Introduction! Cannot wait!

[ben22 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben22]

Hi Guys,
This is a little bit about me and how/why i got started

Well it all started a couple of weeks ago when i stupidly decided to quiz my girlfriend on the size of her Ex boyfriends size( dont ask me why) anyway needless to say this guy must of been a horse in a previous life. I felt extremely embarrassed about my own size and felt like a lesser man.
I have always been a bit on the touchy side when it comes to size even though from what i can see mine is average i am
BPFL- 4.5 inches
FG - 4 inches middle and 4.25 inches at the base
BPEL- 6Inchs
EG- 5inches

So from what i read on the forum that is average size? Please correct me if i am wrong, Would be great if they had a poll with everyones sizes!

Anyway i am really excited and optimistic about starting, i just want to jump straight into it, i have already had one session. from the JP90 tutorial. I follow everything to a T as i am the type of person who follows instructions religiously!! But i have to keep in mind to take it slowly and be patient


My goal is to get to
BPEL-7.5inches
EG 6inches
Depending on how long the results take it may be increased if i am a fast grower. Would really like to see changes on my flaccid length though!

Unlike some other people who may be lurkers, I will be a active part of this community and will Update you guys on any changes and hopefully help other people out when i have a bit of experience as well!

Thanks guys!

[ben22 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben22]

Also Please feel free to give me any tips as i always appreciate anything that will help me and i will always take advice on board. Plus feel free to ask me any questions!

[7254s Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7254s]

Every ex is hung like horse, don't think about it, every woman are playing games with your brain just to make you insecure. Your penis is bigger side of average. Start usual newbie routine for now and I wish you luck

[ben22 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben22]

Thanks bro

Appreciate the message! All the best for you as well

[GeeMox Retired Moderator Member of the Month April 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GeeMox]

Another story of 'Battle of the size between Ex-Boyfriend' well your story is very common in this place. Probably I read this kind of story more than 10x. Like 7254s said, she wanted to make you insecure. Your penis is fine love it and be proud.

Good place to start is do some reading in the START HERE thread! lots of good info there that I'm sure will guide you on your PE journey.

Start slow and build up overtime, jelq with an erection level between 45% and 65% using a light moderate grip, enough to move up the blood in to the shaft and glans.

Helpful Jelqing Information

Keep your eye in your PI's, it will help you to determine if you're doing something wrong or right.

Physiological Indicators

Start a progress log to track your workouts, post your positive and negative experiences, gain motivation, and receive feedback from other members.

For the healthy mindset, check out this thread.

Mental PE - Creating The Right Mindset

Glad to have you with us, have a safe PE journey!

[ben22 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben22]

Thanks for the articles, some good information! Will keep that in mind!

[GeeMox Retired Moderator Member of the Month April 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GeeMox]

Thanks for the articles, some good information! Will keep that in mind!

You're welcome
ask if you have further questions or something can't understand, members here are willing to help.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

You have a great mindset in your approach to getting started, that's very important. Setting a new goal when you have reached your first is a great idea also, I have changed mine a couple of times.


The guys above have given you some great advice and links to help get you started. There is a lot to learn, so use your time during the JP90 to further educate yourself. There is a wealth of information here, do plenty of reading and don't hesitate to ask questions.


The key to being successful is to be dedicated, consistent and patient. PE does work, but it won't happen overnight. The rewards for putting in the time and effort are well worth it in the end.

Looking forward to hearing more from you.


Good luck and always PE safely.

[5_in_model Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 5_in_model]

most likely, the common denominator of every one of us here is to be 'man-size' in the pork department. I measure out at approx. 4 inches at ease, 5 inches at attention, and when I pump, I can get to 6. I'm in my 50's and have been sport-fucking since my teenage days. that said, I have never had a woman who even hinted at pussy-whipping me over whether I measured up. I have to admit, a woman who would do that is just out to wrap you around her little finger.

I'm new to the club, too, and as I said in my intro I want to hang longer and stand taller. I've never actually felt like I didn't measure up, so to speak, but a while back I got the desire and made the decision to see if I could accomplish getting into the big-dick leagues.

I'm a fairly randy dude, so as a quick fix, I started wearing a silicone cock extender that gave me a 'man-size' 7 inch trouser trout when I was out socializing, and after a few times in bed with a gal, I would finally wear it to bed for her on the third date, and got nothing but rave reviews. of course, I realize it's only a matter of time before some babe laughs me out of bed, so I started sniffing around for ways to get 'man-size' on my own and found the gym.

since I just kind of started the discipline of building a longer rod, I haven't gained all that much, but I am definitely hanging longer at ease, and I'm one of those show-off guys who shaves it all off. that said, earlier this week in the locker room after racket-ball league, a dude checked me out and gave me my first compliment on my longer wang. Friday nite, I took a somewhat steady hottie out to dinner, and after a night of supremely satisfying screwing, during which she complimented my hard dick, I was standing nude in my kitchen having my second coffee when she finally rolled out of bed and joined me. after she kissed me good morning and we felt each other up, she sat down and checked me out. I'd F'd her good and bottomed her out during lovemaking, and as she looked at me with that grateful womanly smile, I started to stiffen and stepped over to her. we hadn't partied in about a month, and as she rewarded me with a sexy b-j, she did mention that I seemed 'bigger' than she remembered.

moral of the story - size matters! know it and grow it.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Welcome to the Gym Ben. Have fun and be safe. Seems like you already have that mind set. Good luck.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

Welcome to the gym! If you have questions related to a females point of view, don't hesitate to ask. There are a few of us here that say it how it is and pull no punches.

[Hacker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hacker]

Welcome to the gym ben22

[ben22 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben22]

Thanks for the contribution guys and girls, feel so good that there is a forum full of helpful individuals, ready to help with any questions. good to see that everyone goes through the same thing and at the end of the day we are not alone! thanks to PE Gym!!

[GettinBig1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GettinBig1]

Good luck! I think JP90 is a good choice for you. Keep in mind, you may not (or you also may) get a ton of gains from that since the main purpose is to condition you, but that doesn't mean its not working! I also notice that you are measuring flaccid size. I would encourage you to measure bpel, but keep in mind that flaccid girth and flaccid length will change based on many factors (temperature, etc). If you are choosing to take measurements when you are flaccid, may i suggest taking a bone pressed flaccid stretch length measurement? Much more consistent than flaccid length and flaccid girth! Or, if you choose to measure those, just be aware that they will probably be inconsistent!

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Hey, welcome aboard. Have a look at the league of legends thread and the top performers thread in my signature.