feel that still there was little left in my bladder. It use to take me some time to pass on the rest. It became an embarrassing problem, small drop of urine use to trickle down after coming out of the bathroom. Along with this embarrassing problem came .. another issue. My penis started to feel lifeless All of sudden things had nose dived. At that time, there was a lot of stress at my office and i was really under stress.
I went to see the urologist and he told me that my sex problem was due to stress and he gave me Omnic Ocas for my urine issue. He told me that there is nothing to worry about and things will get back to normal. I had tried to use Ginseng plus royal jelly to get my erection back along with L-arganine .. but nothing had helped.
Thankfully, things came back to normal after two weeks.
I stopped taking any medicine and started to feel life back in my penis. My sexlife was back to normal and we started plan for baby.
I normally take a longer time to ejaculate and this was fine with my wife as she use to cum all the time and feel satisfied. Even during my normal sex life, i use to feel a drop in my erection but but soon i would get it up and go back at it.
The problem ...
Since, Dec, i am again having the similar issue. My erections have reduced in strength. At one time, my erection was so weak that i was not able to penetrate . I was mortified/ ashamed/ shaken. My sack feels less heavy and my penis doesn't feel the same.
I have tried to add zinc along with Horny goat weed to increase my libido but it hasn't helped.
I have tried to be calm and not think too much out of it, but it still feels like something is wrong bigtime.
I am not thinking too much but during the day i dont get erections. Though i am getting morning wood.
As for stress part i feel i am little concerned about my parents and my wife.
During October,my parents had a troubled health phase and both were hospitalised. It was a very tumultuous time for me.. and during those visit to the hospital i also found that my wife also has PCOS and need surgery treatment for her ovaries.
After all this, i guess i became depressed. I started to feel negative and sad feeling all through day that all of sudden my family is suffering so much.
I use to watch porn before marriage and had managed to reduce the dose by watching it only on weekends. Since, marriage i had reduced my porn intake to only sexy tumblr pics and occasional videos.
I was alone at home during November, as wife and my parents were at my native place and i had to return back after 3 weeks of extended medical emergency leave to office. It was during Nov, that i again started to watch porn and i use to ejaculate 3-4 times on weekends. I had noticed during the last weeks of nov that i had started to take much longer time to ejaculate and had to watch hardcore stuff to get an ejaculation. Though i thought that things will be normal when wife will be back.
On the second week of Dec, my wife joined me after her recovery and we had good return sex. My erection was strong but i lost its strength midway but i rebuilt my hardness and finished the job. It after her return that i completely stopped porn and other erotic stuff and got back to normal life.
Since, Dec, my erections have reduced, though i get morning wood but the strength of the erection is less. I am not able to rebuild my erection once i lose it and it is now very embarrassing and i am ashamed of myself.
I have tried to eat right, do exercise , cardio but nothing has helped.
I have tried combination of Zinc and Horney goat weed one day and Ginseng plus royal jelly other day but things haven't changed.
One more thing i have noticed is that i don't feel sexy within. I am not sure what is wrong with me and how to return back to normal life.
My wife is supportive though. She has consoled me that things will be back to normal soon, just like it was back to normal in July- august.
Now, is the time for fun and planning for future of my family but sadly i am not able to rise up. I am thinking about seeing the urologist again as my urine issue has't gone and this sexual issue has again come back.
I am 5.7" tall and i weigh 79 kgs. I feel heavy breathing after taking stairs. I am a bit worried as signs suggest that maybe i am suffering from something which isn't just psychological ... Porn induced ED.
Kindly help.
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