Please allow me to vent.

[Changeling Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Changeling]

just need an outlet. Lost my girl not too long ago of 2 years. I'm 18 and I don't wanna sound like a bitch but it hurts a lot. I've been thinking a lot about how cold hearted a girl can be and it really got me thinking, more than ever before the age old question. Does size matter to her? She didn't mention anything about it, but being paranoid I just assumed it. Me thinking I was small I believe killed my relationship, not because I couldn't please her but because I could'nt accept myself and that carried over to a lot of different aspects of the relationship.

I'm average, 6.5x 5.5 and I always thought I was small flaccid. Maybe it was the jeans I was wearing or just the overhead perspective. I do tend to look small for some reason (grower not shower). It really can drive you nuts to think about your size almost every 3 seconds of your life as a young guy. I should have been thinking about sex in that time frame lol. It's really a psychological thing. I am good at sex. I'm confident in that. But it would be nice to have that sercurity to know you have a large measure of manhood down there by everyone's standards.

You can't tell a man's penis size by the size of his hands, feet, or nose but it's a pretty good guess to assume by his confidence. And thats what women look for. I know I'm coming from the perspective of a kid from the internet age of porn. Shit thats how I learned, and from those images theres a lot to live up to. Society is now pushing that big dicks are the best and women are definately buying it, I hear comments all the time at parties (so and so has a HUGE one). Just like women have the pressures of having big breasts. That pressure can drive you nuts and I'm thanking god for these techniques and I want to be free from that worry. I dont want that to drive my life.

Best over-compensation, it's a fuckin solution!

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

I'm sorry you lost your lady.

Are you measurements BP or NBP?

NBPEL, I am 6.5 approx by 5.10 girth...That's as big as yours...It's not small. Trust me. My first girlfriend that lasted a year said it was very good. I managed to hurt her when we would have sex. I'm also very good at sex thanks to watching porn. My current girlfriend, which it has been 7 months now, absolutely loves my penis. She's a small girl but she knows how to take it up the pussy. I ALWAYS, I mean ALWAYS manage to hurt her while we have sex. Once, she had tears in her eyes after intense sex.

Your penis isnt small.

Sure, I feel like my penis isnt that big. Some days, I feel like its small. Other days, I feel pretty good about it. Today, I felt great about it with my girlfriend.

But that's why we're here. Natural penis enlargement through exercising. I cant wait to get my dream dick one day. Hopefully in 3 months from now, Im gonna get some nice gains. Its been 1 month of PE so far and I feel a big difference. My erection is MUCH harder and my girth and length increased a bit. Can you imagine what you'll get after 1 year of PE?

Stay in there man. Youre gonna get the dick of your dreams.

Tell yourself this: some guys have really tiny dicks. They would do anything for 6.5 x 5.0 like yours. Be patient, you'll be a 8.5 x 6 in no time

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Thats sad what porn did to young people. It ruiuned a generation. Sites like this one have to pick up the peices of the aftermath and help the injured and dieing.

[Heat89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Heat89]

just need an outlet. Lost my girl not too long ago of 2 years. I'm 18 and I don't wanna sound like a bitch but it hurts a lot. I've been thinking a lot about how cold hearted a girl can be and it really got me thinking, more than ever before the age old question. Does size matter to her? She didn't mention anything about it, but being paranoid I just assumed it. Me thinking I was small I believe killed my relationship, not because I couldn't please her but because I could'nt accept myself and that carried over to a lot of different aspects of the relationship.

You're battling some serious anxiety. You need to address as a mental issue and not a physical one. No physical change can overcome it. It won't let you go if you put another inch on your dick.

I'm average, 6.5x 5.5 and I always thought I was small flaccid. Maybe it was the jeans I was wearing or just the overhead perspective. I do tend to look small for some reason (grower not shower). It really can drive you nuts to think about your size almost every 3 seconds of your life as a young guy. I should have been thinking about sex in that time frame lol. It's really a psychological thing. I am good at sex. I'm confident in that. But it would be nice to have that sercurity to know you have a large measure of manhood down there by everyone's standards.

You're perfectly normal and have nothing be so distraught over. Keep in mind that if a girl is going to judge you or see you negatively for being perfectly normal then she is not someone you want to waste any amount of your life with.

Your insecurities are your problem, though. You teach people how to treat you, and you can't teach anyone how to treat you better until you start to see and treat yourself better, as well.

You can't tell a man's penis size by the size of his hands, feet, or nose but it's a pretty good guess to assume by his confidence. And thats what women look for. I know I'm coming from the perspective of a kid from the internet age of porn. Shit thats how I learned, and from those images theres a lot to live up to. Society is now pushing that big dicks are the best and women are definately buying it, I hear comments all the time at parties (so and so has a HUGE one). Just like women have the pressures of having big breasts. That pressure can drive you nuts and I'm thanking god for these techniques and I want to be free from that worry. I dont want that to drive my life.

You're right, the only way she could know if he was packing is that he was confident. Even it wasn't packing, she'd believe it, only because he was confident.

It's the same for men and women. Confidence is what makes us sexy. Period.

You should believe that confidence should not be based upon any aspect of our physical selves.

The truth of the matter is, the size of your penis doesn't matter as much as the size of your ego.

I'm all for having a bigger penis, but IMO, it won't remove insecurities. There will always be somebody with a bigger penis and if you keep comparing yourself to others and finding faults then you'll never be happy.

Be content with what you have. That doesn't mean you (or I) wouldn't take another inch, but be confident.

If you exude the confidence that the guy with 9"s has then she won't even have any reason to look at him.

Thats sad what porn did to young people. It ruiuned a generation. Sites like this one have to pick up the peices of the aftermath and help the injured and dieing.

It's an epidemic that has not received the attention that it warrants.

Sites like this one are no replacement for therapy, though, and it seems like that's what some people are here for.

Sites like this should be approached from a healthy perspective, and no aspect of your emotional or mental well being should be dependent on the size of your johnson.

[Changeling Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Changeling]

I agree with you all. I have a lot of anxiety. Makes me feel awkward and makes me feel like everything i do needs to be a strategic move, like chess. It's not constant though. I have been to therapy before, but i've never talked about my size and how I wanted more, to anyone, ever. I just need to do some serious figuring.

I really want to be the best version of myself and I think PE is a great start. To see a big 8 inch down there knowing when she sees it her jaw will drop would make me feel fantastic. To the person who asked. it was bone pressed measurements. I know I don't have a small one but I have gotten comments from people I've hung out with numerous times that I have a small one. It's really hard to respond to something like that, you know? I end up sounding like a douch by saying, "it's not small, I can please a woman." A totally nervous and awkward response. You know I'd just love to have a big dick and whip it right out and say, "you think this is small?" lol, just a creepy revenge fantasy lol.

Like you guys were saying, I am average. But now average seems to be small. There is no medium as far as high school/ college party girls go... and thats a blunt statement. There is great girls out there who truly don't care about size and I would love to be with one of them... just seems I have to get better at pickin them.

we truly create our own hell and I'm gonna have a hell of a lot of peace and fun after a year... my PE is going great since she broke up with me. My dick will be a security blanket. hahahahha

Thank you all for your support, I really appreiciate it. Great community!!!!

[Dustpan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dustpan]

I agree with you all. I have a lot of anxiety. Makes me feel awkward and makes me feel like everything i do needs to be a strategic move, like chess. It's not constant though. I have been to therapy before, but i've never talked about my size and how I wanted more, to anyone, ever. I just need to do some serious figuring.

I really want to be the best version of myself and I think PE is a great start. To see a big 8 inch down there knowing when she sees it her jaw will drop would make me feel fantastic. To the person who asked. it was bone pressed measurements. I know I don't have a small one but I have gotten comments from people I've hung out with numerous times that I have a small one. It's really hard to respond to something like that, you know? I end up sounding like a douch by saying, "it's not small, I can please a woman." A totally nervous and awkward response. You know I'd just love to have a big dick and whip it right out and say, "you think this is small?" lol, just a creepy revenge fantasy lol.

Like you guys were saying, I am average. But now average seems to be small. There is no medium as far as high school/ college party girls go... and thats a blunt statement. There is great girls out there who truly don't care about size and I would love to be with one of them... just seems I have to get better at pickin them.

we truly create our own hell and I'm gonna have a hell of a lot of peace and fun after a year... my PE is going great since she broke up with me. My dick will be a security blanket. hahahahha

Thank you all for your support, I really appreiciate it. Great community!!!!

Changeling,

Don't get dicouraged with your size because when I started PE back in July of 2005 my size was a lot smaller then what you are starting out with EL-5.250" x EG 3.375" and I thought that I was average. So I can say that after 3-1/2 years that PE worked for me. Don't feel that you still have a small penis, with your stats you could reach the 8" x 6" if you are dedicated and patient with PE.