Confidence

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Last time I truly had that was in elementary school lol when I had not a care in the world. Penis size isnt everything, but it matters to an extent. Lack of length can make certain positions unenjoyable, or even impossible, and can even take away from the sexual experience altogether.
Im 20 years old, 21 in July. I'm 5.6 EL, 4 EG, 3.5 FL, prolly 2 FG. It should be self explanatory why I have confidence issues. My EQ is through the roof (hope to make my morning woods like that hah!), so I should be grateful for that, and that I have a blessed life despite the smaller size and problems that come with it. I'm so worried about not being able to please the girl I love, I'm smart and go after my money like a wildebeast, my face and skin tone are attractive, I have nice hair and have a charismatic loving personality when I'm not slightly sad over my size when seeing other men with big flaccids or reading the starting stats of members here way bigger than me. The girl I love is 1 of 1, and I hate hate hate, that I may disappoint her in sex. I guess visually speaking. I really hope to gain at least 1 inch in every aspect, am using the phallosan forte, jelqing for 30 mins every other day, speaking positive affirmations to make the Law of Attraction work for me. Also, im 5'6, hispanic, slender build.
So, guys with 6.5 EL 5-5.5 EG, even 7 inchers, youre better off in that department than you think. My goal is 7x5 but I'm focusing on length gains before girth gains, maybe both will come systematically, but for now, length gain is my motivation.
Thanks for reading, wish you all luck peace joy and may you satisfy in every way the woman you love.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

to the Gym!


Don't miss this thread!!!

Mental PE - Creating The Right Mindset

How you treat a lady makes all the difference, not how big is your penis. Be a good lover, and take care of her. And remember, use all your body, to please all of hers, and stimulate her mind before her body, that is what matters. Your penis is a part of you, have more confidence, ladies like's the penis for the man, not the man for his penis.

The Perils of Goal-Oriented Sex

Debunking A Popular Myth About the Female Orgasm


And if you haven't already done so, check the links on the navigation bar at the top of the page especially the START HERE Thread and focus on safety, you only have one penis, take good care of it.


Your goals are possible, but may take years, I recommend you set smaller goals to stay motivated. PE will greatly improve your penile health and increase your EQ, in addition to size gains, but you need to be consistent, patient and persistent, please do as much research as you can, ask questions, follow safety and exercise instructions carefully and remember that PE is a long term process, don't rush it up.


Pick one of the manual beginner routines and follow it for at least 90 days to condition your penis, or until you stop gaining. Most members here choose JP90, it is an intense routine, start slow, and build up to the full routine over a few weeks time, jelq with an erection level between 45% and 65% using a moderate grip, just enough to move blood up the shaft and to the glans.



Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!


Frequently Asked PE Questions and Topics



Good luck on your PE journey, PE safely!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Welcome aboard Serg!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Howdy!

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Thanks Mr.B8, thanks a lot

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

Welcome to the gym!

Just jump right in and get to work my friend! Sounds like you've got a great work ethic. I predict success coming your way!

Good luck and big gains!

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Saw my EG is below average. Nice

[Chris1324a Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chris1324a]

Bro you got this don't get desperate that is important. take it easy and slow make it a hobby like i have i find it fun. The gym is a great place. a lot more that just PE make it your home I have gotten help from PE to relationships and support when they ended haha great group of guys and a few gals on here enjoy.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hello Serg, nice to meet you!

Well, I have some good news, and some good news. Which do you want first?

Truth is, you have everything you need to be a pleasing lover. Your head and heart are in the right place, and your willingness will work to your benefit.

As for anything else, it can all be acquired. Size, EQ, more skill, and yes, even confidence. It may take time, but all good things usually do.

So, you have received some positive back already. Only more good will come.

Best of luck to you, and thanks for joining us!

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Hello Sergtheburg, and welcome to the Gym. Find that inner little boy, and enjoy the confidence and carefree attitude you still possess. If it was in you it still is. Quit burying that side of your personality. Love yourself and your penis it is wonderful and so are you. As you said your gal is 1of1 and so are you. If you don't heap a bunch of insecurities onto your penis you will make her very happy and satisfied.
Now the part that this site was designed for Penis Enhancement. Be safe, consistent, persistent, and patient and you can meet your goals.

[GeeMox Retired Moderator Member of the Month April 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GeeMox]

Glad to have you with us, have a safe PE journey!

[daddy man Member Find all posts View Profile Close daddy man]

Serg, Try to avoid comparing yourself to other guys. It sounds like you have a lot of positive qualities that are more important than penis size. Also, if you build a relationship with a woman before you have sex with her , it takes away the pressure to perform. Have fun and enjoy youth.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hello Serg!

Welcome to our friendly and helpful community. Since the male members have already provided you with some great advice and links, I just wanted to stop by to let you know that there are also some insightful and supportive ladies available on the forum as well should you have any questions for us. We can often be located in the following forums:

A Woman's Perspective

Relationship Forum

The Gym

Wishing you much success on your PE journey!

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Thank you all family. I guess I'm wondering, thank God she is a virgin, n says she doesn't care about size (she may feel that way cause she hasn't had sex and hasn't been made love to with a big penis.) N says theres a lot of guys that are small yet have gfs. Idk. But, yes I have good character qualities and attributes, but, what if she or the woman I marry later in life, like me, but just aren't a big fan of my d? If she loses physical attraction to me, how long will we last? Isnt every part of the man needed to satisfy a woman? Ik it depends on the woman, but still.

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

Thank you all family. I guess I'm wondering, thank God she is a virgin, n says she doesn't care about size (she may feel that way cause she hasn't had sex and hasn't been made love to with a big penis.) N says theres a lot of guys that are small yet have gfs. Idk. But, yes I have good character qualities and attributes, but, what if she or the woman I marry later in life, like me, but just aren't a big fan of my d? If she loses physical attraction to me, how long will we last? Isnt every part of the man needed to satisfy a woman? Ik it depends on the woman, but still.

You're worrying about things you have no business worrying about right now. Maybe with PE your dick will get big enough that it will be the reason a woman who likes you still has to leave, because it's just too big for her. Or maybe you'll find someone who is a perfect match for whatever you have at the time. Or maybe you'll be in a massive car accident and your penis will be the least of your worries.

Don't make the mistake of allowing yourself to overthink the future. This is especially pointless when it comes to relationships. The person you may marry a few years from now literally does not yet exist! The person you will be at that time also does not exist, yet.